Dh Directed us to shovel deck - update

Anonymous
Well played, OP.


This is why marriages are in trouble
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I'm interested. Please update.


I’m interested too! Let us know what he says.

Well played, OP.


+1
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Shoveling a deck would take like, two seconds compared to doing the whole driveway and the sidewalk. I don’t know that this makes the point you think this makes?


The point is to see if DH does it himself, if he deems it so important. I’m guessing he won’t.
-not OP


But if so, what will you do with the information? Because so far you took his directives, did what he wanted, and now you did even more. So if you prove your point, and I agree that's the likely outcome, then what?


She didn't do what he wanted. He wanted the deck cleared.


Wrong. She did clear it. Go read the thread. It’s so pathetic.

How much has it even snowed since yesterday? An coating of an inch or so on a deck might legitimately not be worth shoveling anymore! Although I (DH) would remove that much from the driveway.


Not OP, but we got the same amount today (4 inches) that we got Tuesday. Definitely shovel-able!
Anonymous
Dumb. Just shovel your property’s damn snow while it is fresh. It takes 5x the energy to remove snow once it’s frozen overnight.

Also, I hope you salted after you shoveled. It makes subsequent snow removal a lot easier.

It’s your property; take care of it.
Anonymous
You better update this!
Anonymous
I want to know what happens too!
Anonymous
I’m invested and get it, OP!

And no deck would collapse under 8 inches of snow if it had never been shoveled at all. Things collapse under feet of heavy snow. —midwestern lake effect snow sufferer
Anonymous
Yeah, agreed that it’s totally unnecessary to shovel the deck with just this amount of snow!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:So your DH tricked you into shoveling the driveway and sidewalk? Wow, you sure got him!


Oh no, the briar patch!
Anonymous
By spring this is gonna be "He was cheating on me while I shoveled the deck!" and "I was so miserable because she wouldn't just shovel the deck; I had to cheat!"
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No, the only update worth reading would be the one where you text husband, “I need you to shovel the deck as soon as you get home. And also get your jeans out of the drier.”


+1
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Anonymous wrote:By spring this is gonna be "He was cheating on me while I shoveled the deck!" and "I was so miserable because she wouldn't just shovel the deck; I had to cheat!"


That made me lol 😆
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My 16 YO DD and I played a switcheroo on Dh today.

We shoveled the driveway and sidewalk while he was at work.

So now we will see how important it is to shovel off snow from the unused, perfectly sound, strong deck.

Will update later!


Your toxic pettiness about this this is really something.
Anonymous
Count me in, please update us OP!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, the only update worth reading would be the one where you text husband, “I need you to shovel the deck as soon as you get home. And also get your jeans out of the drier.”


+1


+1 now you gotta text him a shitty little note too, demanding that he shovel the deck, for safety’s sake.
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