SIL is mad at me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Shit about something? What would you do if you find out at church that your husband was boning the neighbor's dog walker's niece, Bob? For God sake, confront me in person if you are man enough - you know where I live. Don't come to DCUM and complain. You ****!

[Anonymous]

OP, you're either a troll or a clueless doofus who could stand to learn a few social cues.

You had no business in their argument. You inserted yourself, to what end? To bring her down a peg? In solidarity with her H? To show your superiority? Whatever the reason, you were dead wrong there.

This post is not about her behavior, it's about you. We don't know what happened that led to their confrontation and, for that matter, you don't know the whole story either.

That's why ppl always say MYOB in situations like this.

[Anonymous]

You sound nasty

[Anonymous]

You should have kept your mouth shut.

My BIL thinks his opinion needs to be heard, too. In 40 years he hasn't learned that nobody cares, usually.

[Anonymous]

You're an idiot.

[Anonymous]

Don't advocate for a dude who is not advocating for himself. He is married to this thing, so if he's not addressing it, nor should you. You should have just made passive-aggressive shocked/cringe face and openly looked empathetic toward the DH.

PS are you not scared that she shares your wife's dna? This could be the future.

[Anonymous]

Sure you can give your opinion.
And she can give hers by telling you to shut up.

This is a prime example of the old adage "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything."

You both sound immature and frankly kind of trashy to pick fights in a public space.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My SIL-my wife's sister is mad at me.

We were at a family event in the church hall and she was giving her husband shit about something.

I said: wow you are controlling.
She said: I didn't ask for your f***** opinion. I wasn't talking to you.
I said: I can give my opinion if I want.
She said: not to me, I don't want it.
I said: I can state my opinion.

She ignored me for the rest of the day.
Was I wrong?

YES YOU WERE WRONG

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My SIL-my wife's sister is mad at me.

We were at a family event in the church hall and she was giving her husband shit about something.

I said: wow you are controlling.
She said: I didn't ask for your f***** opinion. I wasn't talking to you.
I said: I can give my opinion if I want.
She said: not to me, I don't want it.
I said: I can state my opinion.

She ignored me for the rest of the day.
Was I wrong?

YES YOU WERE WRONG

So was my SIL.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My SIL-my wife's sister is mad at me.

We were at a family event in the church hall and she was giving her husband shit about something.

I said: wow you are controlling.
She said: I didn't ask for your f***** opinion. I wasn't talking to you.
I said: I can give my opinion if I want.
She said: not to me, I don't want it.
I said: I can state my opinion.

She ignored me for the rest of the day.
Was I wrong?

YES YOU WERE WRONG

So was my SIL.

If your SIL was wrong, the person to tell her so and ask her to change her behavior was HER HUSBAND, not you. You all sound pretty trashy, by the way, but you most of all. People who meddle in other people’s marriages, argue, and curse *in a church* are trash. That’s you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Either this is the best troll ever or the best thread of the week.

You’re reading the wrong threads.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My SIL-my wife's sister is mad at me.

We were at a family event in the church hall and she was giving her husband shit about something.

I said: wow you are controlling.
She said: I didn't ask for your f***** opinion. I wasn't talking to you.
I said: I can give my opinion if I want.
She said: not to me, I don't want it.
I said: I can state my opinion.

She ignored me for the rest of the day.
Was I wrong?

Both of you are wrong but I wouldn't care too much if someone who uses her language in church is upset with me. In fact, consider it a blessing.

[Anonymous]

You were 100% wrong in every way. This is on you. Don't give her something to react to, she wouldn't have said it. Let her husband fight his own battles.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My SIL-my wife's sister is mad at me.

We were at a family event in the church hall and she was giving her husband shit about something.

I said: wow you are controlling.
She said: I didn't ask for your f***** opinion. I wasn't talking to you.
I said: I can give my opinion if I want.
She said: not to me, I don't want it.
I said: I can state my opinion.

She ignored me for the rest of the day.
Was I wrong?

Both of you are wrong but I wouldn't care too much if someone who uses her language in church is upset with me. In fact, consider it a blessing.

It was a church HALL. Not church.

[Anonymous]

Why do I think this is not the first time OP was meddling opinionated jerk and his SIL has just had enough.