Men 45+ on OLD: are they all broke?

[Anonymous]

You must not date. I have to keep my profile on private so men can’t see me unless I pick them or I get 200 some likes a day from men all over the country. I’m 48 and attractive (f)

Getting spammed by thousands of men on OLD is a form of attention. Too bad you're too stupid to realize how meaningless it is.

Every time I read DCUM, I am surprised that women of a certain age (e.g., 48!) still believe men posting on their OLD profile (e.g., 200 likes a day) indicates how attractive they are.

PP—The fact that men send "likes" from all over the country indicates these likes are meaningless.

Men hit on women when they believe the women will provide causal sex, a fact you should have learned 20 years ago. It is a good idea to set your profile to private since you can select who you want to contact or be contacted by. However, most women on OLD get hundreds of likes from men who have no interest in "dating" them.

[Anonymous]

Probably. Try meeting men in real life, it's much better.

[Anonymous]

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You must not date. I have to keep my profile on private so men can’t see me unless I pick them or I get 200 some likes a day from men all over the country. I’m 48 and attractive (f)

Getting spammed by thousands of men on OLD is a form of attention. Too bad you're too stupid to realize how meaningless it is.

Every time I read DCUM, I am surprised that women of a certain age (e.g., 48!) still believe men posting on their OLD profile (e.g., 200 likes a day) indicates how attractive they are.

PP—The fact that men send "likes" from all over the country indicates these likes are meaningless.

Men hit on women when they believe the women will provide causal sex, a fact you should have learned 20 years ago. It is a good idea to set your profile to private since you can select who you want to contact or be contacted by. However, most women on OLD get hundreds of likes from men who have no interest in "dating" them.

Lots of men literally speed swipe on every single profile without even pausing to look at it. Create a female account on tinder with a photo of a turtle and you'll still get a ton of likes.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Even the lawyers are in big debt.

[Anonymous]

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You must not date. I have to keep my profile on private so men can’t see me unless I pick them or I get 200 some likes a day from men all over the country. I’m 48 and attractive (f)

Getting spammed by thousands of men on OLD is a form of attention. Too bad you're too stupid to realize how meaningless it is.

Every time I read DCUM, I am surprised that women of a certain age (e.g., 48!) still believe men posting on their OLD profile (e.g., 200 likes a day) indicates how attractive they are.

PP—The fact that men send "likes" from all over the country indicates these likes are meaningless.

Men hit on women when they believe the women will provide causal sex, a fact you should have learned 20 years ago. It is a good idea to set your profile to private since you can select who you want to contact or be contacted by. However, most women on OLD get hundreds of likes from men who have no interest in "dating" them.

Not the ugly ones

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:At 25 it grossed me out to even be asked out by older men

Yes, yakis! I remember thinking they looked so old! Men are just full of themselves, and have no realistic perception of their looks.

lmao at women saying this about men, stunning lack of self-awareness.

Especially older women who still think they're going to get the same kind of attention they got at 22.

You must not date. I have to keep my profile on private so men can’t see me unless I pick them or I get 200 some likes a day from men all over the country. I’m 48 and attractive (f)

Getting spammed by thousands of men on OLD is a form of attention. Too bad you're too stupid to realize how meaningless it is.

Oh I agree! It’s meaningless because most men are fat, balding, and boring as heck. I don’t want their attention/ don’t even want them to be able to enjoy my profile. I know it’s meaningless so I don’t allow it via a private profile. The 200 men swiping must not know, or must just not have jobs or something that they have to pursue women up to thousands of miles away just to get someone to talk to them!

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Anonymous wrote:At 25 it grossed me out to even be asked out by older men

Yes, yakis! I remember thinking they looked so old! Men are just full of themselves, and have no realistic perception of their looks.

lmao at women saying this about men, stunning lack of self-awareness.

Especially older women who still think they're going to get the same kind of attention they got at 22.

You must not date. I have to keep my profile on private so men can’t see me unless I pick them or I get 200 some likes a day from men all over the country. I’m 48 and attractive (f)

Getting spammed by thousands of men on OLD is a form of attention. Too bad you're too stupid to realize how meaningless it is.

Oh I agree! It’s meaningless because most men are fat, balding, and boring as heck. I don’t want their attention/ don’t even want them to be able to enjoy my profile. I know it’s meaningless so I don’t allow it via a private profile. The 200 men swiping must not know, or must just not have jobs or something that they have to pursue women up to thousands of miles away just to get someone to talk to them!

I would never date you. I can smell a gold digger a mile away and you stink. And I have a lot of gold. You would be good for a one and done.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:At 25 it grossed me out to even be asked out by older men

Yes, yakis! I remember thinking they looked so old! Men are just full of themselves, and have no realistic perception of their looks.

lmao at women saying this about men, stunning lack of self-awareness.

Especially older women who still think they're going to get the same kind of attention they got at 22.

You must not date. I have to keep my profile on private so men can’t see me unless I pick them or I get 200 some likes a day from men all over the country. I’m 48 and attractive (f)

Getting spammed by thousands of men on OLD is a form of attention. Too bad you're too stupid to realize how meaningless it is.

Oh I agree! It’s meaningless because most men are fat, balding, and boring as heck. I don’t want their attention/ don’t even want them to be able to enjoy my profile. I know it’s meaningless so I don’t allow it via a private profile. The 200 men swiping must not know, or must just not have jobs or something that they have to pursue women up to thousands of miles away just to get someone to talk to them!

Generally, the people on OLD are on there for a reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. Even the lawyers are in big debt.

Not my exH. He made out like a bandit. But he is not interested in dating. He has not interest in providing any financial support to a woman (not when he was married and certainly not now).

[Anonymous]

Every time I read DCUM, I am surprised that women of a certain age (e.g., 48!) still believe men posting on their OLD profile (e.g., 200 likes a day) indicates how attractive they are.

PP—The fact that men send "likes" from all over the country indicates these likes are meaningless.

Men hit on women when they believe the women will provide causal sex, a fact you should have learned 20 years ago. It is a good idea to set your profile to private since you can select who you want to contact or be contacted by. However, most women on OLD get hundreds of likes from men who have no interest in "dating" them.

Not the ugly ones

Almost all men will "bang down" (i.e., a 7 guy will have an ONS with a 4 woman) without thinking twice about it. The problem is not hitting on ugly girls. The problem is all the women who think they are hot just because someone will bang them down.

[Anonymous]

Oh I agree! It’s meaningless because most men are fat, balding, and boring as heck. I don’t want their attention/ don’t even want them to be able to enjoy my profile. I know it’s meaningless so I don’t allow it via a private profile. The 200 men swiping must not know, or must just not have jobs or something that they have to pursue women up to thousands of miles away just to get someone to talk to them!

This poster's arrogance is amazing. Do you really think that just looking at your OLD profile is a treat a man would enjoy?

Maybe you are thinking of an OnlyFans account instead. However, if this poster were hot enough to have a profitable OF account at her age, she would not be on DCUM or on OLD.

[Anonymous]

Wealthy divorced mother of child who attends expensive private school, friends with other single parents at the school. The single fathers do not attend the banquets lol! Its hard enough for a married man to stomach these social functions, a single dad who has to mingle - no way!'

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Anonymous wrote:Look somewhere else. I've heard if you can get into a private school banquet/party they have better pickings. Also the various private athletic clubs. Lots of wealthy divorced men around here IF you know where to look. You won't find them online.

Are you a vulture coach?

I (a woman) have really never met women who operates like this.

But all of my friends are well educated and independent. We don’t judge our male companions by the size of their wallets.

[Anonymous]

I am absolutely broke. I pay child support, alimony, save for kids college, and help elderly parents financially. I make $12,000 a month after tax. I don't have a lot left after paying all my obligations. For This reason I don't even contemplate pairing with a woman who I am sure has dreams and aspirations like any normal person. I am 48

[Anonymous]

They are broken.

[Anonymous]

There are good guys who are hardworking but aren’t high earners. My partner who I met on OLD is a hardworker and has better emotional and physical health than many men in his late 40s because he chose something he loves and it also keeps him active. But many people on DCUM wouldn’t think twice because of the income. He’s an excellent partner and doesn’t need a nurse or a purse.