| DH is very enthusiastic. Only married 4 years, so we’ll see what happens over time. |
| We’ve been married a long time and we are still very enthusiastic. Threads like this can be very depressing. |
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What does enthusiasm mean?
My partner initiates, shows interest in my body, not just my genitals, and always prefers to go down on me first. I also initiate, like touching whether or not it leads to sex, and sex can mean either oral, hands, or PIV, or some combination. Sometimes includes toys. |
Sounds like you both are enthusiastic, and enviable for those of us who aren’t experiencing that. |
| To me, enthusiasm means she's happy to be invited to the party; maybe even think of a little something to bring so she doesn't arrive empty handed. "I'll go if I have to" is not an enthusiastic party guest. |
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It depends entirely on how I’m feeling.
When I feel good, yes. When I’m overburdened, not so much. I’m not a blow up doll. |
| He’s always enthusiastic as we are both very good at meeting each others needs. There are a couple of things I do to him, not all the time, that make him very enthusiastic. |