GF says she doubts that she deserves me

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
DP. Okay. So, what makes her amazing, unique, and of highest value to you?

Anonymous wrote:I don’t consider materialistic stuff in between relationships. She is very sweet, caring and thoughtful towards me and we enjoy each others coming and add happiness. That’s more important for me than she making big bucks and has annoying or arrogant personality.

That's all very vague and nonspecific. It isn't amazing or unique at all, and it doesn't sound like she is of highest value to you. Frankly, you could describe your childhood dog with the same words.

She doesn't need you, bro, and she knows you don't value her. This is indeed the slow fade.

How do you know OP values her or not? He just mentioned a small interaction with his gf and you don’t know what else goes on.

Hello again, OP.

You said you were educated, but either you aren't sharp enough to answer a question, or you think of her like a pet dog. Or possibly you just can't talk about why you love her because, I don't know, you are jealous of or resent her, but that's a stretch. Only you could make that call.

However, the purpose of this thread is apparently to make you feel better about something. You should think about what.

[Anonymous]

Troll

[Anonymous]

let me translate for you...

"I feel like I don't deserve you" = I don't feel like continuing this relationship and I'm going to start pulling away from you now.

There can be any number of reasons why she isn't into the relationship but, if you have a phd my guess is that you have highly developed sense of delayed self gratification which means you are going to be stable.... yet boring. Nurses, on the other hand, are known for being hot/crazy. They often are accustomed to the emotional roller-coaster of the "bad-boy."

Most likely there is a personality mismatch and this is not a "low self Estime" issue that you can "fix" by white knighting for her.
Just more forward with the breakup.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:let me translate for you...

"I feel like I don't deserve you" = I don't feel like continuing this relationship and I'm going to start pulling away from you now.

There can be any number of reasons why she isn't into the relationship but, if you have a phd my guess is that you have highly developed sense of delayed self gratification which means you are going to be stable.... yet boring. Nurses, on the other hand, are known for being hot/crazy. They often are accustomed to the emotional roller-coaster of the "bad-boy."

Most likely there is a personality mismatch and this is not a "low self Estime" issue that you can "fix" by white knighting for her.
Just more forward with the breakup.

Lol! Not true at all. You can’t generalize all the women in a profession like that. I am a nurse and prefers stability than chaos of chasing around whatever.

[Anonymous]

Education mismatch doesn't matter. Me and my boyfriend sound like you and your partner but despite his phD, he is dumb in other ways