Confrssion thread

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have never stepped out on my 15 year marriage until a month ago...Since then with my carpenter it's been in his truck twice and in the back of my SUV twice. I do things to him that would make a porn star blush.

About ten years ago and, after having been faithful our entire marriage, we had a big construction project underway at our home one summer. There was a young carpenter working late one day who came up behind me and slid his hand into my pants pocket. I was stunned but just blushed and said no thanks. But i couldn't stop thinking about how turned on I was. A few days later he was working late again and I took him up on his offer. The sex was amazing (I guess first time sex often is) but afterwards I was WTF was I thinking. I haven't done it again. Ever since I've worked hard to make sex with my DH memorable so there would be no sexual reason to stray.

This happened ten years ago and no extramarital sex since? There is a small army of militants on here that will NOT believe you. lol

I don't care if they believe me as there has been nothing since except lingering guilt that I have tried to make up for. I think after ten years I was feeling more like a mom than a "hot wife" and a stupid gene took over. Back then DH and my sex life was on auto pilot. After my stupid move I realized that I was as much to blame for being on auto pilot so I changed and DH quickly followed suit. Sex for the past ten years has been great and we both like to surprise each other which really adds to the fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never stepped out on my 15 year marriage until a month ago...Since then with my carpenter it's been in his truck twice and in the back of my SUV twice. I do things to him that would make a porn star blush.

About ten years ago and, after having been faithful our entire marriage, we had a big construction project underway at our home one summer. There was a young carpenter working late one day who came up behind me and slid his hand into my pants pocket. I was stunned but just blushed and said no thanks. But i couldn't stop thinking about how turned on I was. A few days later he was working late again and I took him up on his offer. The sex was amazing (I guess first time sex often is) but afterwards I was WTF was I thinking. I haven't done it again. Ever since I've worked hard to make sex with my DH memorable so there would be no sexual reason to stray.

This happened ten years ago and no extramarital sex since? There is a small army of militants on here that will NOT believe you. lol

I don't care if they believe me as there has been nothing since except lingering guilt that I have tried to make up for. I think after ten years I was feeling more like a mom than a "hot wife" and a stupid gene took over. Back then DH and my sex life was on auto pilot. After my stupid move I realized that I was as much to blame for being on auto pilot so I changed and DH quickly followed suit. Sex for the past ten years has been great and we both like to surprise each other which really adds to the fun.

Well, I do. BTDT so I do understand.

Glad it's working well for you and your husband.

Now, about that guilt. If it is adding fuel to a positive then great. Otherwise, I encourage you to forgive yourself and make it a daily goal to let it go.

Best wishes!

[Anonymous]

Confession: I am having a travel sports affair.

Seriously.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Confession: I am having a travel sports affair.

Seriously.

+1
ILY

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a divorced 60 year old in a FWB relationship with a 30 year old college GF of my married daughter. I've know her for ten years but it was at my daughter's wedding that serious flirting began. It moved forward soon after that. My daughter is in the dark about this relationship. I'd really like to get into a LTR with someone much closer to my age but until then.........

My hero! I fantasize about my stepdaughter's college friends.

[Anonymous]

I'm the stereotypical SAHM that is f-ing the UPS guy. Maybe once a month for over a year now.
It's perfect-no trace of phone calls, texts, social media, nothing.
Plausible deniability.
I posted here once about how we went for waffles together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never stepped out on my 15 year marriage until a month ago...Since then with my carpenter it's been in his truck twice and in the back of my SUV twice. I do things to him that would make a porn star blush.

About ten years ago and, after having been faithful our entire marriage, we had a big construction project underway at our home one summer. There was a young carpenter working late one day who came up behind me and slid his hand into my pants pocket. I was stunned but just blushed and said no thanks. But i couldn't stop thinking about how turned on I was. A few days later he was working late again and I took him up on his offer. The sex was amazing (I guess first time sex often is) but afterwards I was WTF was I thinking. I haven't done it again. Ever since I've worked hard to make sex with my DH memorable so there would be no sexual reason to stray.

Don't feel guilty PPs. Jesus was also a carpenter.

I seriously just screamed with laughter at my desk and 2 people ran in here to see what was happening. I told them I was coughing loudly due to all the pollen. Not sure they believed me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never stepped out on my 15 year marriage until a month ago...Since then with my carpenter it's been in his truck twice and in the back of my SUV twice. I do things to him that would make a porn star blush.

About ten years ago and, after having been faithful our entire marriage, we had a big construction project underway at our home one summer. There was a young carpenter working late one day who came up behind me and slid his hand into my pants pocket. I was stunned but just blushed and said no thanks. But i couldn't stop thinking about how turned on I was. A few days later he was working late again and I took him up on his offer. The sex was amazing (I guess first time sex often is) but afterwards I was WTF was I thinking. I haven't done it again. Ever since I've worked hard to make sex with my DH memorable so there would be no sexual reason to stray.

This happened ten years ago and no extramarital sex since? There is a small army of militants on here that will NOT believe you. lol

I don't care if they believe me as there has been nothing since except lingering guilt that I have tried to make up for. I think after ten years I was feeling more like a mom than a "hot wife" and a stupid gene took over. Back then DH and my sex life was on auto pilot. After my stupid move I realized that I was as much to blame for being on auto pilot so I changed and DH quickly followed suit. Sex for the past ten years has been great and we both like to surprise each other which really adds to the fun.

Well, I do. BTDT so I do understand.

Glad it's working well for you and your husband.

Now, about that guilt. If it is adding fuel to a positive then great. Otherwise, I encourage you to forgive yourself and make it a daily goal to let it go.

Thanks. I don't think about it much but its something I did wrong that I must live with. We all make mistakes that we learn from but they are still something we own.

Best wishes!

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on Josh from the Stuff You Should Know podcast based solely on his voice. I refuse to Google what he looks like. When I masturbate, I think about him explaining really nerdy stuff to me.

[Anonymous]

A cute recent georgetown grad was flirting with me after work in bar despite the fact that I was wearing my ring. After a couple of round we ended up sneaking away to a hotel stairwell in a hotel that shared the same building and made out for 15 fingering and stroking each other. I then put her up on my shoulders and pinned her against the wall and ate her out while having to muffle her mouth to quiet the moans as she came. Still some of the hottest sex I've ever had and never repeated it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A cute recent georgetown grad was flirting with me after work in bar despite the fact that I was wearing my ring. After a couple of round we ended up sneaking away to a hotel stairwell in a hotel that shared the same building and made out for 15 fingering and stroking each other. I then put her up on my shoulders and pinned her against the wall and ate her out while having to muffle her mouth to quiet the moans as she came. Still some of the hottest sex I've ever had and never repeated it

In your dreams troll!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A cute recent georgetown grad was flirting with me after work in bar despite the fact that I was wearing my ring. After a couple of round we ended up sneaking away to a hotel stairwell in a hotel that shared the same building and made out for 15 fingering and stroking each other. I then put her up on my shoulders and pinned her against the wall and ate her out while having to muffle her mouth to quiet the moans as she came. Still some of the hottest sex I've ever had and never repeated it

In your dreams troll!

Not trolling, happened and was exhilarating

[Anonymous]

I go to survivinginfidelity.com and read the just found out posts to try to find some empathy. But, I haven't, for the most part. I just get bored with the perpetual whining of the betrayed spouses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never stepped out on my 15 year marriage until a month ago...Since then with my carpenter it's been in his truck twice and in the back of my SUV twice. I do things to him that would make a porn star blush.

About ten years ago and, after having been faithful our entire marriage, we had a big construction project underway at our home one summer. There was a young carpenter working late one day who came up behind me and slid his hand into my pants pocket. I was stunned but just blushed and said no thanks. But i couldn't stop thinking about how turned on I was. A few days later he was working late again and I took him up on his offer. The sex was amazing (I guess first time sex often is) but afterwards I was WTF was I thinking. I haven't done it again. Ever since I've worked hard to make sex with my DH memorable so there would be no sexual reason to stray.

Don't feel guilty PPs. Jesus was also a carpenter.

I seriously just screamed with laughter at my desk and 2 people ran in here to see what was happening. I told them I was coughing loudly due to all the pollen. Not sure they believed me?

I'm the PP who posted the joke. I have a great sense of humor, and still can't get laid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I go to survivinginfidelity.com and read the just found out posts to try to find some empathy. But, I haven't, for the most part. I just get bored with the perpetual whining of the betrayed spouses.

I did the same. I still feel no guilt about taking her husband.