Men 45+ on OLD: are they all broke?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The best men are the ones who cheat. There's a reason they're able to cheat. They're successful and magnetic. People who don't cheat don't have good enough opportunities to do so.

Remember that when you're OLD and you see all these losers on there. The successful men aren't doing OLD. As a PP said, they're at the private athletic club and the private school fundraisers and preschool dropoff. So open your eyes and stop getting on a high horse about "cheating".

Following this logics a successful magnetic man will always be in relationships with multiple women. F...k that I would rather date middle class or be alone.

PP you're like the Division III basketball player rationalizing your failure to win a scholarship, that it was your "choice" to go Division III because the competition was more "pure".

Sure, it's "pure"....purely worthless in comparison to the billions generated by March Madness. So too it is with relationships. If you want the relationship with the successful magnetic man, the one everyone wants, you have to understand that you better be at the tippity-top of your game (e.g. Lauren Sanchez) or that you're going to have to live with his occasional dalliances on the side. Or you can be MacKenzie Scott and go Division III.

As in Patrick Mahomes will one day cheat on Brittany and she can choose to leave or accept infidelity??? Like Vanessa forgave Kobe??

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Middle of the pack WB do not make 300k

Ask me how I know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If a 45+ man divorces, he's going to be broke unless he plans it out very carefully. He can't get caught with OW and tip off the wife on what's coming.

If there isn’t a huge income disparity and you have 50/50 custody then you shouldn’t be broke.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If a 45+ man divorces, he's going to be broke unless he plans it out very carefully. He can't get caught with OW and tip off the wife on what's coming.

If there isn’t a huge income disparity and you have 50/50 custody then you shouldn’t be broke.

Instead of having shared expenses, now there are two households with the same HHI. 2 mortgages instead of one combined. Two cable bills. Two electric bills. If both parties earned 250k, 500k can afford a very nice lifestyle. 250 for similar home in a good school district as a single parent not so easy.

Also think most people are not all earning 250k each evidenced by this thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If a 45+ man divorces, he's going to be broke unless he plans it out very carefully. He can't get caught with OW and tip off the wife on what's coming.

If there isn’t a huge income disparity and you have 50/50 custody then you shouldn’t be broke.

Instead of having shared expenses, now there are two households with the same HHI. 2 mortgages instead of one combined. Two cable bills. Two electric bills. If both parties earned 250k, 500k can afford a very nice lifestyle. 250 for similar home in a good school district as a single parent not so easy.

Also think most people are not all earning 250k each evidenced by this thread.

I earn 300 and exH earns 900. I kept the family home. He bought a new house. We both live in Rockville. Neither of us have a $1m house. Our homes are comfortable and we’re happy to raise our kids in them. Both houses are in the same school district. Kids are out of daycare and neither of us have any debt other than our mortgages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If a 45+ man divorces, he's going to be broke unless he plans it out very carefully. He can't get caught with OW and tip off the wife on what's coming.

If there isn’t a huge income disparity and you have 50/50 custody then you shouldn’t be broke.

Instead of having shared expenses, now there are two households with the same HHI. 2 mortgages instead of one combined. Two cable bills. Two electric bills. If both parties earned 250k, 500k can afford a very nice lifestyle. 250 for similar home in a good school district as a single parent not so easy.

Also think most people are not all earning 250k each evidenced by this thread.

But according to this thread a divorced man making 250k and barely making ends meet is thriving to go on vacation as Sugar Daddy with 20yo women paying for all costs. That’s not how real life works: in order to pay traveling in style for a second traveler a man should be making at least half a million. This is not a GS15 worker for sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The best men are the ones who cheat. There's a reason they're able to cheat. They're successful and magnetic. People who don't cheat don't have good enough opportunities to do so.

Remember that when you're OLD and you see all these losers on there. The successful men aren't doing OLD. As a PP said, they're at the private athletic club and the private school fundraisers and preschool dropoff. So open your eyes and stop getting on a high horse about "cheating".

Following this logics a successful magnetic man will always be in relationships with multiple women. F...k that I would rather date middle class or be alone.

PP you're like the Division III basketball player rationalizing your failure to win a scholarship, that it was your "choice" to go Division III because the competition was more "pure".

Sure, it's "pure"....purely worthless in comparison to the billions generated by March Madness. So too it is with relationships. If you want the relationship with the successful magnetic man, the one everyone wants, you have to understand that you better be at the tippity-top of your game (e.g. Lauren Sanchez) or that you're going to have to live with his occasional dalliances on the side. Or you can be MacKenzie Scott and go Division III.

Yeah I’m sure MacKenzie is crying into her coffee being the richest woman in the world with more money than she can spend in a lifetime at age 52. Teach us how to live, PP.

[Anonymous]

She came up with half the idea of the amazon company (remember their origins). They
came up with it during a road trip

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The best men are the ones who cheat. There's a reason they're able to cheat. They're successful and magnetic. People who don't cheat don't have good enough opportunities to do so.

Remember that when you're OLD and you see all these losers on there. The successful men aren't doing OLD. As a PP said, they're at the private athletic club and the private school fundraisers and preschool dropoff. So open your eyes and stop getting on a high horse about "cheating".

Following this logics a successful magnetic man will always be in relationships with multiple women. F...k that I would rather date middle class or be alone.

PP you're like the Division III basketball player rationalizing your failure to win a scholarship, that it was your "choice" to go Division III because the competition was more "pure".

Sure, it's "pure"....purely worthless in comparison to the billions generated by March Madness. So too it is with relationships. If you want the relationship with the successful magnetic man, the one everyone wants, you have to understand that you better be at the tippity-top of your game (e.g. Lauren Sanchez) or that you're going to have to live with his occasional dalliances on the side. Or you can be MacKenzie Scott and go Division III.

As someone who voluntarily left a man making $1M/year who wasn’t a cheater but was a douche in other ways, and is now much happier with a man who makes far less, I’m gonna say your priorities are sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The best men are the ones who cheat. There's a reason they're able to cheat. They're successful and magnetic. People who don't cheat don't have good enough opportunities to do so.

Remember that when you're OLD and you see all these losers on there. The successful men aren't doing OLD. As a PP said, they're at the private athletic club and the private school fundraisers and preschool dropoff. So open your eyes and stop getting on a high horse about "cheating".

Following this logics a successful magnetic man will always be in relationships with multiple women. F...k that I would rather date middle class or be alone.

PP you're like the Division III basketball player rationalizing your failure to win a scholarship, that it was your "choice" to go Division III because the competition was more "pure".

Sure, it's "pure"....purely worthless in comparison to the billions generated by March Madness. So too it is with relationships. If you want the relationship with the successful magnetic man, the one everyone wants, you have to understand that you better be at the tippity-top of your game (e.g. Lauren Sanchez) or that you're going to have to live with his occasional dalliances on the side. Or you can be MacKenzie Scott and go Division III.

Yeah I’m sure MacKenzie is crying into her coffee being the richest woman in the world with more money than she can spend in a lifetime at age 52. Teach us how to live, PP.

Plus Lauren Sanchez is ugly and fake not "somene on top of her game". There are plenty of women in their 50s on match.com who are waaay hotter

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best men are the ones who cheat. There's a reason they're able to cheat. They're successful and magnetic. People who don't cheat don't have good enough opportunities to do so.

Remember that when you're OLD and you see all these losers on there. The successful men aren't doing OLD. As a PP said, they're at the private athletic club and the private school fundraisers and preschool dropoff. So open your eyes and stop getting on a high horse about "cheating".

The best men are married to their first spouses, are raising their children, and (together as a team with their spouse) earning enough to support their households, educate their children and save for retirement. I know many of them. They usually get married in their 20s and 30s to people they meet in college, grad/professional school and through their work or network of friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If a 45+ man divorces, he's going to be broke unless he plans it out very carefully. He can't get caught with OW and tip off the wife on what's coming.

If there isn’t a huge income disparity and you have 50/50 custody then you shouldn’t be broke.

Instead of having shared expenses, now there are two households with the same HHI. 2 mortgages instead of one combined. Two cable bills. Two electric bills. If both parties earned 250k, 500k can afford a very nice lifestyle. 250 for similar home in a good school district as a single parent not so easy.

Also think most people are not all earning 250k each evidenced by this thread.

I earn 300 and exH earns 900. I kept the family home. He bought a new house. We both live in Rockville. Neither of us have a $1m house. Our homes are comfortable and we’re happy to raise our kids in them. Both houses are in the same school district. Kids are out of daycare and neither of us have any debt other than our mortgages.

You have an insane amount of money. Most people don’t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The best men are the ones who cheat. There's a reason they're able to cheat. They're successful and magnetic. People who don't cheat don't have good enough opportunities to do so.

Remember that when you're OLD and you see all these losers on there. The successful men aren't doing OLD. As a PP said, they're at the private athletic club and the private school fundraisers and preschool dropoff. So open your eyes and stop getting on a high horse about "cheating".

The best men are married to their first spouses, are raising their children, and (together as a team with their spouse) earning enough to support their households, educate their children and save for retirement. I know many of them. They usually get married in their 20s and 30s to people they meet in college, grad/professional school and through their work or network of friends.

I would not call them “the best men”. It does not matter if they are good providers. After 45, they turn gray, lose their looks and get fat. It’s a good thing that they are married. Heh, nobody wants to be the care-takers for old geezers. You see plenty on weekends at McLean Giant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The best men are the ones who cheat. There's a reason they're able to cheat. They're successful and magnetic. People who don't cheat don't have good enough opportunities to do so.

Remember that when you're OLD and you see all these losers on there. The successful men aren't doing OLD. As a PP said, they're at the private athletic club and the private school fundraisers and preschool dropoff. So open your eyes and stop getting on a high horse about "cheating".

The best men are married to their first spouses, are raising their children, and (together as a team with their spouse) earning enough to support their households, educate their children and save for retirement. I know many of them. They usually get married in their 20s and 30s to people they meet in college, grad/professional school and through their work or network of friends.

I would not call them “the best men”. It does not matter if they are good providers. After 45, they turn gray, lose their looks and get fat. It’s a good thing that they are married. Heh, nobody wants to be the care-takers for old geezers. You see plenty on weekends at McLean Giant.

You wouldn't but clearly your priorities are wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The best men are the ones who cheat. There's a reason they're able to cheat. They're successful and magnetic. People who don't cheat don't have good enough opportunities to do so.

Remember that when you're OLD and you see all these losers on there. The successful men aren't doing OLD. As a PP said, they're at the private athletic club and the private school fundraisers and preschool dropoff. So open your eyes and stop getting on a high horse about "cheating".

The best men are married to their first spouses, are raising their children, and (together as a team with their spouse) earning enough to support their households, educate their children and save for retirement. I know many of them. They usually get married in their 20s and 30s to people they meet in college, grad/professional school and through their work or network of friends.

I would not call them “the best men”. It does not matter if they are good providers. After 45, they turn gray, lose their looks and get fat. It’s a good thing that they are married. Heh, nobody wants to be the care-takers for old geezers. You see plenty on weekends at McLean Giant.

I’m looking forward to being old with DH. I would rather grow old with him than be old alone. Or old and trying to date.