Hot dads, not so hot moms

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Anonymous wrote:You do sound mean OP. I used to be hot and now I'm 50 pounds overweight. My DH is still hot...he didn't have a baby! Don't judge too harshly...it may be you someday.

Oh, I want to be understanding. Aging, pregnancy, metabolism, and life generally have a way of taking a toll on our bodies. But, come on, you didn't have a 50 pound baby!

Seriously?

Yeah. There are all kinds of reasons people gain weight and having a baby is one of them. But, beyond a certain point, the baby is just an excuse.

It is not an excuse. It is a legitimate change that happens to a woman's body, often more than once. If you think a pregnancy involves nothing but the weight of a baby and placenta, you are very undereducated by Western standards.

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As a man, I look forward to the day when I just have no more fucks to give and start wearing dress socks with my shorts while mowing the lawn.

As a woman, I'd like to inquire what would be proper attire for mowing the lawn?

Usually - shorts, t-shirt, white socks, tennis shoes.

Pants!! Otherwise your legs will get shredded by flying debris.

My neighbor mows half-naked. He has no more fucks to give

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Anonymous wrote:well this thread got weird and racial quickly

please, white women, tell us more of your thoughts on "asians", they are so well thought out and valuable, please bestow your insights on us

White women are just as sick of your stereotypes. Doesn't feel good, does it?

The truth hurts. Seriously, how can you argue that white women don't age faster? It's weird that you are in denial. Who do you think supports the anti-wrinkle, anti-aging skincare market?

I don't know. Do you? Link, please.

There is a segment of white female population who are permanently toasted. Their skin isn't aging badly, it is badly damaged. White women who don't regularly tan this way or another age just fine. I understand your butthurt. You're not pretty

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Biologically, it's just a lot easier for some people to lose weight than others. Yes, some of it is an excuse, no doubt, but some people can lose weight easier than others.

Also, for many women, getting rid of belly fat is really hard. There are thinish women who have a hard time getting rid of belly fat. I confess, I am such a woman.

For most truly obese people, it's probably lack of self control, rather than anything else. I know, there are medical issues that can cause people to gain weight, but I doubt most truly obese people have medical issues that caused them to become that obese.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's *awesome* to see an attractive man with a not-so-attractive woman who has give him kids. This tells me that the man really loves his wife for who she is, and not just for what she looks like; that he won't abandon her because she has some issues. I would hope my DH is the same if this kind of thing should ever happen to me, though DH is not hot attractive

Unfortunately, many of these men who stick with the not-so-attractive wife seek sex elsewhere.

The question is: Do they find it? Most attractive single women have enough common sense not to engage married men. Most married women are frumpy to this or that degree. What would be the point?

I work with several Asian women. Not sure about the parentage, but me thinks the Philippines and Thailand. Ugly as sin. No matter how well they age, they are ugly as sin.

There are many beautiful Thai and Filipinas. I see a lot of them in SoCal married to white men. I've worked with a lot of "ugly as sin" white women.

Point is: there are beautiful women of all ethnicities. But generally, non-white women's skin tend to age better.

Unless a woman wears sunscreen. I'm white and age much better than all my non-white counterparts of roughly the same age. With the exception of very very dark-skinned ones when... well, you really can't tell, to be frank. None of them are pretty to begin with. I also find that many Asian women have apple-shaped bodies and don't carry weight well at all. Yes, they absolutely get fat just like the rest of us.

I guess we all have our biases

Daily gym goer here who is always looking at bodies. This is the truth!

Obese is obese. If they are apples shape, it means that they are obese. White women don't carry that much weight well, either. Does it matter what fruit shape they have? More white women are overweight than more Asian women. This is the truth, too.

Nope. Depending on hormonal make-up, women (and men, BTW) gain weigh differently. Ashley Graham may be obese, but that bitch won't give you the time of the day. She rocks it.

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Anonymous wrote:Jesus OP. I mean it's one thing to think this. That's bad enough. But to post it shows that really have no sense at all of how totally awful it is.

Np. Who cares, it's all anonymous anyway. People post what we're all wondering about anyway. Yes people notice when an attractive fit man is accompanied by a frumpy, overweight wife.

My SIL is outright ugly. Strangely, I think DH is decent looking. But that very same face doesn't work for a woman so well

Anyway, she's been married to a fairly attractive dude for years. He is a dick. He is annoying as shit. I don't think even she would marry him if they were not as young and dumb at the time!

I feel so bad for your SIL. Oddly enough, you don't seem to be commenting on her weight, so it's a step beyond the fat shaming. You are basically saying she hit the genetic lottery (of ugliness) which is, of course, totally out of her control. AND in addition to having your horrible self as a SIL her husband's a dick. Yeesh. Not an example of someone getting to the point where 'it's what's on the inside that counts.' Are you religious, by any chance? Do you feel ok about acting this way, being so judgy and cruel, when you are a church goer? Unbelievable.

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Anonymous wrote:Biologically, it's just a lot easier for some people to lose weight than others. Yes, some of it is an excuse, no doubt, but some people can lose weight easier than others.

Also, for many women, getting rid of belly fat is really hard. There are thinish women who have a hard time getting rid of belly fat. I confess, I am such a woman.

For most truly obese people, it's probably lack of self control, rather than anything else. I know, there are medical issues that can cause people to gain weight, but I doubt most truly obese people have medical issues that caused them to become that obese.

Oh, so you criticize obese people, but not yourself for your fat stomach?

I work hard for my flat stomach. I wouldn't say I'm skinny, but I'm 5'8" and a size 2/4. NOT skinny - DD boobs and broad shoulders. I refuse to gain weight in my stomach so I work out a LOT, so you're full of shit. Start running half marathons and doing planks! And stop making fun of obese people, many of whom I've noticed lately seem to have defined waists somehow.