My sister pretends she is retired

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My H retired and works and says he is retired. If people probe he says yea I have a retirement job to keep me out of trouble. But he is retired.

He has a job? Then honey, he is not retired. I would also think he is a liar if it came out only after probing.

He is retired and gets $8000/mth after tax pension plus subsidized healthcare.

He will always Piddle around with some little job.

Enlisted/20 years get around $1K a month. $8K would be fantastic. Only high level officers get that much. You clearly don't get the difference from enlisted and officers and 20 vs. 30 years. You get a pension off your salary which doesn't include the housing and other allowances so its very low.

He doesn't have a little job. He has a real job that he does very well with. It wasn't worth staying in the military longer.

But then you admit he is not retired since he has a "real job".

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My H retired and works and says he is retired. If people probe he says yea I have a retirement job to keep me out of trouble. But he is retired.

He has a job? Then honey, he is not retired. I would also think he is a liar if it came out only after probing.

He is retired and gets $8000/mth after tax pension plus subsidized healthcare.

He will always Piddle around with some little job.

Enlisted/20 years get around $1K a month. $8K would be fantastic. Only high level officers get that much. You clearly don't get the difference from enlisted and officers and 20 vs. 30 years. You get a pension off your salary which doesn't include the housing and other allowances so its very low.

He doesn't have a little job. He has a real job that he does very well with. It wasn't worth staying in the military longer.

But then you admit he is not retired since he has a "real job".

He is both. He IS retired from the military and he has a real job. Most military retirees go on to have a second career. Military retirement is not enough to actually retire on. But, he did 20 years, retired per military rules and moved on. That is retirement. We have full retirement benefits.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If she worked at one job 35 years, she is retired. She probably doesn't have enough money and needs to still keep working.

how is she retired if she works full time?

+1 she’s not retired.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My H retired and works and says he is retired. If people probe he says yea I have a retirement job to keep me out of trouble. But he is retired.

He has a job? Then honey, he is not retired. I would also think he is a liar if it came out only after probing.

He is retired and gets $8000/mth after tax pension plus subsidized healthcare.

He will always Piddle around with some little job.

Enlisted/20 years get around $1K a month. $8K would be fantastic. Only high level officers get that much. You clearly don't get the difference from enlisted and officers and 20 vs. 30 years. You get a pension off your salary which doesn't include the housing and other allowances so its very low.

He doesn't have a little job. He has a real job that he does very well with. It wasn't worth staying in the military longer.

But then you admit he is not retired since he has a "real job".

He is both. He IS retired from the military and he has a real job. Most military retirees go on to have a second career. Military retirement is not enough to actually retire on. But, he did 20 years, retired per military rules and moved on. That is retirement. We have full retirement benefits.

Meh. Military ‘retired’ is a status.

Older person ‘retired’ is a lifestyle that indicates the person no longer needs to work.

It’s two entirely different things.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My H retired and works and says he is retired. If people probe he says yea I have a retirement job to keep me out of trouble. But he is retired.

He has a job? Then honey, he is not retired. I would also think he is a liar if it came out only after probing.

He is retired and gets $8000/mth after tax pension plus subsidized healthcare.

He will always Piddle around with some little job.

Enlisted/20 years get around $1K a month. $8K would be fantastic. Only high level officers get that much. You clearly don't get the difference from enlisted and officers and 20 vs. 30 years. You get a pension off your salary which doesn't include the housing and other allowances so its very low.

He doesn't have a little job. He has a real job that he does very well with. It wasn't worth staying in the military longer.

But then you admit he is not retired since he has a "real job".

He is both. He IS retired from the military and he has a real job. Most military retirees go on to have a second career. Military retirement is not enough to actually retire on. But, he did 20 years, retired per military rules and moved on. That is retirement. We have full retirement benefits.

Meh. Military ‘retired’ is a status.

Older person ‘retired’ is a lifestyle that indicates the person no longer needs to work.

It’s two entirely different things.

OP sister is retired. Retired lifestyle is something different. We are talking about her retiring from a job.

[Anonymous]

So people with no benefits are never considered retired?

[Anonymous]

She's retired from her old job. Geez, OP, give her a break.

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Anonymous wrote:She's retired from her old job. Geez, OP, give her a break.

So why is her new job top secret?

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Anonymous wrote:So people with no benefits are never considered retired?

Many jobs don't have pensions and insurance after retirement so its not a surprise she cannot live off of social security alone and many pensions aren't something you can live off of.

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Anonymous wrote:So people with no benefits are never considered retired?

Many jobs don't have pensions and insurance after retirement so its not a surprise she cannot live off of social security alone and many pensions aren't something you can live off of.

read the whole thread

[Anonymous]

She's embarrassed she doesn't have enough money to be really retired OP.

Happened to one of my family friends, had to sell their house and get a job just to break even in retirement.

[Anonymous]

this is common for state and county employees. They really are retired, but picking up extra income working. There's a term for it I can't think of.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she did not retire instead she was let go.

Maybe she has no retirement savings and she is embarressed.

Maybe she has to work.

[Anonymous]

Some people like to work. My cousin worked as an Asst Superintendent for years (after having been a teacher and then a principal). He retired and the school district threw him a big party. He gets a huge pension so he doesn’t have to work but he hates sitting around doing nothing so he took a couple of interim jobs and then took a part time job as a dean at a private high school for about 30 hours a week. He worked there for about 10-12 years and finally just officially retired in his early 70’s. Why don’t you just ask your sister?

[Anonymous]

I do the opposite, I lie and say I have job all the time because I think it gets me more respect.