Bennifer Revisited

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Anonymous wrote:I’m still missing JLo and ARod. He treated her like a queen and their kids were so cute together. What happened????

He cheated on her.

And did you not see the same miserable look on his face in every photo op and red carpet event that Ben has. It was emasculating for him to be trotted around like that as second fiddle.

A-Rod has a looooonnnnngggggggg history of being a cheater in a big way. He's cheated in every marriage and every relationship and he's been with a TON of celebrity women.

J-Lo definitely has 'bad boy syndrome'. Every guy she's gone hard for had a history of cheating and a host of other issues. PDiddy, Ben, Marc Anthony (4 marriages), etc.

She should go date an accountant or something.

Yeah I think she and Jennifer Aniston have the same problem, determination to be part of a power couple, and that rarely works out for the women!

I don’t understand Jennifer Lopez. Why did she choose Ben again? She is beautiful and successful. She could pick anyone, any bad boys.

the appeal is pretty obvious. he dumped her, married someone else, and this is like him saying "I made the mistake by marrying Jennifer garner. I've never stopped loving you. I've been in love with you for all these years. You are the most incredible woman of them all".

it makes perfect sense. I mean, I even get that part. what I don't get why can't she just enjoy the relationship and not make it so performative.

Because she’s JLo?

[Anonymous]

I don't really get the big deal. He has been to a ton of these awards ceremonies. They are long and dull with a lot of rules for the cameras. We all have times we are tired, bored, irritable, annoyed, frustrated etc. This is a work / industry event for him. I am glad there aren't cameras on me at boring industry events. He isn't a performing seal.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't really get the big deal. He has been to a ton of these awards ceremonies. They are long and dull with a lot of rules for the cameras. We all have times we are tired, bored, irritable, annoyed, frustrated etc. This is a work / industry event for him. I am glad there aren't cameras on me at boring industry events. He isn't a performing seal.

Then he shouldn’t go. He’s not a trained seal, correct. So instead of going and making a “statement” by being obviously bored and uninterested and somewhat standoff-ish to his new wife, he could have stayed home and let her go solo or with a friend/family member who might have enjoyed themselves.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m still missing JLo and ARod. He treated her like a queen and their kids were so cute together. What happened????

He cheated on her.

And did you not see the same miserable look on his face in every photo op and red carpet event that Ben has. It was emasculating for him to be trotted around like that as second fiddle.

A-Rod has a looooonnnnngggggggg history of being a cheater in a big way. He's cheated in every marriage and every relationship and he's been with a TON of celebrity women.

J-Lo definitely has 'bad boy syndrome'. Every guy she's gone hard for had a history of cheating and a host of other issues. PDiddy, Ben, Marc Anthony (4 marriages), etc.

She should go date an accountant or something.

Yeah I think she and Jennifer Aniston have the same problem, determination to be part of a power couple, and that rarely works out for the women!

I don’t understand Jennifer Lopez. Why did she choose Ben again? She is beautiful and successful. She could pick anyone, any bad boys.

She lives in her own bubbled reality, moreso than I think most other celebrities, which says something. Her beauty and success are externals, who she is inside is anyone's guess but actually I don't think she could pick anyone and I also don't think she is a particularly healthy, flexible, emotionally aware person who can let go of things or ideas or ambitions easily.. You know like the rest of us mere mortals who live in reality, which includes losses, and pain and aging. Affleck broke her heart and she saw an opportunity to undo it and be "renewed" by the new fabulous love story. She will hold on for dear life until her bubble bursts. And that will be deeply sad for her. She has a lot of mental health issues, evidenced by her need for control and her chaotic track record in relationships. (A history of intense panic, anxiety, probably ocd/perfectionism, depression, etc) But her persona and her flash cover it over. I see her as quite vulnerable

[Anonymous]

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Oh my gosh. This is hysterical:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/657044996430068?fs=e&s=TIeQ9V&mibextid=0NULKw

Her facial expressions are just as bad. I call them "mom at church" face. Pissed, but unsuccessfully trying to hold it in.

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Oh my gosh. This is hysterical:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/657044996430068?fs=e&s=TIeQ9V&mibextid=0NULKw

Her facial expressions are just as bad. I call them "mom at church" face. Pissed, but unsuccessfully trying to hold it in.

Literally thought the same thing. This is me reproaching my husband at synagogue on Yom Kippur when he asks when we can leave.

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Oh my gosh. This is hysterical:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/657044996430068?fs=e&s=TIeQ9V&mibextid=0NULKw

It’s cringe to watch them together

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Anonymous wrote:I don't really get the big deal. He has been to a ton of these awards ceremonies. They are long and dull with a lot of rules for the cameras. We all have times we are tired, bored, irritable, annoyed, frustrated etc. This is a work / industry event for him. I am glad there aren't cameras on me at boring industry events. He isn't a performing seal.

Their individual actions really aren’t a big deal. People are responding to the relationship dynamic, which is going to be under intense scrutiny because of the whole found my one true love story they keep feeding the press at every opportunity. If they were just a normal chill couple it’s unlikely anyone would have noticed this. But they both have court at the press for years. And tried to sell a story that they want to control.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with Ben wanting to stay home. There’s also nothing wrong with Jennifer wanting her husband to support her at an important event. Where there is conflict is their relationship dynamic….Healthy couples would be able to work through this. I don’t want to go, but I know this is important to you, so I’ll go to this one and pull it together. Compromise. I know you don’t want to go, so stay home from this one, but it would be really great if you show up to the next one. Lots of different ways healthy couples could compromise with this type of scenario. It seems like they chose the passive aggressive route where he is there not clearly hates it and won’t hide it and she is pissed and nagging.

[Anonymous]

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Oh my gosh. This is hysterical:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/657044996430068?fs=e&s=TIeQ9V&mibextid=0NULKw

Her facial expressions are just as bad. I call them "mom at church" face. Pissed, but unsuccessfully trying to hold it in.

I think it’s because he got caught sipping booze when he’s supposed to be sober.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Oh my gosh. This is hysterical:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/657044996430068?fs=e&s=TIeQ9V&mibextid=0NULKw

Her facial expressions are just as bad. I call them "mom at church" face. Pissed, but unsuccessfully trying to hold it in.

I think it’s because he got caught sipping booze when he’s supposed to be sober.

The seat filler by them claims it's because JLo was scrolling on her phone during a break and became annoyed when she realized his glum expressions were already being meme-d. Of course he's such a child he dug down further.

[Anonymous]

This is way too much investment. A couple was having issues in public. It happens. Hopefully it’s not their norm.

[Anonymous]

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Oh my gosh. This is hysterical:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/657044996430068?fs=e&s=TIeQ9V&mibextid=0NULKw

Her facial expressions are just as bad. I call them "mom at church" face. Pissed, but unsuccessfully trying to hold it in.

I think it’s because he got caught sipping booze when he’s supposed to be sober.

The seat filler by them claims it's because JLo was scrolling on her phone during a break and became annoyed when she realized his glum expressions were already being meme-d. Of course he's such a child he dug down further.

I’d be embarrassed too. It’s more a reflection on him though. He kept going.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is way too much investment. A couple was having issues in public. It happens. Hopefully it’s not their norm.

We’re only invested because she makes their relationship out to be some fairytale. Just be real. Every relationship has problems. Everyone is flawed in one way or another.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Oh my gosh. This is hysterical:
https://www.facebook.com/reel/657044996430068?fs=e&s=TIeQ9V&mibextid=0NULKw

Her facial expressions are just as bad. I call them "mom at church" face. Pissed, but unsuccessfully trying to hold it in.

I think it’s because he got caught sipping booze when he’s supposed to be sober.

The seat filler by them claims it's because JLo was scrolling on her phone during a break and became annoyed when she realized his glum expressions were already being meme-d. Of course he's such a child he dug down further.

I saw this too. Nothing to see here. He was trolling the media knowing he was being made into a meme. Jen was apparently laughing and showing him the memes.

[Anonymous]

Sure she was. Once she realized she was being recorded