Would you expect anything from guy on V-day after 4 dates?

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[Post New]02/15/2022 09:31
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Anonymous
My boyfriend of 8 months did nothing.
[Post New]02/15/2022 09:31
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I received a sweet “I know it’s early but I’m thinking only of you today” note from guy one (have met twice), and a beautiful card in the mail from guy 2 (seen once but zoomed/talked/texted a lot) that was tender and signed “Love, John.” I had never really gotten a true valentine before today. I am choosing not to be cynical and am assuming both are sincere.


How does guy 2 know your address?
[Post New]02/15/2022 09:32
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend of 8 months did nothing.


But did you do anything?
[Post New]02/15/2022 09:34
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Anonymous
The first Valentine's Day I was dating my DH, we had been on maybe 3 dates, and he kinda freaked out and didn't even talk to me that day. Like he thought it was the 3rd rail or something. I wasn't planning on us having some gushy day because that did not feel right for where we were, but it's still funny to me in hindsight.

I think Valentine's day peaks after you've been together 6 months and less than 3 years. After that who gives an eff.
[Post New]02/15/2022 09:36
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I received a sweet “I know it’s early but I’m thinking only of you today” note from guy one (have met twice), and a beautiful card in the mail from guy 2 (seen once but zoomed/talked/texted a lot) that was tender and signed “Love, John.” I had never really gotten a true valentine before today. I am choosing not to be cynical and am assuming both are sincere.


How does guy 2 know your address?


He asked for it. It’s okay, he is legit.
[Post New]02/15/2022 09:38
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Anonymous wrote:I’d be more weirded out by anything more at this point. But I have never been very into Valentine’s Day anyway.


This. V day is so awkward when you are newly dating.
[Post New]02/15/2022 09:41
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Anonymous
I think if you got 0, he's just not that into you. Text = 0.5
[Post New]02/15/2022 09:41
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Anonymous
He had another date of V-day.
[Post New]02/15/2022 13:14
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Anonymous
I wouldn’t expect anything at all
[Post New]02/15/2022 13:24
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I received a sweet “I know it’s early but I’m thinking only of you today” note from guy one (have met twice), and a beautiful card in the mail from guy 2 (seen once but zoomed/talked/texted a lot) that was tender and signed “Love, John.” I had never really gotten a true valentine before today. I am choosing not to be cynical and am assuming both are sincere.


How does guy 2 know your address?


He asked for it. It’s okay, he is legit.


I suggest you go watch Tinder Swindler and don’t give him your credit card.
[Post New]02/15/2022 13:48
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I received a sweet “I know it’s early but I’m thinking only of you today” note from guy one (have met twice), and a beautiful card in the mail from guy 2 (seen once but zoomed/talked/texted a lot) that was tender and signed “Love, John.” I had never really gotten a true valentine before today. I am choosing not to be cynical and am assuming both are sincere.


How does guy 2 know your address?


He asked for it. It’s okay, he is legit.


I suggest you go watch Tinder Swindler and don’t give him your credit card.


Lol no danger of that he’s verifiably who he says he is.
[Post New]02/15/2022 13:51
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you already had sex, at least chocolates or flowers.


+1 If pre-sex, the text was nice. If post-sex, I'd expect some kind of token.
[Post New]02/15/2022 16:35
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I got a nice text. We’ve been on 4 dates. Not seeing him tonight (he has his kids). I’m fine with that. What do you think?


I wouldn't have even expected a text if not exclusive...
[Post New]02/15/2022 16:37
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I received a sweet “I know it’s early but I’m thinking only of you today” note from guy one (have met twice), and a beautiful card in the mail from guy 2 (seen once but zoomed/talked/texted a lot) that was tender and signed “Love, John.” I had never really gotten a true valentine before today. I am choosing not to be cynical and am assuming both are sincere.


The signature is weird for #2. Too much.
[Post New]02/15/2022 16:38
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I got a happy Valentine’s Day text. Perfectly happy with it.


Same. We have gone out 6 times in five months (travel a lot) and he is out of town. It seems fine.
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