Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Both PP’s said he cheated but the first one knew no details. The second says it was with someone very very young. These comments are not in conflict with each other.

If he cheated with someone besides Tina that means he got caught by Jen with the youngin’ then met Tina soon after. All pretty shady business.

Nope. Go back and read again. The first person said HE CHEATED ON HIS WIFE FOR AT LEAST FOUR YEARS! All caps and everything.
The second person said he definitely didn’t cheat for 4 years.

I was the person who said I knew it was fact - I only meant the cheating part. That is a fact. The Who what when why where how long, I don’t know.

The four years part seems to be outside speculation and is unlikely imo.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well that would explain why all his old friends (Tray and crew) and his kids abandoned him if that is true.

It seemed that based on the pics of his recent trip to Mexico, it was Brandon and Tina and Tina’s friends. He genuinely doesn’t seem to have any adult friends of his own anymore. I find it interesting that whatever he did was bad enough that his old friends don’t seem to be his friends anymore. Maybe that’s why he has all of these references to loyalty?

He has old friends who are still friends.
They just aren’t social media whores.
Who do you think got him his jobs?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:“I heard it was an addiction to little people porn that got away from him — it morphed into a fetish that he couldn’t control. Jen found out— Brandon tried to coax her into adopting some little people from some 3rd world countries. She saw it as an opportunity to gain more followers, but she just couldn’t get over what she’d seen.”

What an idiotic attempt at trying to be funny.

This is so funny!!!!

I chuckled.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Well that would explain why all his old friends (Tray and crew) and his kids abandoned him if that is true.

It seemed that based on the pics of his recent trip to Mexico, it was Brandon and Tina and Tina’s friends. He genuinely doesn’t seem to have any adult friends of his own anymore. I find it interesting that whatever he did was bad enough that his old friends don’t seem to be his friends anymore. Maybe that’s why he has all of these references to loyalty?

He has old friends who are still friends.
They just aren’t social media whores.
Who do you think got him his jobs?

Good point. I forgot about his appointed VP Title that he’s unqualified for.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Both PP’s said he cheated but the first one knew no details. The second says it was with someone very very young. These comments are not in conflict with each other.

If he cheated with someone besides Tina that means he got caught by Jen with the youngin’ then met Tina soon after. All pretty shady business.

Second one cheered him on for banging someone decades younger than him. So it’s true, but you cheer him on for it!? Ewww. Are you also cheering him on for the drinking and gambling? Gross.

I just hope his new lady truly knows how low his bottom was because the cheating with strippers, gambling and drinking problems don’t just go away because you spend a couple months in reflection and then meet someone new. I’m all for rooting for someone’s healing, but rooting for their cheating is messed up.

Who said he cheated with strippers?!?! 😂 This thread y’all. It’s a trip.
I love how people keep dropping little bombs then moving right along.

I heard it was an addiction to little people porn that got away from him — it morphed into a fetish that he couldn’t control. Jen found out— Brandon tried to coax her into adopting some little people from some 3rd world countries. She saw it as an opportunity to gain more followers, but she just couldn’t get over what she’d seen.

Are you also one of the posters saying you recognize the Holy Spirit in others or using random scriptures out of context to show back up your opinions about Jen and Brandon, because this tracks. This comment is hateful, discriminatory, and not remotely clever. Obviously, in this forum I don’t know if it was the same person spouting scripture and then making a bigoted “joke”. However, I’ve had similar experiences in churches and have seen a certain politician make fun of a person with a disability, all the while his followers defended him and brushed off the “joke.” This sort of behavior needs to be addressed in the evangelical community or people will continue to deconstruct. There’s a reason why Jen’s deconstruction and a move away from evangelicalism still garners support and loyal followers. People are willing to put up with the promo codes and goofy behavior because her experiences and story still ring true for so many.

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Anonymous wrote:It seems to me that all of these overly sympathetic characterizations of Brandon from the Christian women on this board belie the deeply rooted misogyny so prevalent in a lot of Christianity.

I’m no Jen fan - I find her vapid, fake and immature, but these Brandon takes “poor Brandon - he cheated and abused alcohol and drugs bc he was married to someone more famous than he is but he really loves the lord” are outrageous.

The difference is that Brandon isn’t swindling people. No one is calling him a saint, but it’s hard to have the disdain for him that people do for Jen when she’s the one actively deceiving others.

HE CHEATED ON HIS WIFE FOR AT LEAST FOUR YEARS. Now he's schilling real estate. My God.

Except. We literally have no idea if this is a fact. None!

I know it’s a fact.

How? People are gonna start calling you Jen!
Can you share anything more about this?

If I told you, I’d have to kill you.
J/k, friends of friends w them both.
I’ve known a while but did not share it here until she essentionally shared it herself on Glennon’s podcast.
That’s all I know. I don’t know who or how long.
As much as jen irritates me, I feel awful for her. No one deserves that.

Thank you for sharing. I totally respect that you don’t want to say too much. Did you end up here from Google like most of us, or did someone send you the link? (Curious if there are more people who kind of know them on here than we realize.)

Another ex-ANCer told me about it.
No one has been more disappointed & hurt by the Hatmakers than all of us.

I’m sorry. Sometimes I forget that these people were someone’s pastors.
It’s heard to wrap my mind around that. And I know it must be painful and sad.

[Anonymous]

So very sorry. I feel duped by her earlier writings and what she is selling and promoting now.
I can’t only imagine how ANC members feel.
You bought into the vision because it was a good and noble one - a church where all would feel welcomed.
Yet now it seems to be also part of the wake of destruction these people have brought about much due to their own selfishness.

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Anonymous wrote:Both PP’s said he cheated but the first one knew no details. The second says it was with someone very very young. These comments are not in conflict with each other.

If he cheated with someone besides Tina that means he got caught by Jen with the youngin’ then met Tina soon after. All pretty shady business.

Second one cheered him on for banging someone decades younger than him. So it’s true, but you cheer him on for it!? Ewww. Are you also cheering him on for the drinking and gambling? Gross.

I just hope his new lady truly knows how low his bottom was because the cheating with strippers, gambling and drinking problems don’t just go away because you spend a couple months in reflection and then meet someone new. I’m all for rooting for someone’s healing, but rooting for their cheating is messed up.

Who said he cheated with strippers?!?! 😂 This thread y’all. It’s a trip.
I love how people keep dropping little bombs then moving right along.

I heard it was an addiction to little people porn that got away from him — it morphed into a fetish that he couldn’t control. Jen found out— Brandon tried to coax her into adopting some little people from some 3rd world countries. She saw it as an opportunity to gain more followers, but she just couldn’t get over what she’d seen.

Are you also one of the posters saying you recognize the Holy Spirit in others or using random scriptures out of context to show back up your opinions about Jen and Brandon, because this tracks. This comment is hateful, discriminatory, and not remotely clever. Obviously, in this forum I don’t know if it was the same person spouting scripture and then making a bigoted “joke”. However, I’ve had similar experiences in churches and have seen a certain politician make fun of a person with a disability, all the while his followers defended him and brushed off the “joke.” This sort of behavior needs to be addressed in the evangelical community or people will continue to deconstruct. There’s a reason why Jen’s deconstruction and a move away from evangelicalism still garners support and loyal followers. People are willing to put up with the promo codes and goofy behavior because her experiences and story still ring true for so many.

I’m pretty sure the odd post about a little people fetish was written by someone with a sense of humor like Caleb Hatmaker. There’s been a young male troll popping up here and there who is connected to the Hatmakers. Sometimes he even makes me laugh cause it’s so off the wall and ridiculous, but not the fetish comment. Truth is we don’t know how deep and dark Brandon’s addictions ran. We do know it was bad enough to bust up a 20+ marriage and traumatize their 5 mostly grown kids.

[Anonymous]

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Are you also one of the posters saying you recognize the Holy Spirit in others or using random scriptures out of context to show back up your opinions about Jen and Brandon, because this tracks. This comment is hateful, discriminatory, and not remotely clever. Obviously, in this forum I don’t know if it was the same person spouting scripture and then making a bigoted “joke”. However, I’ve had similar experiences in churches and have seen a certain politician make fun of a person with a disability, all the while his followers defended him and brushed off the “joke.” This sort of behavior needs to be addressed in the evangelical community or people will continue to deconstruct. There’s a reason why Jen’s deconstruction and a move away from evangelicalism still garners support and loyal followers. People are willing to put up with the promo codes and goofy behavior because her experiences and story still ring true for so many.

Are we so polarized and tribal today that THIS is the response to a clearly distasteful joke? “Must be you Christians again!”?

I know self-professing Christians who are terrible people. Selfish, materialistic, greedy, judgmental. I also know self-professing Christians who are some of the kindest, most giving, LOVING people you would ever meet. Should they immediately be judged and discarded as fake because of the former?

I’ve been to a “mega” church where the pastor and his wife acted like the Prom King & Queen and carefully selected only the best looking and wealthy parishioners as their court. Sermons were meant to make us all “feel good” and the entire church was ran like an entertainment business. I’ve also been to a small local church that welcomes everyone. They help people pay their bills, have a monthly food giveaway, and call every Sunday morning our “Bible Study” time. Should people disillusioned by the first church throw away religion all together? Is the Bible really not the Word of God because some people use it as a prop?

Sorry for the rant, but this “let’s all deconstruct because someone somewhere did something bad” is so sad to me. If you had a terrible experience with Christians or with a specific church, I’m so very sorry. Throwing away all of your faith can’t be the right answer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It seems to me that all of these overly sympathetic characterizations of Brandon from the Christian women on this board belie the deeply rooted misogyny so prevalent in a lot of Christianity.

I’m no Jen fan - I find her vapid, fake and immature, but these Brandon takes “poor Brandon - he cheated and abused alcohol and drugs bc he was married to someone more famous than he is but he really loves the lord” are outrageous.

Agree

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well that would explain why all his old friends (Tray and crew) and his kids abandoned him if that is true.

His kids didn’t abandon him. It seems that those relationships are all in tact except for with Sydney.

[Anonymous]

At first there was a full force rejection of Brandon and an alignment with Jen after the “bombshell.” But it appears all but Sidney have reconciled with their dad now. His motorcycle club also kept him close throughout.

It takes a lot of skill to build a church from the ground up in a new city to several hundred members at its height. Brandon was at the head of that project so I don’t think it’s honest to say he has no skills. There is both leadership(perhaps flawed) and organizational aptitude Brandon has shown over and over. He got the legacy collective up and running. Sure we strongly suspect inappropriate use of funds at his discretion but it was built on his watch.
Whoever hired him to sell the Texas ranches chose well if you want a guy who tries real hard to look Texan and has a natural ability to win people over to a vision. He is manly and at ease with himself, it’s a nice combo for selling luxury ranches.

I’m not pro or con Brandon or Jen but I will honor they are builders. They’ve created a whole lot of something out of nothing over the years. I grieve at how broken and lost they’ve become but I still hold out hope they will have an encounter with the living God that rights their many wrongs. Their story is still being written.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It seems to me that all of these overly sympathetic characterizations of Brandon from the Christian women on this board belie the deeply rooted misogyny so prevalent in a lot of Christianity.

I’m no Jen fan - I find her vapid, fake and immature, but these Brandon takes “poor Brandon - he cheated and abused alcohol and drugs bc he was married to someone more famous than he is but he really loves the lord” are outrageous.

There’s some irony in all of these misogynistic posts that use the Bible and Christian teachings to paint Jen and Brandon as foils to each other. He’s not pure and lost while she’s evil and conniving. People like this, and there are tons in church communities, are why Jen and other deconstruction teachers exist. These commenters, and those like them, are fueling Jen’s fire. They’re why she is still relevant in any way.

[Anonymous]

There is an irony in a woman creating a me course on how to deconstruct then reconstruct one’s faith when she has devolved into a shilling machine completely disconnected from any genuine accountability.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is an irony in a woman creating a me course on how to deconstruct then reconstruct one’s faith when she has devolved into a shilling machine completely disconnected from any genuine accountability.

There is. Can’t stand the constant selling. But I’ll admit that part of me has some sympathy for the fact that Brandon probably financially ruined them. The ‘in the know’ folks who have pointed to a gambling problem (along with the cheating and drinking) would explain why the constant shilling ratcheted way up right around the time of the divorce. Multiple kids in college and a couple more to send I bet those bills were calling… I still think it’s gross. But in the panic of the moment I bet some financial agreements were made…