Helping young adult with proposal planning

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hire an airplane to sky write, “Will you marry me?” Then your son gets down on one knee and holds out the ring. His girlfriend cries and screams, “YES! With all my heart yes!” Their friend videos the whole thing from behind a bush.

Let’s throw mom out of the plane with ring in tow.

[Anonymous]

If he asks for help when they decide to have a child, politely but firmly decline.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Certainly! Here are some ideas for a happy and memorable proposal:
* Scenic Location: Choose a beautiful, meaningful location such as a favorite park, a beach at sunset, a mountaintop, or a place that holds sentimental value for both of you.
* Personalized Touches: Incorporate elements that are special to your relationship, such as photos, favorite songs, or inside jokes.
* Surprise Party: Organize a surprise engagement party with family and friends right after the proposal to celebrate the moment together.
* Creative Proposals: Consider a flash mob, a message in a bottle, a romantic scavenger hunt leading to the proposal spot, or a surprise message in a public place.
* Capture the Moment: Hire a photographer or arrange for someone to discreetly capture the proposal, so you can cherish the memories forever.
* Incorporate Shared Interests: Plan the proposal around an activity or hobby you both enjoy, like hiking, cooking, or a favorite sport.
* Private Dinner or Picnic: Set up a candlelit dinner or a cozy picnic in a private setting where you can pop the question in an intimate atmosphere.

Remember, the most important thing is to make the proposal authentic to your relationship and what you both value.

LOL. Thanks chatgpt!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please share your ideas or tips to make it a happy and memorable occasion for a young couple.

I'm withholding background information to respect their privacy and to avoid limiting your imagination with given data.

Everyone is jumping on OP but does he/she say anywhere that this is her child? Just says it is a "young adult."

[Anonymous]

The only person I ever helped with a proposal was when a friend asked me for a referral for someone they wanted to pay to make something to aid them in their elaborate plan. So I knew early, and I referred them, and I stayed out of it, and it went well.

We need more content here. Is this a 10 years younger friend at work, or a child, or a nephew who is proposing to your college roommate's daughter so you are close....?

[Anonymous]

The best way to help is to use this moment to ask leading questions to encourage the proposer's effort to think about what would be appreciated by the proposed. Not to offer your own ideas.

[Anonymous]

Oh FFS, stay out of it. Proposals aren't stage productions. Sheesh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh FFS, stay out of it. Proposals aren't stage productions. Sheesh

The best thing a godparent can do it emphasize that staging a proposal scene may be fun, but marriage should be a mutual decision, and they need to be thinking about how to create a marriage in which she's not the one carrying the mental load.

Beats the hell out of a princess-cut engagement ring.

[Anonymous]

Stay out of it, but offer one piece of advice: if you're planning an elaborate proposal because girlfriend expects/demands it, rethink what your marriage will look like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best way to help is to use this moment to ask leading questions to encourage the proposer's effort to think about what would be appreciated by the proposed. Not to offer your own ideas.

Good advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please share your ideas or tips to make it a happy and memorable occasion for a young couple.

I'm withholding background information to respect their privacy and to avoid limiting your imagination with given data.

No no no

Parents do not help their adult son propose.

Or are you going to walk your village to her village and check out the dowry? Ride white horses or elephants? Pick your poop.

[Anonymous]

Do not wait to propose.

Do not hem and haw and wait for some perfect event or trip or planned BS. Just propose at night on the couch. Be a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it was my child, I would suggest they ask their friends for advice or look up ideas on social media.

I have never participated in one or had one and so not really sure what the expectation is.

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Omg. Dont crowd source or internet source your proposals, speeches, plans.

Grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Certainly! Here are some ideas for a happy and memorable proposal:
* Scenic Location: Choose a beautiful, meaningful location such as a favorite park, a beach at sunset, a mountaintop, or a place that holds sentimental value for both of you.
* Personalized Touches: Incorporate elements that are special to your relationship, such as photos, favorite songs, or inside jokes.
* Surprise Party: Organize a surprise engagement party with family and friends right after the proposal to celebrate the moment together.
* Creative Proposals: Consider a flash mob, a message in a bottle, a romantic scavenger hunt leading to the proposal spot, or a surprise message in a public place.
* Capture the Moment: Hire a photographer or arrange for someone to discreetly capture the proposal, so you can cherish the memories forever.
* Incorporate Shared Interests: Plan the proposal around an activity or hobby you both enjoy, like hiking, cooking, or a favorite sport.
* Private Dinner or Picnic: Set up a candlelit dinner or a cozy picnic in a private setting where you can pop the question in an intimate atmosphere.

Remember, the most important thing is to make the proposal authentic to your relationship and what you both value.

Yuck.
What is this? How to marry a cheesy internet influencer or a lift from some gossip rag?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please share your ideas or tips to make it a happy and memorable occasion for a young couple.

I'm withholding background information to respect their privacy and to avoid limiting your imagination with given data.

Everyone is jumping on OP but does he/she say anywhere that this is her child? Just says it is a "young adult."

Who cares. Same advice: grownup and do it yourself or don’t get married