Missing Manassas Park woman - Mamta Kafle Bhatt

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling that Mamta’s blood family may be abusive too. That’s why she so easily fell victim to her abusive husband. If she had family to lean on it wouldn’t have happened.
The child might actually be doing best if she is with that friend, not family (and in the U.S. and not Nepal).

To add, I have no skin in the game and am a complete stranger to them. I just know the pattern of abusive families and what Nadia is writing is very believable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling that Mamta’s blood family may be abusive too. That’s why she so easily fell victim to her abusive husband. If she had family to lean on it wouldn’t have happened.
The child might actually be doing best if she is with that friend, not family (and in the U.S. and not Nepal).

The family is half way around the world! How was she supposed to lean on them? And apparently she called her mother 3 times a day, so there’s that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling that Mamta’s blood family may be abusive too. That’s why she so easily fell victim to her abusive husband. If she had family to lean on it wouldn’t have happened.
The child might actually be doing best if she is with that friend, not family (and in the U.S. and not Nepal).

To add, I have no skin in the game and am a complete stranger to them. I just know the pattern of abusive families and what Nadia is writing is very believable.

Her family is from Nepal, uneducated and living in a village. What exactly did you think they could do from there? Do you really think their daughter was telling them what was going on? DV is real. Mamta was a victim and victims have a difficult time leaving because they feel trapped or threatened by their abuser and they usually hide the truth from their families. Add to that, the complexity that she had no family here. If a person who is suffering domestic abuse says her friends and family that her husband is apologetic and she wants to give him a chance, I think it is difficult for them to go and report the social services behind her back when she is trying to make relationship work. Also looking at Mamta’s fb profile, she doesn’t seem like a person who would show her pain and difficulties to others. She always looked bubbly, happy and celebrating. She has many posts and videos where shes talking about her husband being the most loving and best person ever. Now, after almost a month, connecting dots and pieces, people know the extent if the abuse she endured. May be her friends and family only knew some bits and pieces but not fully aware of the situation. And I can only imagine the suffering of her parents who havent even found the body of their daughter. Knowing about them from these posts, it seems like they won’t be able to come here, read these posts written in english and defend themselves or say their truth. Therefore, I think the focus should be on finding mamta, getting justice for her and advocating for other women who are being abused to come forward and take steps to come out of the situation rather than indirectly blaming the family and friends again and again for their inaction, adding to their grief and guilt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling that Mamta’s blood family may be abusive too. That’s why she so easily fell victim to her abusive husband. If she had family to lean on it wouldn’t have happened.
The child might actually be doing best if she is with that friend, not family (and in the U.S. and not Nepal).

To add, I have no skin in the game and am a complete stranger to them. I just know the pattern of abusive families and what Nadia is writing is very believable.

DP. Agree.

[Anonymous]

I hope she is located soon.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/police-ramp-search-missing-manassas-130352863.html

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope she is located soon.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/police-ramp-search-missing-manassas-130352863.html

You mean her body right? I’m not trying to be crass, but there is no evidence that she’s in life. In fact evidence within the house shows that she was dragged out of the house dead.

[Anonymous]

Obviously, PP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling that Mamta’s blood family may be abusive too. That’s why she so easily fell victim to her abusive husband. If she had family to lean on it wouldn’t have happened.
The child might actually be doing best if she is with that friend, not family (and in the U.S. and not Nepal).

To add, I have no skin in the game and am a complete stranger to them. I just know the pattern of abusive families and what Nadia is writing is very believable.

Her family is from Nepal, uneducated and living in a village. What exactly did you think they could do from there? Do you really think their daughter was telling them what was going on? DV is real. Mamta was a victim and victims have a difficult time leaving because they feel trapped or threatened by their abuser and they usually hide the truth from their families. Add to that, the complexity that she had no family here. If a person who is suffering domestic abuse says her friends and family that her husband is apologetic and she wants to give him a chance, I think it is difficult for them to go and report the social services behind her back when she is trying to make relationship work. Also looking at Mamta’s fb profile, she doesn’t seem like a person who would show her pain and difficulties to others. She always looked bubbly, happy and celebrating. She has many posts and videos where shes talking about her husband being the most loving and best person ever. Now, after almost a month, connecting dots and pieces, people know the extent if the abuse she endured. May be her friends and family only knew some bits and pieces but not fully aware of the situation. And I can only imagine the suffering of her parents who havent even found the body of their daughter. Knowing about them from these posts, it seems like they won’t be able to come here, read these posts written in english and defend themselves or say their truth. Therefore, I think the focus should be on finding mamta, getting justice for her and advocating for other women who are being abused to come forward and take steps to come out of the situation rather than indirectly blaming the family and friends again and again for their inaction, adding to their grief and guilt.

+1.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Obviously, PP.

Maybe to you, but there’s a bunch of crazies on those Facebook site who are holding out hope that she’s still alive! Unreal

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling that Mamta’s blood family may be abusive too. That’s why she so easily fell victim to her abusive husband. If she had family to lean on it wouldn’t have happened.
The child might actually be doing best if she is with that friend, not family (and in the U.S. and not Nepal).

+1
Something is not quite right in regards to her family. Alarm bells having been going off in my own mind about them as more information has come out.

Mostly I feel so deeply sorry for Mamta (and her baby), my heart breaks for her and all that she had to endure. What a horrible, sad story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a feeling that Mamta’s blood family may be abusive too. That’s why she so easily fell victim to her abusive husband. If she had family to lean on it wouldn’t have happened.
The child might actually be doing best if she is with that friend, not family (and in the U.S. and not Nepal).

+1
Something is not quite right in regards to her family. Alarm bells having been going off in my own mind about them as more information has come out.

Mostly I feel so deeply sorry for Mamta (and her baby), my heart breaks for her and all that she had to endure. What a horrible, sad story.

Agree completely. Her brother had already posted some questionable comments.

Nadia may be a bit of an attention whore an opportunist, but her efforts DID help press police. And she probably won't harm the little girl.

Mamta's parents are not US citizens, and may not be able to stay here very long. So if you think they should get custody, this child will have to be raised in Nepal.

My hope is that she's raised with someone safe in the US, but still involved and exposed to Nepali culture.

[Anonymous]

What did her brother write that raises a red flag?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What did her brother write that raises a red flag?

He never wrote anything publicly - all we have are unverified hearsay accounts from Nadia that he wanted the GFM . I do not trust her a bit and none of us have no idea what the brother said or why but the brother has vehemently denied that version.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did her brother write that raises a red flag?

He never wrote anything publicly - all we have are unverified hearsay accounts from Nadia that he wanted the GFM . I do not trust her a bit and none of us have no idea what the brother said or why but the brother has vehemently denied that version.

I think it’s great that Nadia raised awareness and coordinated searches. But as the situation has changed (Mamta is almost certainly deceased, with her very likely killer behind bars), she needs to stay in her lane. Now, she seems to be focused on involving herself in personal family drama and spreading rumors. Whether true or not, not sure how it helps the investigation or Mamta’s family at this point, nor is it really any of her business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What did her brother write that raises a red flag?

He never wrote anything publicly - all we have are unverified hearsay accounts from Nadia that he wanted the GFM . I do not trust her a bit and none of us have no idea what the brother said or why but the brother has vehemently denied that version.

He publicly asked for the GoFundMe money to be sent to the family (this was before the husband was arrested). Nepal is a very poor country, and opportunist family members are, unfortunately, also a reality.