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Me: Fed Attorney with 3 years experience. I'm currently at $91K, but will get my 14 in a couple of months, and be at $107K I think.
DH: Auditor at non-profit makes $69K, and he has his masters. |
^^^we are 28. |
I feel you. Both DH and I have advanced degrees from a solid institution. I am not very happy with my salary or growth potential, but the job search isn't going well. (I'm a Fed, but I'm excepted, so I don't get priority consideration for positions.) DH has more growth potential, but I haven't seen anything come to fruition. He works 60 hours a week, travels a lot, and he makes about the same as your DH. One advantage you have is the flexibility to stay home with your child. DH and I are don't have many babymaking years left, and I think we've given up, partly because we both have unpredictable, impossible schedules. And we can't afford a nanny. Regular daycare wouldn't suffice. I feel like we did everything right, but we're trapped. We're not building a family, and we're not really building meaningful careers. And time is running out. Applying for jobs is soul-sucking. You are supposed to stay confident and positive in order to market yourself, but it's hard. No matter how much you have done or how much education you have, even secretarial postings are written in such a way to make you feel unqualified. You can't just submit a resume. Every position has its own application process, complete with elaborate personality tests. And networking... I hate feeling like I'm using people or exploiting friendships. |
+1 And good career civil servants are truly doing a service..not just just jobbing it out. |
Please. Do you know who does basic research for the U.S.? Fed scientists at NIH, NIST, DARPA, IARPA, ARL, and many other agencies. NOAA weather forecasters protect us. Their work benefits everybody and helps spin-out private companies. It's the frickin lobbyists and lawyers with their million dollar salaries that sicken me...peddling influence to buy McMansions. Sorry, pp annoyed me. |
+1, sad how so many are ignorant of what government workers actually do! |
As a taxpayer, I wish I could agree with you. As a federal contractor a vast majority of my clients are incompetent and lazy and uninterested in anything but their own career ladder and/or retirement date. They pass off a tremendous amount of work to contractors, even work that falls well within the scope of their position description. My clients often have solid degrees and resumes but they deliberately come to the federal government to coast ... these are not passionate civil servants trying to make this country a better place. |