Does anyone else hate having their ils to stay?

[Anonymous]

Yes, but even my DH gets exhausted by his mom after a few days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best thing that ever happened was my in-laws moved from 8 hours away by car to 15 minutes away by car. Everyone thought I was crazy but I was overjoyed. Now we don't need to sleep at their house and they don't need to sleep at ours. No PTO needed for visits. We see them for a lunch or dinner about twice a month. And bonus, if my husband wants to meet his dad on his own, its easy!

I get it. I was the PP whose MIL would stay for months, with no inkling of when she would leave. She recently moved to within 30 minutes of us. I went out and looked at apartments for her, and then I drove the moving truck she rented. I could not be happier.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best thing that ever happened was my in-laws moved from 8 hours away by car to 15 minutes away by car. Everyone thought I was crazy but I was overjoyed. Now we don't need to sleep at their house and they don't need to sleep at ours. No PTO needed for visits. We see them for a lunch or dinner about twice a month. And bonus, if my husband wants to meet his dad on his own, its easy!

This actually sounds nice. I hate using PTO to visit family or feeling guilty for choosing to take a vacation over using time to visit family.

I hate having my in-laws and even my own parent stay.

Right now my in-laws are "visiting" for an indefinitely period of time and I hate being home.