Are you envious of your sibling if they are much more wealthy than you?

[Anonymous]

A man’s happiness correlates to whether he makes more than his brother in law ……


Money is all relational bullshit. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'm envious. I can be honest, lol. It is what it is though. We have a close relationship and that's what matters.

[Anonymous]

Yup. But I don’t want the rest of her life so it’s a fleeting thought.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, not jealous.
My brother and SIL make 4x our income. We are both Feds, they are successful business owners. They are very nice, never brag about anything and take care of both my parents and SIL’s parents financially.

That is so nice. We helped my parents to some extent - my siblings lived near by and were able to be more hands on. We were able to afford it, even more easily now and I was delighted we were able to do it. I know one of my siblings, who is single, really appreciated not needing to pony up.

[Anonymous]

Not at all, I’m thrilled, because they give me nice gifts and let me use their vacation homes and when we go out to dinner with them, they pick out some fantastic wine!

Also I love my brother and know he would use his money to help my kids (or me) in a heartbeat if needed for a medical emergency. I’m incredibly grateful for his generosity. Why would I be jealous! He is amazing, but, he chose a life of much harder work than I did and is reaping the benefits.

[Anonymous]

Not at all. My brother wanted to be wealthy and he worked insanely hard to achieve it. He’s not just $150k a year wealthier than I am. He’s in a different stratosphere. He’s been working since he was 12 and rode his bike to mow lawns all over the neighborhood. He’s now a millionaire. I couldn’t be more proud of him.

It is also a huge relief to me to know that he has the resources and is willing to take care of our parents financially if needed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not at all. My brother wanted to be wealthy and he worked insanely hard to achieve it. He’s not just $150k a year wealthier than I am. He’s in a different stratosphere. He’s been working since he was 12 and rode his bike to mow lawns all over the neighborhood. He’s now a millionaire. I couldn’t be more proud of him.

It is also a huge relief to me to know that he has the resources and is willing to take care of our parents financially if needed.

I posted right above you and our lives must be identical!!! My husband and I make about 200k and are very comfortable, with no true financial concerns, because we use public schools and live in a relatively modest house. My brother makes…. Many millions a year. And it’s a comfort, honestly, not a cause for resentment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You’re not jealous, you’re envious of your sister’s lifestyle and money. (Jealousy is the feeling of being threatened by the relationship someone you care about has with another person.) And your sister is not “more wealthy.” She’s wealthier. Focus on building your vocabulary. That will help distract you from these feelings of inadequacy and envy.

What a cruel condescending answer to OP. Be nice. I bet you are envious of people who are kind and have friends. Sad life for you calling attention to other’s faults and trying to be superior.