The moment you knew your spouse did not love you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When she suddenly became super-duper critical, and started making critical comments about the most trivial things I did. Suddenly, I could do absolutely nothing right. Also, she revised her understanding of the entire history of our relationship such that I had never done anything right, ever. And there were crazy accusations - for example, she said the engagement ring I bought her had fake diamonds. Wouldn't even matter that I could show her the receipt for it, if you're at the point where she can even think that about you, you're done.

When I read posts in this forum by women complaining about their DH doing this and that thing wrong, I know exactly what that is. She might not be at the point of not loving him any more, but she's well on the way.

Whatever you say. Go get the ring tested at a reputable jeweler. Or did she already?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When she suddenly became super-duper critical, and started making critical comments about the most trivial things I did. Suddenly, I could do absolutely nothing right. Also, she revised her understanding of the entire history of our relationship such that I had never done anything right, ever. And there were crazy accusations - for example, she said the engagement ring I bought her had fake diamonds. Wouldn't even matter that I could show her the receipt for it, if you're at the point where she can even think that about you, you're done.

When I read posts in this forum by women complaining about their DH doing this and that thing wrong, I know exactly what that is. She might not be at the point of not loving him any more, but she's well on the way.

Yeah. She’s cheating.

[Anonymous]

When I caught her in bed taking BBC in her behind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When she would rather masturbate than have sex with me. Been going on 2 months with no sex. I’m ready to leave

LOL, two months. That's cute. Try eight years.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When she would rather masturbate than have sex with me. Been going on 2 months with no sex. I’m ready to leave

You think masturbation means your spouse doesn’t love you? Yikes, dude. You’re too delicate for a long-term relationship.

+2. Sounds so needy.

+3. You are awful. Enjoy a lonely life.

[Anonymous]

The look on his face when he was watching his coworker perform karaoke. She was singing " Fools Rush In".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When she would rather masturbate than have sex with me. Been going on 2 months with no sex. I’m ready to leave

You think masturbation means your spouse doesn’t love you? Yikes, dude. You’re too delicate for a long-term relationship.

Masturbating instead of sex, ever is a red flag. Agree two months is sort of par for the course in marriage some of the time but also agree men start to go crazy and cheat or leave if denied for a while

No, no it isn’t.

+1. Check out the secrets in a monogamous relationship thread. Can be a way if bridging desire gap

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I caught her in bed taking BBC in her behind.

BBC in the behind isn’t about love.

Need more evidence

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The look on his face when he was watching his coworker perform karaoke. She was singing " Fools Rush In".

Maybe she’s just a good singer?

Are you still together

[Anonymous]

When I got sick and he didn’t check on me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The look on his face when he was watching his coworker perform karaoke. She was singing " Fools Rush In".

Maybe she’s just a good singer?

Are you still together

She is a really good singer, but he looked at her the way he used to look at me, and yes we're still together

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The look on his face when he was watching his coworker perform karaoke. She was singing " Fools Rush In".

Maybe she’s just a good singer?

Are you still together

She is a really good singer, but he looked at her the way he used to look at me, and yes we're still together

How heartbreaking. I don’t think I could stay. Did they have an affair?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When she suddenly became super-duper critical, and started making critical comments about the most trivial things I did. Suddenly, I could do absolutely nothing right. Also, she revised her understanding of the entire history of our relationship such that I had never done anything right, ever. And there were crazy accusations - for example, she said the engagement ring I bought her had fake diamonds. Wouldn't even matter that I could show her the receipt for it, if you're at the point where she can even think that about you, you're done.

When I read posts in this forum by women complaining about their DH doing this and that thing wrong, I know exactly what that is. She might not be at the point of not loving him any more, but she's well on the way.

Whatever you say. Go get the ring tested at a reputable jeweler. Or did she already?

I bought the ring, I know the diamonds are real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The look on his face when he was watching his coworker perform karaoke. She was singing " Fools Rush In".

Maybe she’s just a good singer?

Are you still together

She is a really good singer, but he looked at her the way he used to look at me, and yes we're still together

How heartbreaking. I don’t think I could stay. Did they have an affair?

As far as I know, they haven't but I honestly don't want to go looking either to find out, don' think I could handle it if he did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The look on his face when he was watching his coworker perform karaoke. She was singing " Fools Rush In".

Maybe she’s just a good singer?

Are you still together

She is a really good singer, but he looked at her the way he used to look at me, and yes we're still together

How heartbreaking. I don’t think I could stay. Did they have an affair?

As far as I know, they haven't but I honestly don't want to go looking either to find out, don' think I could handle it if he did.

Even if he finds that other woman attractive, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Maybe there are other pieces to the story. But a person can find other people attractive, or even magnetic, and still love the person they are with. There are probably lots of lovely things about you and your relationship that he loves and couldn't live without. And that can be true even if he finds that singing co-worker attractive.