I just DCUM'd my family

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:That is a smart call and I am sure the hosts are secretly relieved. You can stay from morning to evening and just sleep and shower in your AirBnB. No biggie.

Or you can actually spend time at your Air BnB to get a break. It's really ok to do more than just shower and sleep there.

Yes. Why would they need to be at the relative’s house for 16 hours a day?

My apologies, I was assuming OP liked spending time with her family. This is what I do when I go visit family but there isn’t enough space for everyone to sleep there. If you don’t want to spend time with them, you can stay in your hotel room.

I doubt you spend 16 hours straight with your own nuclear family. Spending 16 hours straight with someone is really odd and tedious.

[Anonymous]

If covid pandemic gave me anything it was freedom to make decisions that are best for immediate family and not just to appease my extended family or the in-laws. Never again.

[Anonymous]

Congrats!!

Put your needs 1st! I mean it and am working on the same thing!