Men 45+ on OLD: are they all broke?

[Anonymous]

Asking bc that has been my experience. Met multiple nice good looking men who all have enormous financial liabilities. Either they earn very little or are broke after divorce and are too old to fully recover, or earn well but have huge obligations and/or are cheap AF. It’s a pity bc I’ve really liked several of them, but need someone similarly secure and am not getting into a financial quagmire.

[Anonymous]

Well don't marry them. Why do you have to marry? If it's a character flaw and you don't respect them, that's important. Otherwise, if you live separate financial lives, but enjoy time together, what's the problem?

[Anonymous]

Look somewhere else. I've heard if you can get into a private school banquet/party they have better pickings. Also the various private athletic clubs. Lots of wealthy divorced men around here IF you know where to look. You won't find them online.

[Anonymous]

The pool is full of duds and cheaters. Why would you expect the pool to be full of financially secure men?

[Anonymous]

I'm cheap af, and also poor by DC standards (only $1 million in the bank and $200k income).

But the bigger problem is that I have no intention of dissipating my wealth on an over-the-hill woman.

[Anonymous]

Wealthy men don’t need OLD to find a date. They are like a flame to moths.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm cheap af, and also poor by DC standards (only $1 million in the bank and $200k income).

But the bigger problem is that I have no intention of dissipating my wealth on an over-the-hill woman.

That’s me as well and that income makes it very easy to date women in their 20s if you’re still attractive. Own a home in a cool neighborhood. Can afford fun dates and inevitably end up spending less when dating younger than on dates with the type who make a big deal about being a “strong successful badass.”

[Anonymous]

So, you were lucky enough to meet several of them. You are are doing well yourself. Why not help them out with ideas how to fix their situation.
I finally met a lovely man. I think he runs deficit of about $700 every month. He works his tail off and didn't buy anything outrages. It's temporary and I will gladly help him fix it. I would even help him if we weren't together.
I have met so many losers. There is no way I'm not hanging out with him because of money. He works so hard, which is extremely hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm cheap af, and also poor by DC standards (only $1 million in the bank and $200k income).

But the bigger problem is that I have no intention of dissipating my wealth on an over-the-hill woman.

You have no wealth to dissipate.

[Anonymous]

What do you consider broke?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm cheap af, and also poor by DC standards (only $1 million in the bank and $200k income).

But the bigger problem is that I have no intention of dissipating my wealth on an over-the-hill woman.

You have no wealth to dissipate.

I nearly spat out (dissipated!) my coffee. Spot on.

What kind of gold digging losers are you guys dating when all you can think about is how much the women want you for your money?

It’s not the flex you think it is.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s a really hard age for dating because most people are divorced or went through something tough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wealthy men don’t need OLD to find a date. They are like a flame to moths.

Probably this.

[Anonymous]

I finally met a lovely man. I think he runs deficit of about $700 every month. He works his tail off and didn't buy anything outrages. It's temporary and I will gladly help him fix it. I would even help him if we weren't together.

Really? You would financially help a single adult man? Mega turn off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look somewhere else. I've heard if you can get into a private school banquet/party they have better pickings. Also the various private athletic clubs. Lots of wealthy divorced men around here IF you know where to look. You won't find them online.

Are you a vulture coach?

I (a woman) have really never met women who operates like this.

But all of my friends are well educated and independent. We don’t judge our male companions by the size of their wallets.