What can American women learn from foreign women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:American women talk SO LOUD! Please stop talking SO LOUD!

* so loudly

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:American women talk SO LOUD! Please stop talking SO LOUD!

+1
Foreign women tend to be much better communicators and they put you at ease. American women tend to be colder and more abrasive when it comes to any type of social interaction.

American women are simply a product of their culture and too far gone, IMHO. No sense in trying to change.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:American women talk SO LOUD! Please stop talking SO LOUD!

+1
Foreign women tend to be much better communicators and they put you at ease. American women tend to be colder and more abrasive when it comes to any type of social interaction.

American women are simply a product of their culture and too far gone, IMHO. No sense in trying to change.

💯

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They can learn to take better care of themselves:
- Reduce or eliminate alcoholic beverages
- Wear no-makeup makeup
- Don’t tan
- Move more , not just exercise but more more in general
- Eat a healthy diet
- Don’t walk/drive and eat/drink
- Speak softly

lol

European women drink a lot and smoke. And they tan a lot. You have to be joking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They can learn to take better care of themselves:
- Reduce or eliminate alcoholic beverages
- Wear no-makeup makeup
- Don’t tan
- Move more , not just exercise but more more in general
- Eat a healthy diet
- Don’t walk/drive and eat/drink
- Speak softly

lol

European women drink a lot and smoke. And they tan a lot. You have to be joking.

Euro women drink less than American ones tho in comparison and especially compared to Asian women

Just last week the Atlantic was talking about how American women now drink heavily sometimes more than men

It’s been a theme on dcum over the last decade also - in fact, a part of the reason why we’ve seen a spike in early deaths has been driven by white women 20-55 drinking so much

Below is wapo from 2023 and 2016

https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2023/08/15/rising-alcohol-deaths-among-women-should-spur-public-health-campaign/2f6787a0-3b66-11ee-aefd-40c039a855ba_story.html

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/national/wp/2016/12/23/nine-charts-that-show-how-white-women-are-drinking-themselves-to-death/

https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/national/death-rates-your-county/

https://www.washingtonpost.com/sf/national/2016/04/08/we-dont-know-why-it-came-to-this/

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2016/04/20/cdc-life-expectancy-for-non-hispanic-white-women-dips-for-first-time-in-decades/

Atlantic last week:

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/09/women-heavy-drinking-alcohol-use/675296/

[Anonymous]

Not to date and marry American men, and in the case of many European nations not to marry at all!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What can we learn? That lower cost education, universal healthcare, paid maternity/ paternity leave, lack of high fructose corn syrup in everything, and decent public transportation all conspire to make foreign women much more feminine and sexier.

+1,000

And worker protections, shorter workweeks and longer vacations make them more relaxed and provide the time to care for themselves.

[Anonymous]

Been with a foreign woman all weekend and what a breath of fresh air!

Initially I kept making sure she wasn't offended by things and she finally said"why are Americans so uptight? That would be exhausting and stressful being offended all the time".

Also readily goes down without and haggling. Completely chill about everything.

The difference is just night and day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:American women talk SO LOUD! Please stop talking SO LOUD!

I agree. I am Canadian, and the Americans talk the loudest at conferences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They can learn to take better care of themselves:
- Reduce or eliminate alcoholic beverages
- Wear no-makeup makeup
- Don’t tan
- Move more , not just exercise but more more in general
- Eat a healthy diet
- Don’t walk/drive and eat/drink
- Speak softly

lol

European women drink a lot and smoke. And they tan a lot. You have to be joking.

Sorry you’re offended!

I made the list based on the positives of several cultures.

I’d add that foreign woman are not argumentative.

[Anonymous]

Comfortable in their own femininity. Dress does not include baseball hat and an SUV. Also (at least for Northern European women) comfortable with their body. A German or Swede would have absolutely no issue with public nudity - spa culture is awesome! And that culture keeps even women in their 50s and early 60s in shape and looking good.

Speaking multiple languages and scarves. Oh, the scarves…and cycling. A woman on a bike is a delight

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What can we learn? That lower cost education, universal healthcare, paid maternity/ paternity leave, lack of high fructose corn syrup in everything, and decent public transportation all conspire to make foreign women much more feminine and sexier.

+1,000

And worker protections, shorter workweeks and longer vacations make them more relaxed and provide the time to care for themselves.

No, they just have different priorities.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Been with a foreign woman all weekend and what a breath of fresh air!

Initially I kept making sure she wasn't offended by things and she finally said"why are Americans so uptight? That would be exhausting and stressful being offended all the time".

Also readily goes down without and haggling. Completely chill about everything.

The difference is just night and day.

+1
They are down to do pretty much anything without having a bunch of requirements. American women obsess over every detail and it just ruins the vibe. What a bore!

And they are much more reasonable and not down with any woke shenanigans.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Comfortable in their own femininity. Dress does not include baseball hat and an SUV. Also (at least for Northern European women) comfortable with their body. A German or Swede would have absolutely no issue with public nudity - spa culture is awesome! And that culture keeps even women in their 50s and early 60s in shape and looking good.

Speaking multiple languages and scarves. Oh, the scarves…and cycling. A woman on a bike is a delight

I agree with you, but I grew up in Montreal, Quebec, in a Swedish family houselhold with a Scottish dad that was a hippy. Double whammy about being comfortable in my own skin and nudity (Swedish and Quebec culture all about loving your body not just for sex). Being active has always been a part of my life, and I love visiting Stockholm, Copenhagen, Amsterdam, and London etc because everyone walks and or cycles.

I am into sports, so I do like my ball cap from time to time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Comfortable in their own femininity. Dress does not include baseball hat and an SUV. Also (at least for Northern European women) comfortable with their body. A German or Swede would have absolutely no issue with public nudity - spa culture is awesome! And that culture keeps even women in their 50s and early 60s in shape and looking good.

Speaking multiple languages and scarves. Oh, the scarves…and cycling. A woman on a bike is a delight

Good point about the cycling

Italian women know how to cycle in heels

American women don’t