Oliva Wilde and Jason Sudeikis divorce

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The biggest takeaway I got from all this (assuming these claims are true) is that Jason Sudeikis is......NOT Ted Lasso. He sounds borderline abusive, not just to Olivia but to the nanny as well. At times both of them are telling him they are scared of him and the nanny refuses to come down to see him. He gets angry with the nanny for daring to communicate with Olivia (who is the mother of the kids she is responsible for), he makes her go to sessions with his life therapist so the therapist can get dirt on Olivia from her, he fires her in a drunken rage for doing so and throws her out of the house where she lives. What is all this?

All the headlines are focusing on the "affair" (and salad dressing), but how are people ignoring all this problematic behavior?

I think he sounds panicky about his family and life falling apart after finding about about the deception and lies of a cheating partner. And someone who is coping by drinking too much. He has lost all control over his life and is trying to find a way to get a little back. His behaviour is problematic but it could be very context specific. He is at home with the kids while his wife is out sleeping with someone else and living away for 'work'. That has made a lot of men and women very angry and hurt.

Interesting the nanny clearly doesn't like either of them! It isn't very often you see a celebrity nanny prepared to spill on their bosses as it means no more Hollywood work for them. She was obviously fed up enough she decided to take the Daily Mail paycheck and blow it up!

There have been past reports of this nanny harassing Sudeikis and Wilde since she was fired. I suspect she went to DM to get paid because her reputation as a nanny was trash and she couldn’t get hired by anyone else. Would you trust this person to care for your child?

The nanny says she was mad how it ended and she left mistreated and didn't get severance pay due to the was she fired or did she resign debate during this mess. She also didn't get to say good bye to the two kids who she had been with for 3 years. Sounds like she decided to cut her losses and get the Daily Mail to pay her severance check. Likely the mess of the situation made her never want to nanny for celebs again! I wonder how much he daily mail would pay for a story like this.

Even worse, the nanny couldn't get unemployment because OW and JS maintained that she voluntarily resigned.

The nanny was absolutely in the clear to go to the Daily Mail and get paid for the interview. OW and JS basically abused their nanny, put her in the middle of their insane break-up, kicked her out of housing in a foreign country in the middle of the night, and then essentially forced her out without severance. And then.....wouldn't let her apply for unemployment because she technically "resigned."

Such ungrateful, ungracious, rich narcissists. They deserve to have their tea spilled in the tabloids.

Moral of the story: if you're famous and going through horrible life events, treat your staff well and pay for their discretion. OW and JS were stupid to not offer this nanny a five-figure severance given everything they put her through.

DailyMail,says the nanny was NOT paid for the interview.

So sad. I’d want the nanny to make $$$$. They clearly treated her like garbage. The least she can do is sell
Her story and texts. He’ll, the Enquirer could have paid her for the story. Is the Enquirer still around?! I want the nanny to be okay and paid. She’s the real victim here. Not OW or JS - they are garbage people to treat the nanny poorly. I am team Nanny - 100%

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Anonymous wrote:This all has to be making Harry cringe. He is so private, and to have his girlfriend as tabloid fodder day in and day out has to be making him re-think this.

I'm not a big Harry Styles fan but this has been one of my thoughts too. Frankly I'm surprised him and OW are still together. And, as a Ted Lasso fan, I wonder if this is partially why we have nothing re: season 3 yet beyond pics of filming.

I get why Harry went for her in the first place - she's older (he likes that), she's accomplished & intelligent, she has some British ancestry, she's a big girl and can handle the fandom hate. But this media circus is complete anathema to who he is. I do feel badly for him - anyone he dates has to deal with BS, but this is on another level.

I don’t really follow Harry styles but im not sure how you consider this circus to be a complete anathema to who he is when he went for a long time engaged woman with two young kids. Either way, he went for a woman who was breaking up her family.

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This all explains why the cast at the premieres of the movie didn’t seem to want to be there.

The hotness of it all is probably at the end for Harry. If OW was hooked on him like drugs, then she’s still crazy about him and will be for a while even after they break up. She’ll know how Jason felt. I expect this to happen soon Anne everyone will think it’s cause of the nanny stories. I think it’s close to fizzling out.

Given how Jason was treated through all this, I think publicly he handled it very well. As for the way he was in private, everyone has their moments when their heart is broken.

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Anonymous wrote:This all explains why the cast at the premieres of the movie didn’t seem to want to be there.

The hotness of it all is probably at the end for Harry. If OW was hooked on him like drugs, then she’s still crazy about him and will be for a while even after they break up. She’ll know how Jason felt. I expect this to happen soon Anne everyone will think it’s cause of the nanny stories. I think it’s close to fizzling out.

Given how Jason was treated through all this, I think publicly he handled it very well. As for the way he was in private, everyone has their moments when their heart is broken.

I don't know. I'm a Ted Lasso fan and there is a big disconnect between the character he plays in that show and the way he was treating the people in his household. Both Wilde and the nanny appeared to say to him a different times that they were afraid of him. His response when Wilde said that to him was "then why are you leaving your children with me?" Neither of them come off looking good on that one imho.

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I’m shocked two Hollywood bigwigs weren’t smart enough to have their hired help sign a non-disclosure.

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I don't know if she's being facetious, given the plot of the book, but Olivia Wilde posted the salad dressing recipe, which is from Nora Ephron's book Heartburn.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if she's being facetious, given the plot of the book, but Olivia Wilde posted the salad dressing recipe, which is from Nora Ephron's book Heartburn.

That's what I can't figure out - sure, she thinks she's being wryly funny, but isn't she just pouring gasoline on the fire? And she herself said she refuses to add to the internet hellfire. Rather hypocritical.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if she's being facetious, given the plot of the book, but Olivia Wilde posted the salad dressing recipe, which is from Nora Ephron's book Heartburn.

PR teams can only do so much if clients insist on their own postings— assuming that is what the dressing recipe was. Agree the salad posting runs counter to the joint statement from JS and OW PR teams to say “nothing to see here.”

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Nobody knows if Jason was crazy or violent. Nobody knows if she just fell for a younger guy and convinced herself she was a victim and felt compelled to paint Jason in a bad light so she wouldn’t feel like the bad guy. Both are plausible. They all suck.

And to the pp who feels sorry for Harry because he isn’t interested in drama or media attention: Lol. The guy craves attention. Nonetheless, he will pull an Ashton Kutcher pretty soon and move on to a fertile woman.

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Anonymous wrote:Nobody knows if Jason was crazy or violent. Nobody knows if she just fell for a younger guy and convinced herself she was a victim and felt compelled to paint Jason in a bad light so she wouldn’t feel like the bad guy. Both are plausible. They all suck.

And to the pp who feels sorry for Harry because he isn’t interested in drama or media attention: Lol. The guy craves attention. Nonetheless, he will pull an Ashton Kutcher pretty soon and move on to a fertile woman.

Olivia Wilde is 38. Contrary to what you may believe, women can still have babies well into their 40s.

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Anonymous wrote:Nobody knows if Jason was crazy or violent. Nobody knows if she just fell for a younger guy and convinced herself she was a victim and felt compelled to paint Jason in a bad light so she wouldn’t feel like the bad guy. Both are plausible. They all suck.

And to the pp who feels sorry for Harry because he isn’t interested in drama or media attention: Lol. The guy craves attention. Nonetheless, he will pull an Ashton Kutcher pretty soon and move on to a fertile woman.

Men looking for beards typically aren’t looking to have babies.

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Anonymous wrote:Nobody knows if Jason was crazy or violent. Nobody knows if she just fell for a younger guy and convinced herself she was a victim and felt compelled to paint Jason in a bad light so she wouldn’t feel like the bad guy. Both are plausible. They all suck.

And to the pp who feels sorry for Harry because he isn’t interested in drama or media attention: Lol. The guy craves attention. Nonetheless, he will pull an Ashton Kutcher pretty soon and move on to a fertile woman.

Olivia Wilde is 38. Contrary to what you may believe, women can still have babies well into their 40s.

When he's 40, does he want to be with a woman in menopause?

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Anonymous wrote:Nobody knows if Jason was crazy or violent. Nobody knows if she just fell for a younger guy and convinced herself she was a victim and felt compelled to paint Jason in a bad light so she wouldn’t feel like the bad guy. Both are plausible. They all suck.

And to the pp who feels sorry for Harry because he isn’t interested in drama or media attention: Lol. The guy craves attention. Nonetheless, he will pull an Ashton Kutcher pretty soon and move on to a fertile woman.

Olivia Wilde is 38. Contrary to what you may believe, women can still have babies well into their 40s.

Absolutely. But most guys that age aren’t looking to have babies in the near term. They want babies in 5-10 years, and they also want a wife that is going to snap right back from that. I remember all the talk about Ashton and how he loved Demi and embraced her age. In a decade. He dumped her for a young woman and had a couple babies. Maybe harry will be different….there certainly are men out there that stay with an older woman (Macron?). But they are rather the exception.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if she's being facetious, given the plot of the book, but Olivia Wilde posted the salad dressing recipe, which is from Nora Ephron's book Heartburn.

That's what I can't figure out - sure, she thinks she's being wryly funny, but isn't she just pouring gasoline on the fire? And she herself said she refuses to add to the internet hellfire. Rather hypocritical.

DP. Because she loves attention and clearly thinks everyone is a bit player in her staring show. So much of the drama surrounding her the last year has been because she just won’t keep her mouth shut. The whole thing with Shia was because she lied in VF. This last round of drama was because she was very insistent on a fake timeline when the cheating story literally could’ve been over by now.

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Anonymous wrote:Nobody knows if Jason was crazy or violent. Nobody knows if she just fell for a younger guy and convinced herself she was a victim and felt compelled to paint Jason in a bad light so she wouldn’t feel like the bad guy. Both are plausible. They all suck.

And to the pp who feels sorry for Harry because he isn’t interested in drama or media attention: Lol. The guy craves attention. Nonetheless, he will pull an Ashton Kutcher pretty soon and move on to a fertile woman.

Olivia Wilde is 38. Contrary to what you may believe, women can still have babies well into their 40s.

Absolutely. But most guys that age aren’t looking to have babies in the near term. They want babies in 5-10 years, and they also want a wife that is going to snap right back from that. I remember all the talk about Ashton and how he loved Demi and embraced her age. In a decade. He dumped her for a young woman and had a couple babies. Maybe harry will be different….there certainly are men out there that stay with an older woman (Macron?). But they are rather the exception.

DP. Ashton really only dated one older woman (Demi). Whereas Harry seems to have some sort of preference for them. He also was rumored to have dated Tracee Ellis Ross and one other older married woman.

That said he’s not going to have kids with Olivia because he is going to cut and run as soon as all of this dies down. He doesn’t like being the villain.