I don't know if y'all are some of the true crime folks who filtered over here from somewhere else on the internet, but the scenario you just described (woman enjoys independent party lifestyle, works job she doesn't care about, quits job in order to run around with new boyfriend, marries boyfriend, has baby) could describe a lot of women on THIS site! Hell, it could describe ME - my husband earns more than I do, paid for me to go to grad school for something interesting but not lucrative, works long hours, loves our kids, and likes outside stuff. When I was younger, I liked living in the city and going to parties and traveling a lot. DH liked that stuff too. We did a lot of it together. We like other stuff now, and our lifestyle reflects that. It's actually pretty normal for people's interests and activities to shift as they mature and develop. It's the times that DOESN'T happen that are usually problematic. It's like people see "Jon liked Mariposa" and "Jon has a rural childhood" and "Jon loved his daughter" and assume that because those things are not being said explicitly about Ellen, that must mean that she's a checked out ageing party girl who landed a rich husband who then trapped her with a baby or whatever it is y'all are suggesting. |
THIS. And having a nanny or struggling a bit adjusting to new motherhood, compounded by isolation during cv is not nefarious. HS is a finding by exclusion, esp in the scenario with no witnesses and with the bodies being out in the sun for days. So many dramatic statements trashing the woman or implying "lawyering up" with no basis at all, they could all be complete fabrications. Suspect it is the same poster. Great call by Jeff in nixing the idea of a True Crime forum. How is getting pregnant after the wedding "trapping someone" with a baby? Hard to be an aging party girl at 30, lol. |
Preposterous. The lack of a note means nothing. Most persons dying by suicide don’t leave notes. Tox is not performed in autopsies. The autopsy provides fluids and other samples to pathologists. Heat does not degrade liver and blood samples. The sheriff did not request tox’ the ME performing autopsies handled that and will be the first to get the results of drugs found. Don’t assume what we know. |
If 30 is "aging" this forum skews ancient, lol.
It all seems pretty normal to me, except for the tragic ending. Small mistakes or errors in judgment can really compound in nature. So many have died from HS this year, and so many dogs on trails from same. Really hope public education gets better or trails are simply closed in extreme heat. That SAR dogs were impacted as was LE the day the bodies were found speaks to the extreme heat in that canyon in the morning, never mind in direct afternoon sun. I do wonder about people who make up elaborate stories @ strangers. Many on this board likely lived with roommates before boyfriends and husbands. Nothing nefarious there either. FA and M/S are quite rare. Death from HS when it is 109+ is not. We may never know what really happened with no witnesses. |
No note means we may never know the motive or if it was accidental, we have no info either way. No witnesses either. |
Tox and autopsies are 2 completely different things.
The autopsy finding was pending tox results. Some of which are back per the sheriff, others of which are not, and NONE OF WHICH HAVE BEEN RELEASED. We can't draw any conclusions without that information. Both the tox and autopsy findings would be impacted by the bodies being exposed in high heat from Sunday until midday Wed. So, findings may not be conclusive. |
50 is considered elderly here. It's just a few years from the home. |
Pot growing in that area they hiked is odd. It’s a treeless, extremely hot location. A grow op would be so visible to law enforcement. So much water would be needed to keep the crop going. Access wouldn’t be easy for the growers. Unless the pot growers enjoy steep hikes, they could pick other locations to grow pot. |
MS incidents appear much higher than HS.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-human-equation/202003/the-tragedy-murder-suicides |
Sundowner at 50? Yikes. |
Just a side note, in reading this thread I have been googling many of the terms like FA and stats on MS. Just hope nothing bad happens and police look at my search history! Lol. |
Wasn’t there a post that said Jon, Ellen and baby were seen in the museum on Saturday? |
Common sense is anathema to the drama llamas that have invaded the board. It is SO steep. Had it been less so they likely would have made it out of the canyon. There are Google Earth links and photos on FB of work being done on the SL trail that really give a sense of how barren and exposed the switchbacks are. |
Jon and the baby went to a museum on Friday. |
Good luck with that, lol! We may never know given how long the bodies sat out in the heat. Neither is nearly as common as HS is in 109+ degree hikes in steep canyons. |