Anonymous wrote:- Teased you about your appearance, even when it clearly bothered you?
- Dated two close male friends of yours at the same time?
- Lied to you about easily disprovable things for no apparent reason (I.e. told you she’d been out of town over the weekend when another friend had just told you he hung out with her locally)?
- Asked you for favors whenever you saw her, large and small, and continued asking even after you started saying no to them (because you had started to feel used)?
- Told several lies about you to a mutual friend, but weird ones— not flattering or disparaging, just random things that are not true and that you know she knows are untrue?
If it was just one or two of these I’d almost definitely ignore it because she has good qualities (generous, fun, likes to plan) and fading out if a friendship would be hard because of all the overlap in our lives. But it’s all starting to feel like a lot and I find myself annoyed or even angry with her more often than not. And before you mention it— yes, I have told her that this stuff bothers me. Except for the lying, which I haven’t mentioned because it would be really awkward and the lies are pretty inconsequential (but adding up in a way that makes me wonder if it’s a compulsion or something).
You will be so much happier without this person in your life. Just stop doing things with her. She will move on to the next person she can use.
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