Anonymous wrote:Golden Goose epitomizes to me the psychology that we had a thread on last month... that is, why some people aspire to spend their money on things solely because others have them and they are expensive, and don't take pleasure in finding something new/different/flattering/cool/on the cusp of being cool and making it their own.
Like the OP of that thread, I do not understand that psychology. When you buy the GG, let's assume someone compliments them (which i'm not sure anyone would do at this point because they're so ubiquitous) and the "high" you get from that compliment is because someone recognized that either (i) you (or more typically, your DH - because these kind of signifiers are for the sahm set) makes decent money; or (ii) you run in circles of certain types of people so that you knew these were trendy. But the compliment isn't about the shoe. It's feedback to you about how the shoe reflects your lifestyle.
Versus if you spent comparable money on some other lesser known shoe and someone compliments it, that means you sought out something that something thinks is pretty, or makes you look good, or otherwise they genuinely like. So that's a compliment of the actual shoe itself, and specifically feedback that you have good taste. So it's a compliment about YOU.
But i've been that way since highschool. If there was some trend that everyone was buying, I would actively eschew it lest I looked like everyone else. I wanted compliments for having my own look. But that's my own psychology!
That's all well and good, and I'm not saying I operate differently, but there's plenty of research on how trends work, and even things that feel under the radar need to have some level of familiarity to be appealing. I do believe there are different approaches whether deliberate or not--those who don't accept a trend until it's peak, and those who become turned off when a trend gets too big. But at base, it's the same behavior, noticing what others are doing and reacting, and even the people who avoid megatrends are following to some degree. I get not following a trend that's saturated, but I don't get being smug about it (e.g. starting a thread to ask why people are doing something clearly trendy). If anything, going for early adopter is just more bang for the buck because it may wear the longer before it feels played out. But that depends on the individual.
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