I agree this is a really hard part about being a first line manager! But, not being their friend is not to the level of a bad manager that people quit, imo. You're probably fine. |
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Mines was short, ugly old and a very nasty effed in the head beeeyotch!
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| Yes! |
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Yes absolutely đź’Ż
People that own the type of small business that I have worked in all seem to have personality disorders. |
| I quit the toxic work environment (created by manager, perpetuated by team members, and condoned by director). |
| I quit my job generally because of $. I'm a mercenary. All the companies I've ever worked for are. |
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I've definitely stayed in a job longer than I should when I have a good manager. Until you've had The Manager From Hell, you don't really understand the difference that a manager makes. I still have flashbacks of how terrible my one manager was.
I work in a very, very complicated area. Unless you are a skilled manager, everything can quickly fall apart. I try hard to be there for my people, but it's also stressful trying to boost morale in a boring, complicated area. |
| Not for me, I quit my first tech job for a doubling of salary and had a great manager, I have another great manager at my current job but would quit if a better opportunity came up. |
| This has been my experience. |
| Sadly true. I have a good manager now and worry about her leaving at some point. |
+1 |
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Hello Friends, we had basically a whole team resign due to one assh0le "manager." And that was in the government. It must have been a record to get so many to quit, retire, etc.
Sick disgusting ugly shell of a person. |
This. There are some things that even a great manager can’t fix. |
| I just had an employee quit because she claimed I was a horrible manager. All of her colleagues and I would say it was because she was a horrible employee with a bad attitude and couldn’t take any constructive feedback, so she turned in her resignation and left. Coincidentally she claimed her last manager was horrible as well, and I have no doubt that her next one will also be just as bad (in her own mind). |
| I left a decent manager (very pleasant, but didn't stick up for me against her a--hole boss) for a great one. |