I wish I were skinny and flat chested

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Grass is always greener. Always.

+1

[Anonymous]

I appreciate my small frame and chest, AND I envy how well pants fit women who have curves. We all want what someone else has!

[Anonymous]

I think this is BS. No one actually wishes they were flat chested. You might say that because *some* models/actresses are built that way and it can make certain clothes (like a very narrow range of clothes) look good on them that won't look good on others. But we're talking like this narrow range of styles that people associate with Audrey Hepburn. Certain high necklines (though not all). That's it. There are also styles that only look good on someone with a large chest. If you are looking for inspiration, look at photos of Kim K, Salma Hayek, Christina Hendricks. These women are all considered beautiful and sexy.

Flat-chested girls get teased and harassed for it, just like girls who develop early and have large chests do. They struggle with buying clothes and with things fitting as they are "supposed" to. They are often told that their bodies are incorrect or not sufficiently feminine. You'd just be trading one extreme for another.

If your problem is having a hard-to-fit body or only being able to wear a narrow range of clothing, you should envy women with B and C cups and a classic bust-waist-hip ratio. Also being average to slightly above average height (5'4" to 5'6") means it is easy to buy pants and that skirts/dresses will hit you at the intended point.

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way OP. I HATE my boobs!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Larget breasts are lovely in youth but by middle age they are matronly and ugly. Yes, I appreciate how my body birthed 3 kids and yada, yada but ugh. I would give a lot for a lithe, flat chested figure. This type of body ages much, much better.

That's the trade off. Flat chested women get ignored or even made fun of when they are young. But their bodies look more youthful and better in clothes at middle age.

You probably didn't mind this dynamic when you were 22.

[Anonymous]

There are solutions for most of these complaints if you are that unhappy:

Breast reduction or breast augmentation

For weight, diet, semaglutide or gastric bypass

For height,well, I think you are stuck with that...

[Anonymous]

Please love your bodies, ladies. I also wished I was thinner as I had big boobs and a belly. Then I had breast cancer at 40, a mascetomy, and doctors used my belly fat to reconstruct breasts. I look better in clothes now but would go back to my original body in a heartbeat if I could, since I no longer have sensation in my belly or chest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Larget breasts are lovely in youth but by middle age they are matronly and ugly. Yes, I appreciate how my body birthed 3 kids and yada, yada but ugh. I would give a lot for a lithe, flat chested figure. This type of body ages much, much better.

That's the trade off. Flat chested women get ignored or even made fun of when they are young. But their bodies look more youthful and better in clothes at middle age.

You probably didn't mind this dynamic when you were 22.

34b and I was definitely not ignored.

Have you all seen the Americans? Keri Russell is arguably a very attractive woman and she is a very small a cup.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Larget breasts are lovely in youth but by middle age they are matronly and ugly. Yes, I appreciate how my body birthed 3 kids and yada, yada but ugh. I would give a lot for a lithe, flat chested figure. This type of body ages much, much better.

That's the trade off. Flat chested women get ignored or even made fun of when they are young. But their bodies look more youthful and better in clothes at middle age.

You probably didn't mind this dynamic when you were 22.

34b and I was definitely not ignored.

Have you all seen the Americans? Keri Russell is arguably a very attractive woman and she is a very small a cup.

Agreed! But most women are not Keri Russell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Larget breasts are lovely in youth but by middle age they are matronly and ugly. Yes, I appreciate how my body birthed 3 kids and yada, yada but ugh. I would give a lot for a lithe, flat chested figure. This type of body ages much, much better.

That's the trade off. Flat chested women get ignored or even made fun of when they are young. But their bodies look more youthful and better in clothes at middle age.

You probably didn't mind this dynamic when you were 22.

34b and I was definitely not ignored.

Have you all seen the Americans? Keri Russell is arguably a very attractive woman and she is a very small a cup.

34b is not flat chested

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Larget breasts are lovely in youth but by middle age they are matronly and ugly. Yes, I appreciate how my body birthed 3 kids and yada, yada but ugh. I would give a lot for a lithe, flat chested figure. This type of body ages much, much better.

That's the trade off. Flat chested women get ignored or even made fun of when they are young. But their bodies look more youthful and better in clothes at middle age.

You probably didn't mind this dynamic when you were 22.

34b and I was definitely not ignored.

Have you all seen the Americans? Keri Russell is arguably a very attractive woman and she is a very small a cup.

34b is not flat cheated.

Flat cheated means a-cup or smaller. Literally flat.

Keri Russel is gorgeous but she's small and delicate everywhere. She has delicate bone structure in her face and delicate shoulders. There are also thin, flat chested women who wish they looked like her but don't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Larget breasts are lovely in youth but by middle age they are matronly and ugly. Yes, I appreciate how my body birthed 3 kids and yada, yada but ugh. I would give a lot for a lithe, flat chested figure. This type of body ages much, much better.

That's the trade off. Flat chested women get ignored or even made fun of when they are young. But their bodies look more youthful and better in clothes at middle age.

You probably didn't mind this dynamic when you were 22.

I am 34 e and I don’t think my breasts look matronly. It’s a matter of finding the right bra AND the right clothes, which is a bit of art and science but I look pretty darn good. But it does take extra time, money, and energy. Sometimes I wonder what wearing a bralette in public would be like. Or spaghetti straps! But I love my middle aged body and it’s still sexy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Larget breasts are lovely in youth but by middle age they are matronly and ugly. Yes, I appreciate how my body birthed 3 kids and yada, yada but ugh. I would give a lot for a lithe, flat chested figure. This type of body ages much, much better.

That's the trade off. Flat chested women get ignored or even made fun of when they are young. But their bodies look more youthful and better in clothes at middle age.

You probably didn't mind this dynamic when you were 22.

34b and I was definitely not ignored.

Have you all seen the Americans? Keri Russell is arguably a very attractive woman and she is a very small a cup.

34b is not flat chested

Agree, I would love to be a 34B instead of my almost A cup. TBH though being flat chested bothered me so much more when I was younger. Now that I'm 50+ I have more appreciation for my small boobs since there's no enough there to sag. Small victories!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this is BS. No one actually wishes they were flat chested. You might say that because *some* models/actresses are built that way and it can make certain clothes (like a very narrow range of clothes) look good on them that won't look good on others. But we're talking like this narrow range of styles that people associate with Audrey Hepburn. Certain high necklines (though not all). That's it. There are also styles that only look good on someone with a large chest. If you are looking for inspiration, look at photos of Kim K, Salma Hayek, Christina Hendricks. These women are all considered beautiful and sexy.

Flat-chested girls get teased and harassed for it, just like girls who develop early and have large chests do. They struggle with buying clothes and with things fitting as they are "supposed" to. They are often told that their bodies are incorrect or not sufficiently feminine. You'd just be trading one extreme for another.

If your problem is having a hard-to-fit body or only being able to wear a narrow range of clothing, you should envy women with B and C cups and a classic bust-waist-hip ratio. Also being average to slightly above average height (5'4" to 5'6") means it is easy to buy pants and that skirts/dresses will hit you at the intended point.

NP. I wish I was flat chested and have every day since I was 13.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Larget breasts are lovely in youth but by middle age they are matronly and ugly. Yes, I appreciate how my body birthed 3 kids and yada, yada but ugh. I would give a lot for a lithe, flat chested figure. This type of body ages much, much better.

That's the trade off. Flat chested women get ignored or even made fun of when they are young. But their bodies look more youthful and better in clothes at middle age.

You probably didn't mind this dynamic when you were 22.

34b and I was definitely not ignored.

Have you all seen the Americans? Keri Russell is arguably a very attractive woman and she is a very small a cup.

34b is not flat chested

34b are baby b00bies…

Yep, and still nice and perky as a late 30s mom. How are you enjoying your floppy flapjacks?