| Mine was like this and I really found it upsetting, it probably bothered me way more than her. She is a happy content adult. |
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I was and am like that and I am the most sane person in my family.
So, it depends on the person. Is she comfortable in her own skin? May she doesn't fall easily to social pressures. Maybe she knows she's more stable than most people out there. |
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I am like your daughter. I was fine then and I am fine now.
That being said, I wish I understood earlier in life the value of relationships. I learned from a mother who didn't have any friends and discouraged a lot of my friendships. She just didn't "get it" and how the world works, how important friendships are, how they mold your life. But I don't think anyone could have told me that in a way that I could truly understand at 21. Your daughter will also likely also do just fine in life, but may reevaluate her choices later. Isn't that what youth is for? There's nothing wrong with being a concerned mother, but she may have to just learn on her own. I hope she lives a long happy life! |
| Good friends help you get through bad times and enjoy good times. You can just advice her to add and value good people in her life as it would enrich her own life. |