Decribe Persons Who Cheat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Liars, no integrity, no morals. You can’t cheat without lying. It’s part of the job. Dishonest people cheat. Half the population are dishonest liars with zero integrity.

Probably more than half, if you add in those who would cheat but don't have the opportunity. Like 75%.

Basically, people cheat. Has been that way since the dawn of time.

m

Any woman has the opportunity.

People that have integrity don’t cheat and betray a spouse even when the p@ssy or D is flapping in their face

I have had PLENTY of opportunities and offers throughout my marriage. But I’m an honest person with morals and self-control.

Morals/self-control/honesty/integrity may prevent impulsive affairs but (over time) unmet biological needs will always prevail.
Opportunity PLUS sexual dis-satisfaction in the marriage = affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:my take.

1. Women who haven’t learned how to articulate needs or set boundaries and stop believing that cheating is wrong or the temptation gets high.

2. Women who have done the above but their partner hasn’t respected them and they feel trapped in the marriage because of kids and finances, and they slowly stop believing that cheating is wrong or the temptation gets to be too much for them.

3. Those of any gender who have unmanaged mental health issues, lack a strong moral foundation, and has the opportunity. (Compartmentalization to justify cheating is a mental health issue, as is self-loathing)

4. The above except without the mental health issues, but worse morals and more opportunity.

5. I think entwined in all of these is often lack of understanding of female sexuality. Dead bedrooms come from duty sex comes from a lack of desire comes from a situation where the man or the man and the woman don’t understand that desire is not internal, it’s a response to stimuli.

6. Sociopaths.

It’s kinda crazy that so many of these issues could be taken care of by pretty simple interventions. It’s like the Israelites refusing to look at the serpent because the solution couldn’t have possibly been that simple. (I’m an atheist but that’s one of my favorite stories ever)

Add, abused spouses who do not want to break up their families but are heartbroken and desperate for consolation or escape.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:my take.

1. Women who haven’t learned how to articulate needs or set boundaries and stop believing that cheating is wrong or the temptation gets high.

2. Women who have done the above but their partner hasn’t respected them and they feel trapped in the marriage because of kids and finances, and they slowly stop believing that cheating is wrong or the temptation gets to be too much for them.

3. Those of any gender who have unmanaged mental health issues, lack a strong moral foundation, and has the opportunity. (Compartmentalization to justify cheating is a mental health issue, as is self-loathing)

4. The above except without the mental health issues, but worse morals and more opportunity.

5. I think entwined in all of these is often lack of understanding of female sexuality. Dead bedrooms come from duty sex comes from a lack of desire comes from a situation where the man or the man and the woman don’t understand that desire is not internal, it’s a response to stimuli.

6. Sociopaths.

It’s kinda crazy that so many of these issues could be taken care of by pretty simple interventions. It’s like the Israelites refusing to look at the serpent because the solution couldn’t have possibly been that simple. (I’m an atheist but that’s one of my favorite stories ever)

Add, abused spouses who do not want to break up their families but are heartbroken and desperate for consolation or escape.

I have found they also like ice cream

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Liars, no integrity, no morals. You can’t cheat without lying. It’s part of the job. Dishonest people cheat. Half the population are dishonest liars with zero integrity.

Probably more than half, if you add in those who would cheat but don't have the opportunity. Like 75%.

Basically, people cheat. Has been that way since the dawn of time.

m

Any woman has the opportunity.

People that have integrity don’t cheat and betray a spouse even when the p@ssy or D is flapping in their face

I have had PLENTY of opportunities and offers throughout my marriage. But I’m an honest person with morals and self-control.

+1. Some people wouldn’t cheat regardless of opportunity. Also, just because something has been a certain way for a long time doesn’t mean you have to accept it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:my take.

1. Women who haven’t learned how to articulate needs or set boundaries and stop believing that cheating is wrong or the temptation gets high.

2. Women who have done the above but their partner hasn’t respected them and they feel trapped in the marriage because of kids and finances, and they slowly stop believing that cheating is wrong or the temptation gets to be too much for them.

3. Those of any gender who have unmanaged mental health issues, lack a strong moral foundation, and has the opportunity. (Compartmentalization to justify cheating is a mental health issue, as is self-loathing)

4. The above except without the mental health issues, but worse morals and more opportunity.

5. I think entwined in all of these is often lack of understanding of female sexuality. Dead bedrooms come from duty sex comes from a lack of desire comes from a situation where the man or the man and the woman don’t understand that desire is not internal, it’s a response to stimuli.

6. Sociopaths.

It’s kinda crazy that so many of these issues could be taken care of by pretty simple interventions. It’s like the Israelites refusing to look at the serpent because the solution couldn’t have possibly been that simple. (I’m an atheist but that’s one of my favorite stories ever)

+100. So true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Liars, no integrity, no morals. You can’t cheat without lying. It’s part of the job. Dishonest people cheat. Half the population are dishonest liars with zero integrity.

Probably more than half, if you add in those who would cheat but don't have the opportunity. Like 75%.

Basically, people cheat. Has been that way since the dawn of time.

m

Any woman has the opportunity.

People that have integrity don’t cheat and betray a spouse even when the p@ssy or D is flapping in their face

I have had PLENTY of opportunities and offers throughout my marriage. But I’m an honest person with morals and self-control.

Morals/self-control/honesty/integrity may prevent impulsive affairs but (over time) unmet biological needs will always prevail.
Opportunity PLUS sexual dis-satisfaction in the marriage = affair

Not really. You either start to talk to the spouse or start the divorce process. Hopefully you’ve been a good communicator so far and that the divorce isn’t a surprise.

[Anonymous]

Impulsive
Cute
Sensual
Sensitive
Doesn't like spouse much

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Liars, no integrity, no morals. You can’t cheat without lying. It’s part of the job. Dishonest people cheat. Half the population are dishonest liars with zero integrity.

Probably more than half, if you add in those who would cheat but don't have the opportunity. Like 75%.

Basically, people cheat. Has been that way since the dawn of time.

m

Any woman has the opportunity.

People that have integrity don’t cheat and betray a spouse even when the p@ssy or D is flapping in their face

I have had PLENTY of opportunities and offers throughout my marriage. But I’m an honest person with morals and self-control.

Morals/self-control/honesty/integrity may prevent impulsive affairs but (over time) unmet biological needs will always prevail.
Opportunity PLUS sexual dis-satisfaction in the marriage = affair

Not really. You either start to talk to the spouse or start the divorce process. Hopefully you’ve been a good communicator so far and that the divorce isn’t a surprise.

Not really. A sexless spouse already knows about the unmet biological needs but just does not care. Sex is simply unimportant to them, and more talking cannot make somebody desire sex who doesn't otherwise desire sex. Yet that sexless spouse chooses to stay sexlessly married. Since neither spouse wants to divorce, why do you suggest divorce?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Liars, no integrity, no morals. You can’t cheat without lying. It’s part of the job. Dishonest people cheat. Half the population are dishonest liars with zero integrity.

Probably more than half, if you add in those who would cheat but don't have the opportunity. Like 75%.

Basically, people cheat. Has been that way since the dawn of time.

m

Any woman has the opportunity.

People that have integrity don’t cheat and betray a spouse even when the p@ssy or D is flapping in their face

I have had PLENTY of opportunities and offers throughout my marriage. But I’m an honest person with morals and self-control.

Morals/self-control/honesty/integrity may prevent impulsive affairs but (over time) unmet biological needs will always prevail.
Opportunity PLUS sexual dis-satisfaction in the marriage = affair

Not really. You either start to talk to the spouse or start the divorce process. Hopefully you’ve been a good communicator so far and that the divorce isn’t a surprise.

Not really. A sexless spouse already knows about the unmet biological needs but just does not care. Sex is simply unimportant to them, and more talking cannot make somebody desire sex who doesn't otherwise desire sex. Yet that sexless spouse chooses to stay sexlessly married. Since neither spouse wants to divorce, why do you suggest divorce?

NP. Not really. Assuming that your spouse knows how you feel about a certain situation, especially when it could lead to cheating or divorce, is just either irresponsible or that you want to give yourself permission to cheat. Your spouse should not ever be surprised if you divorce if you have communicated well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Liars, no integrity, no morals. You can’t cheat without lying. It’s part of the job. Dishonest people cheat. Half the population are dishonest liars with zero integrity.

Probably more than half, if you add in those who would cheat but don't have the opportunity. Like 75%.

Basically, people cheat. Has been that way since the dawn of time.

m

Any woman has the opportunity.

People that have integrity don’t cheat and betray a spouse even when the p@ssy or D is flapping in their face

I have had PLENTY of opportunities and offers throughout my marriage. But I’m an honest person with morals and self-control.

Morals/self-control/honesty/integrity may prevent impulsive affairs but (over time) unmet biological needs will always prevail.
Opportunity PLUS sexual dis-satisfaction in the marriage = affair

Not really. You either start to talk to the spouse or start the divorce process. Hopefully you’ve been a good communicator so far and that the divorce isn’t a surprise.

Not really. A sexless spouse already knows about the unmet biological needs but just does not care. Sex is simply unimportant to them, and more talking cannot make somebody desire sex who doesn't otherwise desire sex. Yet that sexless spouse chooses to stay sexlessly married. Since neither spouse wants to divorce, why do you suggest divorce?

NP. Not really. Assuming that your spouse knows how you feel about a certain situation, especially when it could lead to cheating or divorce, is just either irresponsible or that you want to give yourself permission to cheat. Your spouse should not ever be surprised if you divorce if you have communicated well.

Mine was. He threatened over and over for years and I told him for years that verbal, emotional, physical abuse were not okay and we was breaking his family. When I left with no further warning, he was stunned.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Liars, no integrity, no morals. You can’t cheat without lying. It’s part of the job. Dishonest people cheat. Half the population are dishonest liars with zero integrity.

Probably more than half, if you add in those who would cheat but don't have the opportunity. Like 75%.

Basically, people cheat. Has been that way since the dawn of time.

m

Any woman has the opportunity.

People that have integrity don’t cheat and betray a spouse even when the p@ssy or D is flapping in their face

I have had PLENTY of opportunities and offers throughout my marriage. But I’m an honest person with morals and self-control.

That's what it's all about. How you were raised and having morals or not. Plus no p is worth losing your spouse, home, and children over. Haven't seen that yet to speak of!

Or D. In the AP recent thread, more cheating women lost their home and kids.

Or worse. Read the Mark Gerardot story. He had a decent marriage beforehand, but changed the story to demonize his wife. Whereas he and the AP mentally tortured her in many ways. The young not so smart AP thought hurting and destroying the wife was fun and thrilling until it wasn't. The odd thing is at some point it was fairly predictable. While I don't condone what the wife did at least that AP won't destroy any more lives. And I don't think the cheater DH will cheat again in the future.

[Anonymous]

Love someone but will not leave their family for them so they hurt everyone but themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Love someone but will not leave their family for them so they hurt everyone but themselves.

They don't love anyone especially the booty call. The part about not leaving says it all.

[Anonymous]

Men who cheat have the hearts of a small shriveled fruit, but not, that grows in a bush.

[Anonymous]

I think honestly a lot of them just lack empathy for the people they are betraying. If it doesn’t go agains their own moral code, or if they have rationalized it, they think that what they spouse does not know will not hurt them; they underestimate the chance of being caught and waaay underestimate the pain it will cause until it is too late, bc they figure the relationship is already f*cked so how much could it hurt.