It sounds like they were all very rich as well, or from wealthy backgrounds. |
Thank you so much, this is a very very enlightening post! Basically culture is for the rich now. As my dad would say, it’s the damned capitalism! lol I also see that it’s important to live in a big city (not imperative but a huge factor) and that most kids and teens whine when being dragged through museums - not just mine! One of the issues that I have is that I am so, so tired of the whining ![]() -OP |
OP, I’ve read surveys that say just the fact that books are lying around the house will help a kid. I know that is a far cry from reading, but if you read, kid will observe and you can discuss what you read. Is 13-year-old enrolled in foreign language classes? That is where I really began to learn European culture and history, which was then a springboard into American arts. The only art history class I ever took was during my junior year abroad, yet it opened my eyes to art. Can you perhaps host a foreign exchange student? |
DP. None of this is true. But it sounds like maybe your kids don’t care about being cultured as much as you seem to. |
I know I am a snob but I think making culture/art more accessible is like teaching to weakest student - it dilutes the content. I am not talking about making the tickets cheaper of course. It would be better to teach “the common people” some art concepts early on, combine it with tons of exposure etc. However it’s probably not realistic. Nothing wrong with modern art. It might just be difficult to understand without some background, and it’s easier to offer mediocre stuff in the form of modern art (harder to tell good from meh, at least for me) -OP |
This may be true as well. That’s what I am trying to understand. -OP |
If Woody Allen and Wait, Wait Don’t Tell Me were the main examples in your OP, I don’t you’re as much of a snob as you might think. You’re missing the mark and way overthinking. |
I think the NYC cultural scene is overrated and I have no idea why you are fetishizing it... but anywho... once I went to a house party in NYC where there was a classical musician playing - so I guess you could do something like that. The person IIRC was a Juilliard student at the time, I think.
My own kids play percussion and saxophone - but I suppose piano and strings is what these "cultural" people would start with. I don't think anyone can make their kid interested in what you consider high NY culture - the kid is either interested or they are not. Travel a lot. Read a lot - read out loud to the kid. Like a PP above - I can also hold my own - I read a lot, like to travel. To the earlier question - how did the get those jobs? I assume they went to college, studied hard, and that's what they were interested in and worked to make it happen. |
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You can become sufficiently middlebrow and attain a “cultured” veneer by visiting museums, the opera, the ballet, READING BOOKS from a young age, learning an instrument, and subscribing to intellectual journals like the NY review of books, the Economist, the Atlantic etc.
However to be a true intellectual you have to be a producer of culture not just a consumer of it. |
Being an NPR listener is not the same thing as being an intellectual. |
+1 Culture is bred into you - you can not artificially create it. |
Many many of the NY intellectuals did not originate in NY. They came to NY to succeed because they were smart and ambitious. Susan Sontag grew up in the Arizona desert; Harold Ross (founder of the New Yorker) was from the Midwest; most of the artists produced & published in NYC and writers live or are from elsewhere. |
Geez, I am a PP and some people are being weirdly hostile about this benign question. And I actually am a New Yorker, so theoretically I should be the nastiest person on this thread!
I think it’s an interesting question. Especially because (in my opinion) “culture” is not a monolith and is ever evolving. It’s particularly interesting to me because there have been tectonic shifts in the culture of my profession (medicine) in the last 25 years or so, which has been fascinating (and sometimes distressing) to observe. I have often wondered how some cultural touchstones endured, while others fell out of favor over time. For instance, the idea of a “NY intellectual” persists from the 70’s and 80’s. I think is no longer culturally relevant or influential (at least in my circles in NYC), but clearly lots of people disagree. Or just find me totally uncultured! But I do wonder what from the current time will be considered “culture” 100 years from now (assuming some catastrophic event doesn’t end society as we know it). Because if we can’t even agree on a definition, then how do we seek it out? |
You’re quoting me and that’s decidedly NOT what I meant. I’m cultured despite growing up in an uncultured household because of my personal interests. In contrast people who were “bred” to be cultured (ew) don’t necessarily take it up. |