s/o on other thread...things you probably spend too much money on but think it's worth it

[Anonymous]

Fancy groceries from the gourmet grocery store - stuff like all the fresh berries, pâté, chips, the stupid yogurt in the ceramic vase, flowers, etc. I feel like if we’re living large in this way we don’t eat out as much and generally eat healthier, less prepared foods. Feel ridiculous though. We spend $1000 monthly on groceries for a family of three.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Art.

I don’t even spend that much, but it serves no purpose other than to make me happy.

Cheap on most everything else.

Yes to art!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is making me much happier than the one it's in response to.

I spend a lot on my shoes - not like Jimmy Choos, but I have been wearing Swedish clogs since I was a teenager (so, 30 years now) and they make my back and feet feel great, and they cost an absolute fortune.

I buy most of my clothes used off eBay and Poshmark. But these clogs - these clogs.

Also we never bargain shop for groceries. We get the expensive pasture-raised milk and eggs, the organic strawberries, all the spendy things.

But we drive an 11-year-old Kia Soul and - whatever. We spend a lot on groceries and clogs!

Agree with all of this and how this thread inexplicably makes me really happy. Art! Strawberries! Clogs! Kid tennis lessons! Trips! Who needs a new car to feel good when we focus on all this?

[Anonymous]

Travel - totally splurge on nice accommodations and dining out.

Spa days - I love to get a professional massage/facial every couple of months.

Shoes - I don’t get designer but I get good quality shoes (and probably too many shoes) for myself and my family.

Organic produce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is making me much happier than the one it's in response to.

I spend a lot on my shoes - not like Jimmy Choos, but I have been wearing Swedish clogs since I was a teenager (so, 30 years now) and they make my back and feet feel great, and they cost an absolute fortune.

I buy most of my clothes used off eBay and Poshmark. But these clogs - these clogs.

Also we never bargain shop for groceries. We get the expensive pasture-raised milk and eggs, the organic strawberries, all the spendy things.

But we drive an 11-year-old Kia Soul and - whatever. We spend a lot on groceries and clogs!

I know right, the other thread made me feel dead inside.

[Anonymous]

Last minute luxury vacations to the Caribbean with kids during prime weeks.

We can easily drop $25K+ for a week at a resort, but to me it worth it.

[Anonymous]

lol so what's the Swedish clog brand? I like my Birkenstocks, they are a splurge for me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Last minute luxury vacations to the Caribbean with kids during prime weeks.

We can easily drop $25K+ for a week at a resort, but to me it worth it.

Wow what’s your HHI?

[Anonymous]

Takeout. I calculated that my family spent over $30K on takeout/delivery last year. DH and I both make 6 figures. Cooking dinner had become a major source of stress and fights. It’s cheaper than divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Art.

I don’t even spend that much, but it serves no purpose other than to make me happy.

Cheap on most everything else.

Yes to art!

Another yes to art!! Also cheese, travel, coffee, and horses.

[Anonymous]

Smaller indulgences but I chalk it up to self-care;

Highlights and root coverage, professional styling on a regular basis

Gel manicures and pedicures, twice a month

And -

Running shoes. I buy 2 pairs of custom fit running shoes from a running store. I have a health condition that requires I adhere to a run-walk schedule and I do 5ks.

Outdoor wear. I have hiking boots, snow boots, rain gear, snow pants and a hooded waterproof coat and all manner of Patagonia vests and jackets. I splurge at REI.


Special order designer eyeglasses (I have a heavy prescription in one eye and must have my actual lenses specially cut thin to fit in the frame). I alternate with contacts. I’ve spent thousands of dollars on eyeglasses and I like to change my eyewear yearly.

[Anonymous]

Private school
Owning a second house
Country club membership

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Last minute luxury vacations to the Caribbean with kids during prime weeks.

We can easily drop $25K+ for a week at a resort, but to me it worth it.

Wow what’s your HHI?

$4M-$5M+

[Anonymous]

Water bottles. I own a vast collection of Hydroflasks.

[Anonymous]

Nanny. HHI $200k, and we spend $60k a year on our nanny. Objectively, we can’t afford her. But we sacrifice because it’s sooo much better for us. I love having the kids home - one of us WFH every day so we have an ear out. Kids get great naps in their cribs and are on a schedule dictated by us. Our nanny is wonderful and amazing. And at the end of the day, our house is neat and we don’t have to worry about packing up/getting out the door.

It’s only 18 months of having two under 3 (when it was just one kid, and again when the eldest goes to free PK-3 it’s nanny shares for us) but it’s just so so worth it.