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Wow. Pretty wild to see this thread. I graduated from the magnet in the late 90s. We had maybe 3-4 kids with a 4.0 (UW) and down to the last, they ended up at HYP MIT/Cal Tech. Even the kids placing semifinalist in Westinghouse (now Intel) didn't have straight A's. I had a 3.75 and I ranked 30/100. Magnet kids back then got B's all the time, C's even and some kids actually failed (and got kicked out).
The distribution of present day grades is shocking. |
Agree with this. Mine is one of them! 2 semester Bs. At T10. (Also got 1/2 tuition plus NM award plus department money at UMD). |
DP. Agree with all of this (and our kids were probably same year)! One caveat is I think kids get mostly As, and a good chunk get straight As. But, a few Bs are not a deal breaker for college admissions (as my kid above w/2 Bs can attest to). It's not an arms race of a numbers game. It's really about how the student communicates who they are. Good guidance on the admissions process will be much more helpful than a fraction of a GPA point. |
That's a personality question. If your kid can can't handle not being #1, think about what that means for choosing a college, or working at a career. |
What's department money at UMD? Which departments do this? How much is available? |
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My kid is in SMCS and I can say it is a great program that works well for highly motivated students. Not every kid is going to be great at every subject so if the rigor is high, you should expect occasional B/C's here and there which is not a reflection on thier ability. It is a hard program - no doubt.
But honestly, the greatest pressure my kid feels is not from their peers. Sadly, its from me. I freak out when I see a bad score and pile on the pressure. So, as I have watched my DC learn to deal with the pressures of the program and me, I am equally working on trying to be less of a pain on them and trust that they have things under control and I should offer help when asked. So, my advice is to choose the program, stay out of the way of your kid and let them shine the way they are inevitably going to. |
| How is transportation to Blair from Rockville/North Bethesda? I currently have a 7th grader, zoned for WJ. |
| The word "average" stood out in your original post to me because the "average" magnet student represents probably 85-90 percent of the students. On the low end there are kids getting multiple Cs and there are usually only a few each year. The high end - like the genius kid who is in consideration for the Math Olympiad - is even more rare. There may be 1 or 2 of them in your child's grade or possibly none. If your child is "average" they are almost definitely highly gifted or PG and an incredibly hard worker and all those "average" magnet students do very well in college admissions if that's your concern. |
It’s not being #1. It’s being in the middle or even bottom of the class. There are 10+ or 20+ kids in every Blair SMAC class who win different types of national competitions. |
Math Olympiad is not the only academic competition. There are physics Olympiad, chemistry Olympiad, computing Olympiad, biology Olympiad, science Olympiad, etc. Not to mention other non academic competitions like musical instruments. |
You hope that what drives your child to the magnet is an inherent interest in STEM, research and problem solving. *Not* winning a competition or getting into a particular college. |
Of course, but still need to understand how that could impact self-esteem of a teenager. Multiple factors need to be considered before this decision. Mental health shouldn’t be taken lightly. |
You need to stop that right now. My kid has told me horrific stories of parents putting pressure on their kids in the magnet. Kids terrified to go home because they did poorly (where poorly is got a B) on a test, in tears because they don’t want to upset their parents, kids grounded because of a B in a non magnet class… parents who wrote their kids HS application for them, who won’t let their kids choose their own electives.. I could go on. It’s really sad for those kids. |
| I have a senior and it’s not a pressure cooker. He’s gotten all As and I think 2 Bs. He works hard but has a nice cohort to call to work on hard problems together. It’s an amazing program- great teachers, opportunities. So far my son is 4/6 in terms of college applications so it all works out. If you’re gunning for college in 9th grade and have a competitive kid, wanting to beat out peers etc, that’s not the vibe in my experience. definitely a neat place. |
Long and slow. |