High doses of adderall still dont help dh remember a single thing

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Or ms? My friends husband had ms and first sign was stuff like this


Can women get ms?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:How old is he?

You can get dementia in your 40's.

Could be a brain tumor etc or something else going on.


How is his speech? Does he not do activities he used to be able to do? Like speak a foreign language, play an instrument, drive, or stuff like that?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Dementia screening, UTI, sleep apnea.

It's not ADHD


As someone with severe ADHD I disagree. Lying is well know coping mechanism for those with ADHD. He needs CBT more than the meds. Life changing.

For what it is worth; he isn't lying to "you", he is making room or note in his brain, what I call "rescheduling". I have told her that I have done it, so now I need to do it or I will be lying.

His brain clock works nothing like yours. Where you remember long stretches of time and memories, events of the last 15 years, he remembers 15 years and one day ago and now with a few big moments in the middle. He hasn't forgotten everything else, it will just take some prompting or a deep reason for him to recall the other meemories. When he does he will remember them in infinite more detail than you could ever imagine.

Please remember, there isn't anything wrong with his brain, it just functions differently than yours. How you view his brain as off or odd is how he views brain. He is not an oddity.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This sounds like a million things other than adhd.



+1
Anonymous
Men tune out angry women. Literally he hears nothing you say, doesn’t remember what you told him or asked him to do.
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