Advice on dealing with bigoted "jokes"

[Anonymous]

Kids say things as a joke so they don’t have to own it. Ask them to explain the joke, in a calm tone. Then wait. Or repeat it back in a straight way. “You’re saying I should pick up that penny because I’m Jewish?” They also should privately ask their friends to say “dude, that’s not funny.” Odds are the other kids don’t like it. No one for the most part thinks it’s ok but kids are afraid to speak up.

[Anonymous]

Growing up I was the only jewish person in my school. I heard ALL the jokes and laughed along because that's what everyone else did.

I hate myself for it.

Honestly, in this day and age anyone who is making these types of joke outloud is probably doing way worse in real life.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well this thread escalated quickly. My child is not planning to do anything for now. We are not either, except we may find a way to broach the general topic with administration if a convenient time arises. I suggested to my child that he respond with a sarcastic "Hilarious. I did NAZI that coming" next time it happens. But nobody seemed to like my joke as much as I did.

Made me chuckle!

[Anonymous]

OP you need to cancel his behavior immediately! Let him know you won’t be paying for college if he continues this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP you need to cancel his behavior immediately! Let him know you won’t be paying for college if he continues this.

OP here. I wasn't planning on paying for my son's classmate's college either way, but appreciate your support.