The slow fade

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I mean. I’d have another convo. Just say frankly you sense a change and ask if he’s still interested in pursuing it. Explain you’d rather know that do a slow fade because if it’s not going anywhere serious you’d like to be free to see other people.

Doesn’t sound like you should be giving up other options for this guy but since you had the exclusivity convo, I’d bring it up before dating others. You don’t want some guy wasting your time being exclusive just because he wants low effort occasional sex and thus isn’t motivated to break it off

Thanks. I am just hesitant to do this because I think we will just repeat the same thing from last month. I’m just watching his actions for another week and certainly not compensating for lack of effort on his side.

[Anonymous]

He's just not that into you.

Onward, OP. No wait and see, no talks, no closure, no "watching his actions," just onward.

[Anonymous]

Don’t waste time playing games. Be upfront about it. I dated quite a bit before I got married and playing games never led anywhere good- just dragged out the inevitable. After 3-4 months especially.

[Anonymous]

3-4 months is really short. If he is losing interest already, this is a bad sign.

Are you guys even exclusive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:3-4 months is really short. If he is losing interest already, this is a bad sign.

Are you guys even exclusive?

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