AITA if DW and I agreed on no Christmas gifts but I get her some anyway

[Anonymous]

It sounds very nice and you will get bonus points from her family.

[Anonymous]

Women here. You're a smart man. I would love it if my husband still got me something for Christmas even though we'd agreed no gifts. And I wouldn't feel bad that I hadn't gotten him anything because gifts are not as important to him and anyway that was our agreement. Don't tell her in advance; that'll only fill her with stress to have to go out at the last minute and find something for you. Of course, this assumes YOU'RE not going to be hurt that she didn't get you anything. Hopefully you won't. In your wife's shoes, I would just make sure to take good care of you in the bedroom that night.

[Anonymous]

BFD… Do what you want to do and deal with it later. No, you’re not the A. 🤦‍♂️

[Anonymous]

The collectible she tried to buy but couldn’t will be a winner despite the no gift rule. Just tell her you knew she loved it, was disappointed in not getting it and you found it for her and got it despite the rule. Trust me, she will be putty in your hands for at least 24-48 hours. Some rules are made to be broken.

[Anonymous]

OP here with a quick update. DW loved the collectible, cried a little bit, and jumped on my lap to give me a hug/kiss.

She also ended up surprising me with a similarly inexpensive but sentimental/personal gift and explained that she wasn't going to get a gift for me but one of my best friends recently recommended it to her after seeing it online.

All in all, a good day and I thank my online women consultants for y'all advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here with a quick update. DW loved the collectible, cried a little bit, and jumped on my lap to give me a hug/kiss.

She also ended up surprising me with a similarly inexpensive but sentimental/personal gift and explained that she wasn't going to get a gift for me but one of my best friends recently recommended it to her after seeing it online.

All in all, a good day and I thank my online women consultants for y'all advice.

I love this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here with a quick update. DW loved the collectible, cried a little bit, and jumped on my lap to give me a hug/kiss.

She also ended up surprising me with a similarly inexpensive but sentimental/personal gift and explained that she wasn't going to get a gift for me but one of my best friends recently recommended it to her after seeing it online.

All in all, a good day and I thank my online women consultants for y'all advice.

I love this.

Lovely story. We'll put the bill in the mail

[Anonymous]

You could do either/or.

Yes, you could tell your wife prior to Christmas (though my advice here would obviously be too late to take!) or tell her after the fact.

Hoping everything worked itself out for you OP! 🎄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here with a quick update. DW loved the collectible, cried a little bit, and jumped on my lap to give me a hug/kiss.

She also ended up surprising me with a similarly inexpensive but sentimental/personal gift and explained that she wasn't going to get a gift for me but one of my best friends recently recommended it to her after seeing it online.

All in all, a good day and I thank my online women consultants for y'all advice.

I love this.

Great! It's like the Gift of the Magi story only with a happy ending.