Please. I would never contact police over Hallowween candy. You just have to realize some kids are not parented well, and they are not internalizing good values. |
And dishonest. |
Dumba$$. You left a bowl of candy out for people to take. But it’s theft to take more than one?? Are both of your brain cells not firing today? |
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It's surprising to me how naive some adults and especially older people are when it comes to leaving a large bowl of free candy on their porch. Emptying the bowl is terrible and something all parents hope they raised their kids not to do when tempted. But the fact is, groups of kids (mostly older kids), trick or treating unsupervised by an adult will sometimes behave badly - especially when their is peer pressure from one of the kids to do it. We've seen this play out on our porch camera videos several years. We only leave the bucket out briefly so we can walk our kids around - and 50% of the time its empty when we get back... and the video shows the cuplrits. Sometimes kids we know from down the street even - whose parents we speak with at BBQs and forth of July parties...
It's unfortunate, but a reality, not worth troubling the police over. |
The pandemic changed Halloween, just like it changed other things. Where before there would be one or two houses with a bowl of candy left out, now it's half the houses. |
| We came back from ToT to find our candy bowl empty. I reviewed the video the next day -- it was never totally dumped into someone's bag. It was groups of kids, typically older, who took a bit more than the "please take two" sign, but no bowl dumping. I guess it restored my faith in humanity, if only for an instant. |
It IS theft to empty a bowl, but I wouldn't call police over it. |
+1 To all of this. The number of people complaining about this on next door is hilarious. It happens every year. Did they really expect everyone to take just one? Even when I sat outside holding the bowl telling kids they can take 2 some little kids crabbed a handful. Really not a big deal. if you want to police the candy bowl stop being lazy and stick around to hand it out. Or turn the lights off and don't hand out candy . |
How is this theft? Isn’t the goal for the trick or treaters to empty the bowl? |
Well the police/laws says it's not. If you feel strongly that it is theft then stay home and physically hand it out to kids. |
Ditto carjackings, amirite? |
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We live near some public housing, and around
9 pm the local teens arrive. My DH leaves a bucket of beer for them. They are strangely polite and usually take only one can or toss one to a friend. |
No, the embarrassing thing was the adults taking candy let alone handfuls of it. |
Agree. Nothing is sadder than a street full of unsttended bowls of candy. Its lame AF. |
"We"? Why doesn't one parent stay home to participate in the ToT ritual. Thats boring, right? |