Rude Halloween manners

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Anonymous wrote:20895. The local kids are fine. But some of the “visiting” TOT’ers were quite pushy/rude

Did you ID them as they came to the door?

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All the kids who came to the door were awesome, even the tweens/teens.

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I only had one rude ToT group: pack of middle school or teen boys grabbed at the bowl when they saw I was giving out full size. I like to let kids pick, but maybe I can’t let bigger groups of teens do that. A smaller group came right after and they were lovely, saying thank you, complimenting my decorations. I think they may have picked up and turned in a bar dropped by the rude group, because I found one propped neatly onto one of my pumpkins this morning.

All the elementary aged kids were lovely, said trick or treat and thank you!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:20895. The local kids are fine. But some of the “visiting” TOT’ers were quite pushy/rude

Did you ID them as they came to the door?

She did a complexion inspection.

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We had one family come with the parents vaping pot. The smell was awful. Super rude.

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I had a group of teen girls from one of the international schools who clearly had been drinking. Only half were wearing costumes, they were loud and a bit drunken. Kinda reminded me of American college students, except they were 15.

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Anonymous wrote:I really sound like an old grouchy person, but I’m not. I really like kids and Halloween is my favorite holiday. I am shocked at how many rude kids have come by my house trying and actually yanking the bowl of candy away from me.

Next year put a loaded mouse trap in your bowl.

[Anonymous]

We had a group of teens just sort of terrorize my neighborhood yesterday. It's soured the entire neighborhood. At 5:30 (well before even the smallest started trick or treating), they went house to house and dumped the bowls of candy in their backpacks. They kicked pumpkins off the stairs, breaking them open and stomping on them. Multiple people had their bowls stolen. They swiped everyone's cute little bags of candy they'd set out on tables. They weren't wearing costumes, just ski masks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We had a group of teens just sort of terrorize my neighborhood yesterday. It's soured the entire neighborhood. At 5:30 (well before even the smallest started trick or treating), they went house to house and dumped the bowls of candy in their backpacks. They kicked pumpkins off the stairs, breaking them open and stomping on them. Multiple people had their bowls stolen. They swiped everyone's cute little bags of candy they'd set out on tables. They weren't wearing costumes, just ski masks.

Everyone else was just lovely. They all said "trick or treat" and they also said thank you. None were greedy, but I let them have handfuls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We had a group of teens just sort of terrorize my neighborhood yesterday. It's soured the entire neighborhood. At 5:30 (well before even the smallest started trick or treating), they went house to house and dumped the bowls of candy in their backpacks. They kicked pumpkins off the stairs, breaking them open and stomping on them. Multiple people had their bowls stolen. They swiped everyone's cute little bags of candy they'd set out on tables. They weren't wearing costumes, just ski masks.

Where was this?

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I’m way out in Gaithersburg (Lakelands), and almost everyone was very polite. I had just a few greedy or pushy kids, but none who were truly rude. I was amused by a little girl who, upon being told to take a couple pieces, asked “How many do you mean by ‘a couple’?” Future lawyer! One very little boy was being coached by his dad. After saying “Trick or treat!” and taking candy, his dad said, “What do we say?” and the little boy responded, “I’m sorry.” Too cute.

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Anonymous wrote:We had a group of teens just sort of terrorize my neighborhood yesterday. It's soured the entire neighborhood. At 5:30 (well before even the smallest started trick or treating), they went house to house and dumped the bowls of candy in their backpacks. They kicked pumpkins off the stairs, breaking them open and stomping on them. Multiple people had their bowls stolen. They swiped everyone's cute little bags of candy they'd set out on tables. They weren't wearing costumes, just ski masks.

Bandits for sure!

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Anonymous wrote:I’m way out in Gaithersburg (Lakelands), and almost everyone was very polite. I had just a few greedy or pushy kids, but none who were truly rude. I was amused by a little girl who, upon being told to take a couple pieces, asked “How many do you mean by ‘a couple’?” Future lawyer! One very little boy was being coached by his dad. After saying “Trick or treat!” and taking candy, his dad said, “What do we say?” and the little boy responded, “I’m sorry.” Too cute.

Aw I love that story.

I was trick or treating with my 6 year old while I waited on the sidewalk. After one house, he came back and said he accidentally said Trick or treat” and “thanks” twice to the same homeowner because he was confused. At another house, the motion triggered scary figure kept deploying and he was scared and jumped like 5 times in a row. Homeowner was setting up final decos on the lawn and finally told him to step out of range and ring the doorbell for his wife to get candy lol.

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I live in Rockville. All of the kids were polite and cute. Even the older kids who came by. We did get a couple of teenagers. But they had big smiles on their faces when they said trick-or-treat. And they all said thank you

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I had one rude ES-age kid; I always give out fistfuls of candy, because we don't get many TOTs.

I went to pull out a fistful, and the little goblin aggressively pushed my hand out of the bowl, dug his grubby hand into the bowl, and grabbed a fistful. He dropped several pieces on the ground, spun around with nary a word, and pushed through all the other kids patiently waiting... he almost knocked 3 or 4 other polite and petite little cuties off of the porch as he beat his retreat.

I, of course, gave them all my customary giant fistful, plus, as they had all been assaulted by the little greedy guy, a second fistful, and they all seemed delighted.

All I could think was the little schmuck's hand was much smaller than mine... so he ended up with a much smaller haul than he otherwise would have.

The kid was homeschooled from preschool through 3rd; his mama did him a disservice in that one, or maybe she was sparing the other kids for as long as she could, as his people skills are sorely lacking.