Rush consultants

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The are real, but IMO they don't help get into the 'good' sororities. That is all connections. If you don't have them (right camps, right schools, family friends, vacation spots, etc) then consultants can't fix that.

Ok I know it sounds crazy, but if your kid ends even a school like Michigan or other Big 10/SEC schools, AND you do vacation in the right spots/go to private school/have a somewhat fancy life make sure they have “some” social media presence showing their “lifestyle”…esp if kids /you are more low key….and if your family name isn’t googleable…

Our kids are super low key - bc we’ve taught them to be and not post anything showcasing our life; but that’s not helpful for rush…..for Rush it’s important to have some of this stuff on social media (save as destinations to stories section on IG)….start early in high school…

Trust me.
Btdt.
Will give your kid more house options out of the gate.

This kind of stuff is so sad.

It is not that different than padding resumes with ECs and bogus awards to get in to the 'right' universities. Truth be told the quality of secondary education is not that different among the top 100ish schools (because the education is what the kids make of it) but parents convince themselves there is a big difference when really it is name value/branding/connections which is not really different than rush and greek life when it comes down to it.

And that’s sad too.

[Anonymous]

Tell me again how sororities help you make lifelong friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The are real, but IMO they don't help get into the 'good' sororities. That is all connections. If you don't have them (right camps, right schools, family friends, vacation spots, etc) then consultants can't fix that.

Ok I know it sounds crazy, but if your kid ends even a school like Michigan or other Big 10/SEC schools, AND you do vacation in the right spots/go to private school/have a somewhat fancy life make sure they have “some” social media presence showing their “lifestyle”…esp if kids /you are more low key….and if your family name isn’t googleable…

Our kids are super low key - bc we’ve taught them to be and not post anything showcasing our life; but that’s not helpful for rush…..for Rush it’s important to have some of this stuff on social media (save as destinations to stories section on IG)….start early in high school…

Trust me.
Btdt.
Will give your kid more house options out of the gate.

This kind of stuff is so sad.

Ehh.
It’s the way of the world.
Plus sororities are only social and don’t determine career prospects.

Preparing social media in HS to show you went on cool enough trips? I'm sorry - that's sad.

But is true. And kids check out others instas to get roommate matched - so kids curate the versions of themselves for that as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The are real, but IMO they don't help get into the 'good' sororities. That is all connections. If you don't have them (right camps, right schools, family friends, vacation spots, etc) then consultants can't fix that.

Ok I know it sounds crazy, but if your kid ends even a school like Michigan or other Big 10/SEC schools, AND you do vacation in the right spots/go to private school/have a somewhat fancy life make sure they have “some” social media presence showing their “lifestyle”…esp if kids /you are more low key….and if your family name isn’t googleable…

Our kids are super low key - bc we’ve taught them to be and not post anything showcasing our life; but that’s not helpful for rush…..for Rush it’s important to have some of this stuff on social media (save as destinations to stories section on IG)….start early in high school…

Trust me.
Btdt.
Will give your kid more house options out of the gate.

Is this true for boys too? My son is pretty cool but doesn't post on insta.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The are real, but IMO they don't help get into the 'good' sororities. That is all connections. If you don't have them (right camps, right schools, family friends, vacation spots, etc) then consultants can't fix that.

Ok I know it sounds crazy, but if your kid ends even a school like Michigan or other Big 10/SEC schools, AND you do vacation in the right spots/go to private school/have a somewhat fancy life make sure they have “some” social media presence showing their “lifestyle”…esp if kids /you are more low key….and if your family name isn’t googleable…

Our kids are super low key - bc we’ve taught them to be and not post anything showcasing our life; but that’s not helpful for rush…..for Rush it’s important to have some of this stuff on social media (save as destinations to stories section on IG)….start early in high school…

Trust me.
Btdt.
Will give your kid more house options out of the gate.

Is this true for boys too? My son is pretty cool but doesn't post on insta.

Sadly, it's true. My kids in HS and MS judge other people their age based on their Instagram accounts and number of followers. It apparently looks bad if you follow more people than the number of people who follow you. I'm not saying I agree with it but this is the reality.

[Anonymous]

Every post on DCUM about greek life makes me hate it even more than I already do. I'm so glad my kids have no interest in rushing!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The are real, but IMO they don't help get into the 'good' sororities. That is all connections. If you don't have them (right camps, right schools, family friends, vacation spots, etc) then consultants can't fix that.

Ok I know it sounds crazy, but if your kid ends even a school like Michigan or other Big 10/SEC schools, AND you do vacation in the right spots/go to private school/have a somewhat fancy life make sure they have “some” social media presence showing their “lifestyle”…esp if kids /you are more low key….and if your family name isn’t googleable…

Our kids are super low key - bc we’ve taught them to be and not post anything showcasing our life; but that’s not helpful for rush…..for Rush it’s important to have some of this stuff on social media (save as destinations to stories section on IG)….start early in high school…

Trust me.
Btdt.
Will give your kid more house options out of the gate.

Is this true for boys too? My son is pretty cool but doesn't post on insta.

Sadly, it's true. My kids in HS and MS judge other people their age based on their Instagram accounts and number of followers. It apparently looks bad if you follow more people than the number of people who follow you. I'm not saying I agree with it but this is the reality.

Yep, this is the kind of dumbed down society we live in. There is often an inverse relationship between number of followers and IQ.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who else laughed?

I couldn't laugh because my jaw was on the floor, and I was render speechless.

+1
Same here!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Absurd, but totally real. This is for people who also hire interior decorators for their daughter's dorm room.

You think I'm kidding?

True.

Yikes to both. So, so absurd.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The are real, but IMO they don't help get into the 'good' sororities. That is all connections. If you don't have them (right camps, right schools, family friends, vacation spots, etc) then consultants can't fix that.

Ok I know it sounds crazy, but if your kid ends even a school like Michigan or other Big 10/SEC schools, AND you do vacation in the right spots/go to private school/have a somewhat fancy life make sure they have “some” social media presence showing their “lifestyle”…esp if kids /you are more low key….and if your family name isn’t googleable…

Our kids are super low key - bc we’ve taught them to be and not post anything showcasing our life; but that’s not helpful for rush…..for Rush it’s important to have some of this stuff on social media (save as destinations to stories section on IG)….start early in high school…

Trust me.
Btdt.
Will give your kid more house options out of the gate.

Is this true for boys too? My son is pretty cool but doesn't post on insta.

This is sad. If you chase status and money as your source of happiness, you will never be happy. There will never be enough status and money for you.

[Anonymous]

Omg this is too much.

And that’s saying a lot because I posted like 60% of the explanatory posts on the UVA rush thread. I find the study and statistics of the process endlessly fascinating and my kids are still 8 years+ from college.

But a “rush consultant” to engineer the outcome just seems a step too desperate somehow.

I feel that way about college and essay consultants too though and I realize that I’m oddly in the minority on that as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Every post on DCUM about greek life makes me hate it even more than I already do. I'm so glad my kids have no interest in rushing!

I kinda thing that was the point of this thread though.

No one in DCUM really believes this would be the forum to post something like that and not get flamed, right?

I think we can collectively assume that it was designed to feed the already-existing rage-hate toward sorority life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Absurd, but totally real. This is for people who also hire interior decorators for their daughter's dorm room.

You think I'm kidding?

I don’t think YOU are kidding but I d think OP was.
This isn’t Bama.

[Anonymous]

This is insane.

[Anonymous]

I’m the OP.

Not a joke. People referenced “rush consultants” in the UVA post so I thought to ask. Sheesh.

And then someone bumped up another thread.

Food for thought here though. Appreciate the thoughtful constructive responses.