I think toddlers and up can act differently. I have only boys. The language acquisition in most girls far surpassed my boys at a young age. I think girls, on average, are capable of more at younger age than boys and that starts to even out in the tweens. We did not “gender” our boys. We didn’t care about any of that stuff. They primarily grew up overseas in a different culture anyway. But they are who they are, that’s for sure. |
+1 I don't think I am a man and I don't want to be, but I'm wired to think and act like one. |
+1 We were very gender neutral with both kids but some stuff is just hard wired. |
Rhymes with smurfs. |
By the time they’re toddlers, they definitely act differently. I recall in our playgroup that at age 2, the girls could sit quietly and flip through books while the boys were climbing on everything and ripping up said books. |
You've got it backwards. Those think that there are differences. The people who oppose them think there aren't. |
Oh, oh, pick me....I know....hair color, eye color, height, body type.... these are all genetic too. We can treat people different based on their skin color and gender. Oh, wait, we already do that. |
| These are differences ON AVERAGE. Learn what that means. There are sex differences in every system of the brain ON AVERAGE. You can't put any single individual into a box based on the group average, but you can describe what a population looks like on average. |
DP Well, pregnancy in this country is still considered under the disability act. Females and various racial groups are also protected by law. So, I'm gonna go with, yes- being female has been a disability for me. I can't say or do the same things as men without society consequences and judgements. |
First intelligent comment on this board. Brains are known to have neuroplasticity which means they change due to their environmental conditions. How do you separate our sexist environment to understand true biological differences. We can't. |
Quite the opposite. Women, having the ability to have children, need to know what the point of a man is. We already work and rear children, many of us completely by ourselves. Men will just be sperm donors. Men already get paid to jerk off, so this will never go away... |
Yet you can observe these differences from a very young age. The only people who think like you PP are people who have never had kids or raised them. People like you think they are going to raise a perfectly gender neutral child and own't subject your precious to a sexist environment until real life slaps you upside your stupid head. |
DP I think PP treated them differently then chalked their incentivized behavioral differences up to nature, not her (and society's) differential treatment. She basically pressed the "I don't want to think beyond the surface" button in her own brain. |
Yes!!! How to transgender brains factor into this! We need more info. |
Yes, clearly children are tabula rasa and are only gendered because their parents, consciously or subconsciously, taught them to be. SMH |