My 12 year old daughter wants to change custody arrangements

[Anonymous]

Why did the cheater not have an abortion? What a f**king mess of everyone's life they have made.

[Anonymous]

Everyone here thinking that the 12-year-old should have to suck it up is probably either a cheating waste of space and oxygen themselves or, like the poster who shuffled back and forth between parental homes, clearly intellectually challenged. This almost teenager isn't int'd in a custody change because of run-of-the-mill issues that a lot of teens complain about, such as wanting a later curfew or a tattoo. This kid found out that her family imploded because her ho-bag mom had an affair that not only resulted in the breakup of her family but in the addition of a half-sibling whose needs mean that in the household where he lives, hers will always be neglected. The ho-bag herself wrecked her relationship with her daughter when she made the decision to cheat on her first husband. Under these circumstances, there is absolutely nothing immature about the daughter wanting a custody change. Were I in the daughter's shoes, I'd want the same thing. OP, if your daughter wants you to have full custody, you should honor her wishes. Your ex can go f*** herself.