Your take on this is ridiculous and it actually explains why so many kids fail to launch. Cleaning up after yourself is a pretty basic life skill. It sounds like first PP has a kid who knows this is the expectation. And they also know how to cook. Good for them! You seem a little confused that these are both reasonable expectations to have of teenagers. Just a thought: Your kid is capable of more than you think… |
look, you have to define cleaning. It doesn’t matter how well my kid cleans, I clean better. So by my standards it won’t be clean. You want to call me crazy, ocd, whatever, go ahead! I will not forbid my kids from cooking because they will not clean to my standards. I prefer them to know how to cook a healthy meal rather than leave a spotless kitchen. Now basic pick up after self is expected, but that’s different than cleaning. When I get to it, I’ll teach/remind them. |
| ^ plus, if my kid is cooking a family meal, someone else definitely has to help with clean up. |
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Cottage cheese is a standard for mine. And salami.
Can anyone recommend a good frozen bean cheese and rice burrito? Costco had a great one but I can’t find it there anymore. The ones I have seen all seem to have meat or veggies mixed in. Thanks! |
Amy’s or Cedar Lane. |
They are teen athletes—let them eat ice cream if they want without sneaking it! |
She’s probably better off having a scoop of ice cream and no protein shake. |
I’m impressed! I wish my kids were as independent and would take initiative to feed themselves once in a while. |
My athlete works so hard she needs the carbs. There is such disordered eating about carbs out there now days. |
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Hummus and other beans on toast.
Man, 10pm is brutal. And what time do they need to get up in the morning?! Crazy. |
| My kids have always been lower in the weight percentiles than height percentiles. I've never limited their food and we've always had full fat dairy in the house. I try to keep string cheese, milk, yogurt, crackers/pretzels, plain cheerios, mac and cheese, peanut butter, and berries around. |
Wait are they preschoolers or high schoolers? |