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My October birthday kid went on time and is the oldest in his class. He was almost 6 by the time he started K. We had to pay for an entire extra year of daycare.
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The poster you are responding to is a NY idiot who doesn't understand their state's cutoff date is later than most. |
Weird because i know a bunch. |
Spring and summer kids are regularly held back as either privates demand it as its easier for them OR the parents want an advantage. If your child misses the cut off, they are not held back. |
10/15 is the reasonable cut off. I have a September kid and we sent ours and it worked out fine. Academically they always did well so holding back would have done them a disservice. |
We held our September kid back. It was terrible academically and they had to skip a grade. I don't care what teachers think. They often do whats best for them, not the kids in Elementary. I am so tired of the boy hate. If a boy isn't prepared you need to look at the parents and preschool, who did not prepare them. The play based preschools are a waste of time. |
You just want the cut off moved up so you can justify holding back your kids. They should be grouped by age and sent on time. |
Since they aren’t grouped by age the one size fits all doesn’t work. |
DP: I’d like the cutoff moved so it aligns with what’s developmentally appropriate for 4 year olds. You will find no peer reviewed study that encourages four year olds to get 35 minutes of outdoor play in the school day. |
Redshirting a spring kid would be greedy, as they’re already slated to be on the older half. |
My child had no problem going a few weeks before turning five. As a parent you can give them outdoor time before and after school. Its not the schools responsibility, its yours. |
In theory they are grouped by age but those who hold their kids back change the grouping. |
If you wanted your four year old in a classroom all day that’s fine. My kid deserves better. |
She said it was for a few weeks and he could handle it. No problems for him. The cut off date in some schools in the 70s and 80s was January 15. In other schools it was December 31 until very recently. I’m not sure how many because we moved and our new school is September first. |
I went to half day kindergarten. Don’t see that anymore. I can think of a few other changes. Parents are being reactive. Make kindergarten it was in the decades ago, until then parents have to do what’s right for their child. |