Had a second date planned tonight. She canceled.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I ghost anyone who stands me up and so should you OP.

It’s a good thing she didn’t stand op up….

This is close enough. I won't meet someone again who does that--my free weekends are too valuable.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We were supposed to have our second date tonight. I’ve had a crush on this girl for years and our first date went so well, so naturally I was so excited for tonight. We made plans to meet up at 7:30 and she just texted me to cancel. She said her ex contacted her and it really threw her off and didn’t think it would be fair to go out with me tonight with her head swirling. Obviously I’m really bumbed even though I know that’s how dating goes. My issue is, why are you going on dates if you’re not ready to date?? That’s what kind of making irritated. Why even waste my time?

Very TMI to tell you she’s in a tizzy caused by her ex. I’d abort mission and be grateful only this little of your time has been wasted. Your impression is correct, she’s not serious about being ready to date.

Whatev...honesty's the best policy. It stung, I'm sure, but OP, keep dating around. She's clearly got some things to sort out with her ex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were supposed to have our second date tonight. I’ve had a crush on this girl for years and our first date went so well, so naturally I was so excited for tonight. We made plans to meet up at 7:30 and she just texted me to cancel. She said her ex contacted her and it really threw her off and didn’t think it would be fair to go out with me tonight with her head swirling. Obviously I’m really bumbed even though I know that’s how dating goes. My issue is, why are you going on dates if you’re not ready to date?? That’s what kind of making irritated. Why even waste my time?

She might have thought she was ready. But she's not. At least she's trying to be honest. I am sorry, though, it sucks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a repost from like last year or something. I'm sure this is common, but 99% sure I've read this exact post on here before.

+1 I thought the exact same thing as I read this post. Sounds too familiar.

[Anonymous]

It’s bummed. You’re bummed out. Not bumbed. That’s all I got. Sorry buddy. Dating is hard.