Hot dads, not so hot moms

[Anonymous]

I know a couple like this. She's from a wealthy/ connected family. Maybe that's the explanation.

[Anonymous]

It should be illegal, the man can get ugly of her is rich

[Anonymous]

Beard

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know a couple like this. She's from a wealthy/ connected family. Maybe that's the explanation.

Those folks can afford plastic surgery (tummy tucks, boob jobs, etc) and lipo if they want it. Maybe they simply love each other as is?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Beard

Ha, no. Does it make any sense at all that a man would choose an overweight, not put together woman for appearances sake? Lol. Might want to rethink the logic on that sweetie.

[Anonymous]

Pregnancy and Having kids really deteriorates some women's appearance, but doesn't affect men at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know a couple like this. She's from a wealthy/ connected family. Maybe that's the explanation.

Those folks can afford plastic surgery (tummy tucks, boob jobs, etc) and lipo if they want it. Maybe they simply love each other as is?

No. They are one of those wealthy families that are not flashy. OLD money.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps she is in the same shape she was when they met.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Dh has an insane metabolism and can eat 4xs what I eat and doesn't gain an ounce. I, on the other hand, go over 1300 calories and eat some bread and I'm a bloated mess. We both exercise and eat healthy. We met when we were both dorky college kids and fell in love then and we are still crazy in love. Active sex life, madly in love. It happens, even if my BMI is overweight. I have friends who are more closely matched in looks and they're miserable...don't judge a book by the cover!

This. Dh actually had quite a crush on me before we wound up getting together. I was the hot one when we met. A decade and a half, two kids and a metabolism shift later - he was the hot one.

But we got together because we were compatible and it was easy, fun and natural for us to be together. That is still the case today .

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Metabolism shift.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he likes bigger women gasp.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who judges people for not looking "put together" at the pool of all places? [/b] Op, you need a hobby[b].

And don't make the hobby husband stealing...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Dh has an insane metabolism and can eat 4xs what I eat and doesn't gain an ounce. I, on the other hand, go over 1300 calories and eat some bread and I'm a bloated mess. We both exercise and eat healthy. We met when we were both dorky college kids and fell in love then and we are still crazy in love. Active sex life, madly in love. It happens, even if my BMI is overweight. I have friends who are more closely matched in looks and they're miserable...don't judge a book by the cover!

This. Dh actually had quite a crush on me before we wound up getting together. I was the hot one when we met. A decade and a half, two kids and a metabolism shift later - he was the hot one.

But we got together because we were compatible and it was easy, fun and natural for us to be together. That is still the case today .

.

+1

[Anonymous]

She's inherited wealth. He's gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Dh has an insane metabolism and can eat 4xs what I eat and doesn't gain an ounce. I, on the other hand, go over 1300 calories and eat some bread and I'm a bloated mess. We both exercise and eat healthy. We met when we were both dorky college kids and fell in love then and we are still crazy in love. Active sex life, madly in love. It happens, even if my BMI is overweight. I have friends who are more closely matched in looks and they're miserable...don't judge a book by the cover!

This. Dh actually had quite a crush on me before we wound up getting together. I was the hot one when we met. A decade and a half, two kids and a metabolism shift later - he was the hot one.

But we got together because we were compatible and it was easy, fun and natural for us to be together. That is still the case today .

.

+1

+1 I envy you two!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Dh has an insane metabolism and can eat 4xs what I eat and doesn't gain an ounce. I, on the other hand, go over 1300 calories and eat some bread and I'm a bloated mess. We both exercise and eat healthy. We met when we were both dorky college kids and fell in love then and we are still crazy in love. Active sex life, madly in love. It happens, even if my BMI is overweight. I have friends who are more closely matched in looks and they're miserable...don't judge a book by the cover!

This. Dh actually had quite a crush on me before we wound up getting together. I was the hot one when we met. A decade and a half, two kids and a metabolism shift later - he was the hot one.

But we got together because we were compatible and it was easy, fun and natural for us to be together. That is still the case today .

.

Metabolism shift.

Yes. I became prediabetic and I wasn't even fat when it started. It's not something I can just diet away. At some point I will become a diabetic - it sucks. In the meantime it is way easier for me to put on flab and way harder for me to take it off w/o some pretty significant carb/calorie restriction.