What the hell is going on with Demi Lovato?

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Anonymous wrote:She’s a junkie. Already threads on her

+1.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/974546.page

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/966909.page

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Anonymous wrote:WTF is wrong with all of you? Can you imagine your weight fluxuations, bad choices, trauma, etc being on display for the whole world to comment on? Get a life.

?? Did they not choose this life? No one is forced to be a celebrity. Please.

She was 10. Lots of choices then, right?

Are they 10 now? Or are they voluntarily continuing their public lifestyle?

Please search “golden handcuffs”, and that’s usually used for people that had choice to start with. These people were CHILDREN, usually manipulated by the adults in their lives. The damage is done to these people long before they have the privilege of choice and self determination, and by then, it’s been beaten into them that they don’t have any of that.

They’ve lived like this their whole life. They don’t have the opportunity to just click their heels and have it all go away.

Weird. So every child star ends up in the public as an adult. Huh, who knew.

I’d say that a disproportionate number end up having difficulties especially in early adulthood, wouldn’t you?

Having difficulties in adulthood has nothing to do with their choice to stay in the public eye and being attention seeking. Otherwise there would be thousands of former child actors constantly in the news. Demi comes up with a new excuse for her behavior every year. And her CA sober stance is not the way to treat her addiction issue nor her mental illness. She needs longterm intensive treatment.

[Anonymous]

Non binary people do NOT say “they does”. It’s “they do”.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez, age 29
Demi Lovato, age 29

What's "going on" with them? Childless and almost 30. They have no purpose, they have squandered their fertility prime & peak beauty (to attract a mate) on partying, "dating" and other pointlessness. Now they confront 30 childless and alone, thus they are depressed and getting nuts.

I am not sure Selena Gomez is recommended to have any children as she has had a kidney transplant- related to her Lupus.

Being a survivor of rape, Demi Lovato needs empathy more than anything else.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez, age 29
Demi Lovato, age 29

What's "going on" with them? Childless and almost 30. They have no purpose, they have squandered their fertility prime & peak beauty (to attract a mate) on partying, "dating" and other pointlessness. Now they confront 30 childless and alone, thus they are depressed and getting nuts.

WTF??? Were you a teen mom? Maybe explains why you're so fracking stupid.

They're multi-millionaires and near 30, not teens. For all of human history, outside of maybe perhaps the last 30 or so years, these young ladies would have 1 to 3 children by now. Their bodies yearn for purpose, yearn to be mothers, they're idle all day, they drive themselves nuts. Many such cases.

Wuuuuut??

This has to be a troll. Idle all day? You know celebrities are some of the hardest working people in existence, right? They don't just show up to the recording studio for a day to record an album, they're pushed to the limit day in and day out. That's what drives them nuts, not a lack of kids.

And it's totally crazy to think successful, multi-millionaire, celebrity women can't "attract a mate" because they're 29. Puh-leeze. Maybe they don't even *want* a partner. If I had that kind of money, I'd stay single, too. Who needs the drama of a man when you can have anything you want?

I say this as a mother. Getting married and having kids didn't suddenly make me fulfilled and happy with my life. Happiness comes from within.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Non binary people do NOT say “they does”. It’s “they do”.

Time for a singular pronoun.

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Anonymous wrote:Non binary people do NOT say “they does”. It’s “they do”.

“It’s Selena’s birthday. Since Demi is her friend, they went to a store to buy gift for Selena.”

“They shopped together for a birthday gift?”

“No. Selena doesn’t know what the gift is, but Demi do.”

And scene.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez, age 29
Demi Lovato, age 29

What's "going on" with them? Childless and almost 30. They have no purpose, they have squandered their fertility prime & peak beauty (to attract a mate) on partying, "dating" and other pointlessness. Now they confront 30 childless and alone, thus they are depressed and getting nuts.

I am not sure Selena Gomez is recommended to have any children as she has had a kidney transplant- related to her Lupus.

Being a survivor of rape, Demi Lovato needs empathy more than anything else.

Not being healthy enough or lacking fertility doesn't delete the instinct and desire to be a mother, taking care of children, and raising heirs. It's in our DNA. Being a genetic dead-end causes women and men (ex. incels) to go nuts.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez, age 29
Demi Lovato, age 29

What's "going on" with them? Childless and almost 30. They have no purpose, they have squandered their fertility prime & peak beauty (to attract a mate) on partying, "dating" and other pointlessness. Now they confront 30 childless and alone, thus they are depressed and getting nuts.

I am not sure Selena Gomez is recommended to have any children as she has had a kidney transplant- related to her Lupus.

Being a survivor of rape, Demi Lovato needs empathy more than anything else.

Not being healthy enough or lacking fertility doesn't delete the instinct and desire to be a mother, taking care of children, and raising heirs. It's in our DNA. Being a genetic dead-end causes women and men (ex. incels) to go nuts.

Time for your meds, granny.

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Not being healthy enough or lacking fertility doesn't delete the instinct and desire to be a mother, taking care of children, and raising heirs. It's in our DNA. Being a genetic dead-end causes women and men (ex. incels) to go nuts.

Can you share the research that supports this? I'm sure you know that the number of "incels" is vanishingly small compared to the number of childless men and women alive today.

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Demi Lovato was sexually abused on the set of Barney. She has never gotten over it.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez, age 29
Demi Lovato, age 29

What's "going on" with them? Childless and almost 30. They have no purpose, they have squandered their fertility prime & peak beauty (to attract a mate) on partying, "dating" and other pointlessness. Now they confront 30 childless and alone, thus they are depressed and getting nuts.

I am not sure Selena Gomez is recommended to have any children as she has had a kidney transplant- related to her Lupus.

Being a survivor of rape, Demi Lovato needs empathy more than anything else.

Not being healthy enough or lacking fertility doesn't delete the instinct and desire to be a mother, taking care of children, and raising heirs. It's in our DNA. Being a genetic dead-end causes women and men (ex. incels) to go nuts.

I wasn’t able to have children. Sure, it was hard. It will always hurt. But I have pets, I have people in my life, and I’m definitely not nuts.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez, age 29
Demi Lovato, age 29

What's "going on" with them? Childless and almost 30. They have no purpose, they have squandered their fertility prime & peak beauty (to attract a mate) on partying, "dating" and other pointlessness. Now they confront 30 childless and alone, thus they are depressed and getting nuts.

I am not sure Selena Gomez is recommended to have any children as she has had a kidney transplant- related to her Lupus.

Being a survivor of rape, Demi Lovato needs empathy more than anything else.

Not being healthy enough or lacking fertility doesn't delete the instinct and desire to be a mother, taking care of children, and raising heirs. It's in our DNA. Being a genetic dead-end causes women and men (ex. incels) to go nuts.

What?

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Anonymous wrote:She seems to be on downward spiral with insanity.

Please don’t misgender them, it’s very derogatory.

Oh for FFS- it’s not derogatory. It’s Demi’s preference to be called “they” - some people don’t know or forget or whatever. Stop being offended on other peoples behalf

If we're talking about one person, it's he or she.

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Anonymous wrote:Selena Gomez, age 29
Demi Lovato, age 29

What's "going on" with them? Childless and almost 30. They have no purpose, they have squandered their fertility prime & peak beauty (to attract a mate) on partying, "dating" and other pointlessness. Now they confront 30 childless and alone, thus they are depressed and getting nuts.

I am not sure Selena Gomez is recommended to have any children as she has had a kidney transplant- related to her Lupus.

Being a survivor of rape, Demi Lovato needs empathy more than anything else.

Not being healthy enough or lacking fertility doesn't delete the instinct and desire to be a mother, taking care of children, and raising heirs. It's in our DNA. Being a genetic dead-end causes women and men (ex. incels) to go nuts.

What is most crazy about this incredibly antiquated and misogynistic post is that it says that infertility, something many many many many women struggle with and deal with is a more likely reason that Demi Lovato is messed up than the plethora of incredibly obvious reasons (sexual assault as a minor, being a child star, being a drug addict, ODing to the point of brain damage, long history with depression and self esteem issues).

She is just an extremely damaged person with an extremely large microphone so you are bearing witness to her mental health struggles. Give empathy, she will likely never find real happiness.