The Golden Bachelor

[Anonymous]

I wonder what her side of the story really is. I thought the GMA interview was really bogus. Why couldn’t he move there. Did she genuinely hope it would work only to find fake he really is? I think he just used Theresa.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder what her side of the story really is. I thought the GMA interview was really bogus. Why couldn’t he move there. Did she genuinely hope it would work only to find fake he really is? I think he just used Theresa.

I think she learned his affable persona is just an act, and he has a real mean streak. His ex's account of her treatment was upsetting. Who could trust him after reading that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look at his Instagram where he visits the nursing home. The way he phrases things says a lot about him.

He's a narcissist who loves to hear the sound of his own voice. I find him gross. He and his family are also very blue collar, not a good match for Theresa, her family and community.

[Anonymous]

My question is to the cause Gerry sited and immediately filed right after the GMA interview: irretrievable breakdown of the marriage

What does that mean and wouldn’t a barely 3 month marriage be argued for annulment?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My question is to the cause Gerry sited and immediately filed right after the GMA interview: irretrievable breakdown of the marriage

What does that mean and wouldn’t a barely 3 month marriage be argued for annulment?

No there have to be actual grounds not just changing your mind after a few months.
https://www.divorcenet.com/resources/annulment/annulment-basics/california

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:JMHO

He has never received so much attention in his life and is loving every minute of it. I’ve run into him in the airport, as have friends of mine and his head is on a swivel, always looking to take photos! He wants to be noticed and loves attention from women. Most recently he was touting his new BMW on socials.. this is not a man who wants to be married and living a quiet life.

I’m making a prediction that he is public with someone else within 90 days.

Yep. He's loving it. Lots of attention and able to get women easily. He's really just a yokel and has never been exposed to Z-lisr notoriety before this--but it will end, probably badly for him.

[Anonymous]

Gerry is a fake jerk. Theresa is okay, but she put on this “I will always put you first….”blah blah. Gerry loved that. Personally I never believed a word he said.
Theresa probably got his number sooner rather than later. But don’t kid yourself. She likes the limelight just as much as he does. However, bottom line, she could no longer fake her feelings for a trip to Italy.
I cannot wait for the real truth in this whole thing. Love all the intrigue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Look at his Instagram where he visits the nursing home. The way he phrases things says a lot about him.

He's a narcissist who loves to hear the sound of his own voice. I find him gross. He and his family are also very blue collar, not a good match for Theresa, her family and community.

Yup, I called the Golden Divorce already in this post. Gerry is full of shit.

[Anonymous]

Two people who barely knew each other and had spent almost no time together got married for the paycheck and then split up after still not spending time together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why did they rush into getting married? On the show he was professing his love for various women and changing his mind quickly. I was interested in the show - how fun for older people to find a match. But as I watched it, i found him just yuck. Are the contestants pressured to get married? Teresa seemed smart so I don’t know know why she went thru with the wedding. He seemed like an unpolished dork who says whatever is convenient.

Yes, they were pressured by producers and given financial incentives as well. They received "talent fees."

"As it turns out, the Bachelor couples who get married and opt for the televised affair can receive some hefty paychecks–and while its unclear what Gerry and Theresa may have been offered, past couples have earned anywhere from $25,000- $1 million for airing their weddings on TV."

Poor Theresa bought into the tightly crafted GB persona and thought Gerry was a prince. Um, no. She seemed a lot less giddy once the ex's account was made public. And much less happy after all after getting to know the real him, who is controlling and cheap per his ex.

He does seem controlling and largely full of sh*t, lots of talking and yet saying little of substance. Tedious. She must have lacked the depth and intellect to see this and/or been so hungry for a fantasy and connection that she turned away from the signs. As people newly in love do....which is why people date for a couple years. To actually make a sound judgment after the biology of sexual connection mutes a bit. They both look foolish and are likely embarrassed.

[Anonymous]

I agree with the person that said they got married for a paycheck. Who’s to say they did not strike a deal in suite, make some quick bucks, put on show of century.
That’s why he seemed to change so quickly.
For Theresa.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree with the person that said they got married for a paycheck. Who’s to say they did not strike a deal in suite, make some quick bucks, put on show of century.
That’s why he seemed to change so quickly.
For Theresa.

This. I felt as if they were both acting and Theresa often wore a fake smile. But a woman who spent years alone and wasted time on awful dates with icky men can easily fall for a Gerry. Still I never could imagine how Theresa could take Gerry seriously after learning how poorly he treated Lesley and lied about her being the one while he was courting her for life.

[Anonymous]

Yes bachelor nation maybe b even in on it
Makes it more interesting
People still talking about it
They punked the nation

[Anonymous]

The Golden Bachelor was nice fantasy reality TV for those of us over 50 who can’t seem to find anyone for a fun night out on a decent date!

My over-50 friends and I enjoyed discussing the show, the fabulous contestants, and who cheesy Gerry would dump next. But we’re all over it now, not wasting time on this nonsense anymore (except we may group watch the first episode of Golden Bachelorette)… it’s back to book club or the movies.

[Anonymous]

Not having watched prior shoes in that genre it took only a quick Google search and quick review of his older pictures to determine that he was basically an average working Joe from Indiana. And he had been given quite the glow up (the suits, the nose, the hair, the tan). Large numbers of the American audience were duped, not just Theresa. More evidence of the dumbing down of America I suppose. I knew it was stupid the whole time but still, we watched. So I can't critique anyone. It was a provocative concept. But stupid, yes.