Less attracted post nose job

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love a large nose on a man too. And I judge people for nose jobs unless their nose is clearly totally wonky.

In my experience a large nose correlates with other desirable largeness in protuberances. I avoid men with tiny noses and hands.

[Anonymous]

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The PPs asserting how they prefer large noses are being so ridiculously general. Is a huge nose with a bulbous tip that dominates the whole face really what what you mean? I'm betting not.

Op here. What's wrong with a large bulbous nose? His original nose was a significant feature of his face, but it worked. I found him very attractive.

I am still attracted to him it's just different. I'm not going to tell him I don't like it and will keep talking to him. Maybe we'll meet in person soon and I'll feel differently about it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love a large nose on a man too. And I judge people for nose jobs unless their nose is clearly totally wonky.

Wow, you judge people for nose jobs? Do you judge boob jobs and all other forms of plastic surgery too? I hope so, because otherwise you're inconsistent in your purely appearance-based judgements.

Not po but yeah I judge all forms of plastic surgery not done out of medical necessity or reconstructive. People who would undergo surgery for vanity have character flaws and as noted by pp would teach those to future children.

Comments like this are why I love Persians. I suppose you think women who dye their hair or people who have gastric bypass surgery have character flaws as well.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love a large nose on a man too. And I judge people for nose jobs unless their nose is clearly totally wonky.

Wow, you judge people for nose jobs? Do you judge boob jobs and all other forms of plastic surgery too? I hope so, because otherwise you're inconsistent in your purely appearance-based judgements.

Not po but yeah I judge all forms of plastic surgery not done out of medical necessity or reconstructive. People who would undergo surgery for vanity have character flaws and as noted by pp would teach those to future children.

Comments like this are why I love Persians. I suppose you think women who dye their hair or people who have gastric bypass surgery have character flaws as well.

Gastric bypass is done when medically necessary and hair dye isn't surgery so no.

Perhaps spend less time under the knife and more time working on reading comprehension

[Anonymous]

This raises an interesting question, how would you feel about a man with permed hair?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I love a large nose on a man too. And I judge people for nose jobs unless their nose is clearly totally wonky.

Wow, you judge people for nose jobs? Do you judge boob jobs and all other forms of plastic surgery too? I hope so, because otherwise you're inconsistent in your purely appearance-based judgements.

Not po but yeah I judge all forms of plastic surgery not done out of medical necessity or reconstructive. People who would undergo surgery for vanity have character flaws and as noted by pp would teach those to future children.

Comments like this are why I love Persians. I suppose you think women who dye their hair or people who have gastric bypass surgery have character flaws as well.

Gastric bypass is done when medically necessary and hair dye isn't surgery so no.

Perhaps spend less time under the knife and more time working on reading comprehension

And yet the reasons for dyeing one's hair are similar to the reasons for cosmetic surgery, even though there is a difference in invasiveness.

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Anonymous wrote:I love a large nose on a man too. And I judge people for nose jobs unless their nose is clearly totally wonky.

Wow, you judge people for nose jobs? Do you judge boob jobs and all other forms of plastic surgery too? I hope so, because otherwise you're inconsistent in your purely appearance-based judgements.

Not po but yeah I judge all forms of plastic surgery not done out of medical necessity or reconstructive. People who would undergo surgery for vanity have character flaws and as noted by pp would teach those to future children.

Comments like this are why I love Persians. I suppose you think women who dye their hair or people who have gastric bypass surgery have character flaws as well.

Gastric bypass is done when medically necessary and hair dye isn't surgery so no.

Perhaps spend less time under the knife and more time working on reading comprehension

And yet the reasons for dyeing one's hair are similar to the reasons for cosmetic surgery, even though there is a difference in invasiveness.

There's many reasons for dying hair. Like maybe someone wants blue hair. It's not invasive. It's minimally vain and unless someone is bleaching to be blonde because they think it's better than black it is not at all the same level of internalized hatred and conformity to a narrow beauty standard
You got a nose job you'll just have to accept that not everyone thinks it's a power move

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OMG if this was about a woman, everyone on here would be defending her, saying that she was probably bullied about her big nose and was super self conscious about it her whole life, and it's very brave of her to make that change to help improve her self confidence.

Instead, it's a man, and you are calling him vain and selfish for not telling you, who he is not even dating. Grow up, OP.

So I take it you're a man with a nose job

No, I'm a woman with a very nice nose, but grew up with a handful of friends who had nose jobs right after we graduated from high school or college because they were made fun of for their large noses. You know 100% that I'm correct in saying what I said.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OMG if this was about a woman, everyone on here would be defending her, saying that she was probably bullied about her big nose and was super self conscious about it her whole life, and it's very brave of her to make that change to help improve her self confidence.

Instead, it's a man, and you are calling him vain and selfish for not telling you, who he is not even dating. Grow up, OP.

You are right. But women are expected to be a bit vain and value their preceived attractiveness. No one wants to date a vain man though.

You're saying that a man who may have been bullied and had less self confidence because of the size of his nose is vain for doing something that will improve his self confidence? But a woman who does that is just fine whatever, nbd? WTF is wrong with you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For the pps who are making up scenarios ( bullying and deviated septums) none of this was mentioned as the reason so why not stick to the information at hand instead of making up scenarios?

Because you are not even dating the guy and it's none of your business, psycho obsessed woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:For the pps who are making up scenarios ( bullying and deviated septums) none of this was mentioned as the reason so why not stick to the information at hand instead of making up scenarios?

The "information at hand" is almost nothing. New poster but I defend those noting that possibly he had a medical issue that needed fixing. We don't know, and clearly, neither does OP, since OP doesn't even seem to know him well. I"m not even clear that he and OP have met in person -- OP refers to "not wanting to do long distance" so are they just on Zoom or what? Pretty skimpy on details. I bet if he had a medical issue he wouldn't have told her but of course he can't hid the change to his nose.

So, OP, did he come right out and say he did it for looks or did he mention any other reason? And do you two actually meet in person or via screens?

As for "making up scenarios," PP above, how is it not merely "making up scenarios" when other posters insist he's vain? For all they actually know he's not, and getting this done wasn't a matter of vanity. They don't know any more than those saying maybe it's medical. You're preaching a double standard if you think it's fine for some PPs to insist he's vain but it's not fine for other PPs to suggest he might have had other reasons to do this.

None of us actually knows. Not sure even OP actually knows.

You're saying a whole lot of nothing. Ops are making up scenarios to find reasons to attack and shame op.

Probably because you and they have had their now nose jobs and are triggered that an SO might not be into it... insecurity the same trait that lead to the nose job not a trait people love in partners. If you doubt this see the recent thread on turn offs

OP deserves to be shamed. She has absolutely no right to be informed that this guy that she knows - THAT SHE IS NOT EVEN DATING - was getting a nose job. His body, not hers. She has absolutely no right to it. Not even if she WAS dating him. HIS BODY NOT HERS.

Y'all are such hypocrites. If a man came on here and said he no longer wanted to date a woman because she had a nose or boob job, you'd be so mad at him. But OP is a woman so it's okay that she's being psycho.

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The PPs asserting how they prefer large noses are being so ridiculously general. Is a huge nose with a bulbous tip that dominates the whole face really what what you mean? I'm betting not.

Op here. What's wrong with a large bulbous nose? His original nose was a significant feature of his face, but it worked. I found him very attractive.

I am still attracted to him it's just different. I'm not going to tell him I don't like it and will keep talking to him. Maybe we'll meet in person soon and I'll feel differently about it.

You're a jerk.

[Anonymous]

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The PPs asserting how they prefer large noses are being so ridiculously general. Is a huge nose with a bulbous tip that dominates the whole face really what what you mean? I'm betting not.

Op here. What's wrong with a large bulbous nose? His original nose was a significant feature of his face, but it worked. I found him very attractive.

I am still attracted to him it's just different. I'm not going to tell him I don't like it and will keep talking to him. Maybe we'll meet in person soon and I'll feel differently about it.

Is he scamming you to pay for his nose job?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OMG if this was about a woman, everyone on here would be defending her, saying that she was probably bullied about her big nose and was super self conscious about it her whole life, and it's very brave of her to make that change to help improve her self confidence.

Instead, it's a man, and you are calling him vain and selfish for not telling you, who he is not even dating. Grow up, OP.

So I take it you're a man with a nose job

No, I'm a woman with a very nice nose, but grew up with a handful of friends who had nose jobs right after we graduated from high school or college because they were made fun of for their large noses. You know 100% that I'm correct in saying what I said.

Given this thread I think you're 109% wrong . People aren't as fond of plastic surgery as you think. I personally wouldn't be commending a woman in that situation and would have concerns what she'd teach her children if they happened to inherit her original nose.

I grew up with a very shallow and vain mother so I avoid those traits in a partner

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:For the pps who are making up scenarios ( bullying and deviated septums) none of this was mentioned as the reason so why not stick to the information at hand instead of making up scenarios?

The "information at hand" is almost nothing. New poster but I defend those noting that possibly he had a medical issue that needed fixing. We don't know, and clearly, neither does OP, since OP doesn't even seem to know him well. I"m not even clear that he and OP have met in person -- OP refers to "not wanting to do long distance" so are they just on Zoom or what? Pretty skimpy on details. I bet if he had a medical issue he wouldn't have told her but of course he can't hid the change to his nose.

So, OP, did he come right out and say he did it for looks or did he mention any other reason? And do you two actually meet in person or via screens?

As for "making up scenarios," PP above, how is it not merely "making up scenarios" when other posters insist he's vain? For all they actually know he's not, and getting this done wasn't a matter of vanity. They don't know any more than those saying maybe it's medical. You're preaching a double standard if you think it's fine for some PPs to insist he's vain but it's not fine for other PPs to suggest he might have had other reasons to do this.

None of us actually knows. Not sure even OP actually knows.

You're saying a whole lot of nothing. Ops are making up scenarios to find reasons to attack and shame op.

Probably because you and they have had their now nose jobs and are triggered that an SO might not be into it... insecurity the same trait that lead to the nose job not a trait people love in partners. If you doubt this see the recent thread on turn offs

OP deserves to be shamed. She has absolutely no right to be informed that this guy that she knows - THAT SHE IS NOT EVEN DATING - was getting a nose job. His body, not hers. She has absolutely no right to it. Not even if she WAS dating him. HIS BODY NOT HERS.

Y'all are such hypocrites. If a man came on here and said he no longer wanted to date a woman because she had a nose or boob job, you'd be so mad at him. But OP is a woman so it's okay that she's being psycho.

The only psycho here is you, pp.

Where did op or anyone else claim that op had the right to tell him not to get a nose job?

And yes it is odd that he didn't bring it up since it seems they are having meaningful conversations even if not officially dating.

Finally op does have the right to be attracted to whatever she is attracted to.

So kindly STFU