
She didn’t call the cops, though. She eventually got off and rented a different bike. The video proves that. So all these “weaponizing her tears to get him killed” scenarios don’t make a lot of sense. |
So he was basically scamming then... yeah. Whether or not that's normalized in NYC it's not looking good for this group of losers. The more information that comes out the more it's obvious they were in the wrong |
Often? Come on now. This thread is just making it clearer than in the future the cops should be called to avoid engaging with the aggressor. Let the cops sort it out. Who has the time to wait and see if Twitter mobs thinks a woman is actually in danger or not? It's not up for a group vote. |
PP here. Right. But I’m explaining why this situation doesn’t really hit the same if “races/genders are reversed”. Like…there’s not going to be a black guy “weaponizing tears” because a group of white female teenagers re-docked his bike. |
Living in NYC is all about playing the system to your advantage. There's a reason why the phrase "don't hate the player, hate the game" was coined by a modern philosopher from Jersey. She violated the rules of the street. He violated the rules of polite society. There's no Good Guy here. |
LOL. "Rules of the street" is not a real thing. Try using that one in a court of law, bud. She was clearly in the right and there's no talking your way out of it |
Another factor:
When you use the app to locate a bike, it will tell you how many e-bikes versus regular bikes are a particular station. If you take bikeshare to commute, it's common to check nearby stations on your app before you even leave your workplace, and choose the one with most bikes, and if you want an e-bike, the one most likely to have e-bikes. That's the problem with the guy docking the bike to reset it. If he did so, the bike will show up people's apps as available, and someone might walk t that exact station specifically to grab that bike. The app doesn't say "1 e-bike but a guy wants to use it in 3 minutes once his app resets." I personally would be incredibly annoyed if I went to a station specifically to use an e-bike I knew was there, only to be told that I couldn't have it because someone else was going to rent it in a few minutes. Especially if I'd just worked a long day, and especially if I was pregnant. Also, regarding whether he was near or touching the bike when she got on it -- she says he wasn't, his sister says he was. Generally with a dispute like that, I'm betting the truth is somewhere in between. Like he was nearby but not right next to it, and the PA might have suspected he was waiting on the bike but decided "eh, it's the last e-bike and I'm ready to rent it now, tough" and got on anyway. I don't take either of them 100% at their word, but I still think the PA is more in the right because she actually rented the bike and because I find the guys' behavior in getting physical with her to be absolutely crossing a line that no one should cross. Don't lay hands on a person over a bike, come on. |
If the bike was docked for 6-7 minutes (per the receipt) and he wasn’t near it (she says; sister claims a little implausibly that the pregnant nurse “jumped over” her brother), she didn’t violate anything. If a bunch of guys ran up and redocked the bike with her on it, that explains her surprise and that she thought she was entitled to this unowned bike. |
I actually do think there's a "Good Guy" here because I subscribe to the rules of polite society and don't care about the rules of the street when the come into conflict. Like the rules of the street might dictate that you can kill someone if they steal from you, but if I'm on a jury for that case, I don't really care -- murder is morally wrong and also illegal and you don't get to make up different rules because you want to. |
That was always, from the moment the videographer yells "fake crying" on the video, an argument they were making to justify their abuse of her. It was an excuse for disregarding her well being. The people who have been attacking her have also argued that she's either faking her pregnancy or using her pregnancy to try and elicit sympathy -- they cannot just allow "yes, this woman is pregnant and might be more sensitive to being touched or pushed in the stomach." Every argument is designed to dehumanize her and deny that she has any rights here or that anything she says or does should be treated as valid. |
There's a lot of people from NYC who would disagree with you and would argue that she "started it." I know, it's all very juvenile. I'd want to know more about how close he was to the bike. If it was obvious to her that the kids were taking a break and waiting for the bikes, she's pretty snake-like to try to take it. You don't do that in NYC, there's unwritten codes of conduct that apply in NYC (and don't make sense elsewhere). Scarcity mindset is for real in NYC. |
Well then we should acknowledge that NYC is full of knuckle dragging mouth breathers. Society’s foundation is a system of laws that we all agree to. The “rules of the street” don’t matter in NYC or anywhere else. That’s a thug mentality. |
‘Laws of the street’ sound like justifying a bully. |
What you’re explaining is that you don’t think white women should ever be able to express genuine emotion in public. We get it. |
Stop trying to say it's a NY thing and accept it's simply a racial and possibly gendered thing. If it was a large group of white women who had rented/used bikes, returned them and were no longer using them, and were standing around, bullying and blocking anyone from accessing them, you're telling me New Yorkers would back them up?! Please. They would be called "entitled" until the cows came home. This is about a kid who was being a jerk and a woman who got attacked and dragged through the mud without a second thought |