Childhood friend will stay with me for a week. What do you think will happen?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. The friend is here since yesterday and everything is strictly PG. He bought groceries and paid for stuff at our outing today. Mentions his wife and daughter as appropriate.
Nothing to see here I guess! If anything changes, I’ll update.

No need. Everyone told you you're gross to do anything anyway, so if you do, no one wants to hear about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. The friend is here since yesterday and everything is strictly PG. He bought groceries and paid for stuff at our outing today. Mentions his wife and daughter as appropriate.
Nothing to see here I guess! If anything changes, I’ll update.

PG, not G? Do tell…

[Anonymous]

Explain PG 🫣

[Anonymous]

I’m curious about the fling in your 20’s: Was the sex really good (for him, you, or both?)? Is it something he’s possibly remembered and fantasized about?

If he did want to sleep with you would you be open to it?

The reason I ask is who stays at an ex-fling’s house on business travel? At the very least, even the worlds cheapest company would pay for a room at LaQuinta.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. The friend is here since yesterday and everything is strictly PG. He bought groceries and paid for stuff at our outing today. Mentions his wife and daughter as appropriate.
Nothing to see here I guess! If anything changes, I’ll update.

I'm glad to hear this!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. The friend is here since yesterday and everything is strictly PG. He bought groceries and paid for stuff at our outing today. Mentions his wife and daughter as appropriate.
Nothing to see here I guess! If anything changes, I’ll update.

PG, not G? Do tell…

He made a poop joke and then smoked.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. The friend is here since yesterday and everything is strictly PG. He bought groceries and paid for stuff at our outing today. Mentions his wife and daughter as appropriate.
Nothing to see here I guess! If anything changes, I’ll update.

PG, not G? Do tell…

He made a poop joke and then smoked.

Class act, it seems

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Be an adult. Set the boundaries you want to set. Communicate. If it gets flirty, decide what you want to do but accept it would be just sex with nothing else.

Unless he has other business in town, then yes he would likely enjoy being invited into your bed. If he is coming just into see you and hang out with you, he is hoping for Netflix and chill

Why no mention of whether it is okay to have sex with a married man?

Hard no for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Team wife here. Why would you put him
and yourself in a situation that for a thrill of a night may ruin a marriage or at least create tension and regret later on? There are many other fishes in the ocean..

I’m not encouraging this… but why is it her responsibility not to sleep with him? He’s the married one and shouldn’t be putting himself in compromising situations. It’s totally inappropriate for him to stay with a female friend - especially someone he used to f*ck.

They both should see it as off limits, for different reasons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A guy who can't afford a hotel (or who doesn't have a respectable job that pays for a hotel) is not a guy who can afford to have a side piece.

Women are not purchases.

Stop with your misogyny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think some things need to be explained.
First, we are both not from the U.S.
Where we are from, looks are important.
Staying at a hotel isn’t as customary. If there’s a friend who has a spare room it’s totally normal to crush at someone’s house.
As for “forgetting” his wallet he already said he owed me and I said it was fine but he could pay for a meal if he wanted to. I know DCUM’s imagination runs wild but he isn’t a cheapskate

Freudian to substitute “crush” for “crash!”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To add, there’s no way I am going to flirt with him or to drink more than one drink (this is my limit). But I’ll admit I’m curious as to what he will do.

I can understand this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In what culture does look not matter? In what culture does it matter more?

Well in the U.S. and I think western countries in general it matters less how a woman looks.
Asia and Eastern Europe are more into “a woman needs to look great” thing

Look great or look fake?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m curious about the fling in your 20’s: Was the sex really good (for him, you, or both?)? Is it something he’s possibly remembered and fantasized about?

If he did want to sleep with you would you be open to it?

The reason I ask is who stays at an ex-fling’s house on business travel? At the very least, even the worlds cheapest company would pay for a room at LaQuinta.

It’s been discussed upthread why no hotel covered for this week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In what culture does look not matter? In what culture does it matter more?

Well in the U.S. and I think western countries in general it matters less how a woman looks.
Asia and Eastern Europe are more into “a woman needs to look great” thing

Look great or look fake?

Both.
The point is, men are more spoiled and looks are more important there